Would this freak you out? Would you be indifferent? I like to be honest about myself, and feel that someone I was with should be okay with the fact that I'm bi... but sometimes I feel like guys take this to mean that I'm really sexual, and want to hookup with everyone etc. Many times, people will ask me to participate in threesomes and such. Should I stop telling people that I'm bi so that I'll be taken more seriously?
2007-03-26 15:39:23 · 9 answers · asked by sym pathetic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are completely right about that guys think that if you are bi that you are really sexual and that you want to hook up with everyone. I would keep this information to myself. No one needs to know your sexual orientation. That is private information. Do not feel obligated to give that out to anyone unless you choose to. Good luck.
2007-03-26 15:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by nelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends .. do you just like kissing girls or do you want to pursue a relationship? ya know i mean .. and if you are telling people you are bi and they are negative or comments that you just dont like, then yes I would wait to tell them until you are more comfortable with the person. Unforunately a lot, definately not all, but a lot of guys have fantasies of two girls being together and they want to watch. go figure. but if you are not comfortable with the way people are treating i would wait to tell them.
2007-03-26 22:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe save it until further into the relationship. Don't hide it, but don't bring it up until it comes up naturally. By then, you will know each other better and he'll know if you're into threesomes, really sexual, etc because he'll know you.
2007-03-28 16:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find the fact that you're bi to be very erotic! I think I'd love a girl like that.
2007-03-27 14:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a dear friend that told me a couple months ago, that she was bi....and it hurt me to know that. The reason was, a girl should be able to love only a man, and try to please him. But when two girls get together, what can they do...mostly kissing and sucking. To me, that is not love....it is a sign that the girl is a slut, and not capable of receiving real love from a man.
I told my friend that I was hurt about her decision to spread her love to both girls and guys. She said that she had been with 16 different guys, and none of them fulfilled her satisfaction that she wanted. She told me that I was welcomed to give it a go, and see if I could please her, but, she doubted it.
2007-03-26 22:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I told my man that i was bi.He did not seem to have a problem with it.All that he asked was that I not be with a female while I'm in a relationship with him.Which i can understand.Then we have the guys who are very judge mental.I just try not to think about it.It's my life not theirs.
2007-03-26 23:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Babydoll 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when i meet girls out at bars and stuff and they come right out and tell me theyre bi right after meeting me i pretty much take it as a euphanism for slutty. and thats turned out to be the case for every one of those gals ive taken the time to get to know.
2007-03-26 22:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by comic book guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its a good idea to keep to yourself we live in a sex dominated society . i think your personal preferences should only be brought out when your more involved in knowing someone other than just advertising it. it seems as though your proud to be bi. i am proud of my thing but i dont whip it out everywhere i go
2007-03-26 22:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by aggadan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think people might be afraid to go out with you because of the fact not only would they have to worry about you cheating on them with guys BUT with girls also. which means they cant trust anybody..you know?
2007-03-26 22:42:50 · answer #9 · answered by Abercrombie Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋