He keeps dogging me about my weight even though he's not in shape and I've told him it hurts my feelings. What should I do if he's attracted to skinny girls and I'm curvy but pretty in the face?
2007-03-26 15:34:41 · 10 answers · asked by eternity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your situation will just get worse as time passes. You need to make a decision about staying with him or putting up with his critisism. Do you really want to live your life feeling put down all the time? You won't be able to change him or his feelings. I couldn't imagine being with a man who was attracted to other woman and made me feel less about myself. Good luck with this situation!
2007-03-26 15:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Criticism is often a way of affirming superiority. Since he thinks that he's better that you, don't even bother staying with him. You don't need the psychological damage that this can incur.
Best wishes ;-)
2007-03-26 15:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by mikha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you both get a membership to a gym. Tell him if he wants you to shape up, he has to do it too. Either that, or get off your back about it!
2007-03-26 15:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Poppy7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry him. If he makes you feel like this now, then your marriage with him will be mental hell.
Find someone who will want to put you on a pedestal.
2007-03-26 15:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by jillvaughn000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump him its a form of abuse where he tries to break u down so u r dependent on him . hes probaly jealous and needs to control you.
2007-03-26 15:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTH IS WRONG WITH HIM?!
Tell him that is he doesn't shut his trap, then you'll get really mad. And then if he proceeds, don't talk to him until he apoligizes.
2007-03-26 15:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by Juliette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to what he says.if he makes you feel bad ,make fun of him and say thats what you have been doing to me.
2007-03-26 15:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Gag S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him well you can lose weight but he can't change his face! then dump his azz!
2007-03-26 15:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by MandaPanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he dogs you now he will hound you later tell him goodbye
2007-03-26 15:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by aggadan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY the HECK is he your fiance????????????????
no respect.....
2007-03-26 15:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by ThinkPink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋