Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

boy asked me out. i have an identical twin sister, but he doesn't know because we (me and him) are not in any classes with my twin. couldn't go out with the guy, called him up. sister heard me, made second call saying "i" could go, change of plans. SHE went out with him - turns out she likes him too. obviously, i was MAD!!!!!!

what do i do????????????? how should i tell her im NOT HAPPY?? tell him? get revenge?

2007-03-26 16:52:06 · 22 answers · asked by skigrrl66 3 in Singles & Dating

FBSM ?/???

2007-03-26 16:51:41 · 3 answers · asked by 武士道GatoSolitario 5 in Singles & Dating

ok...well this guy likes me and i like him...but we aren't going out...but it seems as if we are both trying to make each other jealous by flirting with our friends...and i don't know if it is wrong to do it...b/c i know that he just wants attention...and so do i...so...yeah...

2007-03-26 16:51:31 · 22 answers · asked by Ava D 2 in Singles & Dating

When playing background music during the dinner part of reception, should the songs play like a store-bought CD or have a longer pause between each song?

Which way do you think would be better?

2007-03-26 16:50:20 · 4 answers · asked by Maria S 3 in Weddings

Ok i confronted my fiancee, because she was giving me Mix Signals in our conversation and there were signs that she might have Sleeped with her friend, but i have no physical proof, i asked her if she could discontinued the friendship with him and she said fine, but i need Closure and i don't know if i should confront the other guy and just ask him? She also told me that shes willing to take a lyieng detector test? Should i make her take the test or just move on and make it work, and sould i talk to the friend??

2007-03-26 16:50:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going through a ruff time at the moment with girls. and I need simple comebacks. Like she calls me a B I T C H and I said back to her B I T E M E W H O R E i know some of you are going to say dont bother and for those of you who are going to say that, dont even bother helping. I just need acouple.. Please help me.. thanks

2007-03-26 16:49:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This girl whos my friends sister-- we became friends because we had alot of things in common but i find her to be obsessive with me and also jealous.. Example I never told her i have an ebay account. she sent me an instant message saying i saw an item on ebay that looks just like something you would have, a book i told her about, she goes, is that you??
Freaked me out.
shes online like 24 hours a day,, if i dont im her, she says "WHATS WRONG, YOUR NOT TALKING"?

im really put off by this,, theres this guy we both know, hes in band, she visits his website about 20 times a day.. She also told me she wants to get him fired from his job at FUSE and to have me make up a story that he molested a kid..

Whats wrong with her?

2007-03-26 16:49:47 · 8 answers · asked by tbo 1 in Friends

what age would you like to see them at and why?

2007-03-26 16:49:01 · 24 answers · asked by bananapuddingwithcoolwhip 2 in Family

I asked this guy out for drinks about two weeks ago and he agreed. I saw him again and decided to set it up for this weekend. I asked him if he had my number.

He said he lost it (actually, he never had it to begin with - I never gave it to him). Then looked at me straight in the eye and said "I'm kind of involved right now and it's unofficial"....I don't know what that means exactly, so I just wished him well.

So I have two questions:
1) Why do you think he lied about losing my number when he didn't even have it?

2) Why did he lie, then change his mind to being in a relationship?

2007-03-26 16:48:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

YOur answer here

2007-03-26 16:48:20 · 1 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Singles & Dating

If I were your parent, I'd ground you from the computer. Go to bed ! Nite-Nite. . . .. .

2007-03-26 16:48:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf is not virgin.At first,I think I can accept her without care. Because love is more important than whether your gf is a virgin.
I know she loves me deeply. But then I start to be suspicious of her.I know it is unfair for her.But I really can not forget her past. That is terrible.
If you(girl) give your first to a boy(anyone),you can not easily forget him. Right?
We have aleady engaged ,it seems we have to depart. I can not match with her.She is a good girl.But I am a very,very traditional and common boy.
If your gf is not a virgin,and you care a little(even a little).Do not want to pretend you are open-minded. Just leave her. She nevery forgets her ex-bf.
Right?
I decide to part with her. Once I have the virgin care, I can not give happiness to her for ever.Because I have barrier in mind.
I was a virgin before I met her. We have already made love with each other. So I feel unfair .

2007-03-26 16:48:01 · 11 answers · asked by Prince 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad locked himself in the guest bedroom for 4 months and would only come out for work. one day my parents and i were going to the mall and he yelled at some kids for blocking our driveway. right then he started acting strange and a month later he went to the guest bedroom. now he went to his moms and plans to divorce. he's left home already 2 years ago and came crying back. my mom and i believe he's going through a midlife crisis, because he is 43 and he told me he just wants to enjoy life to the fullest which to me sounds like a crisis! what do you all think?

2007-03-26 16:47:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i snuck out today to hang out w/ friends at starbucks near my house...i got caught and i ruined all the trust i had w/ my mom

:( i regret it SO much...but now i really want to earn back the trust we had...what is the best thing to do?

2007-03-26 16:47:33 · 13 answers · asked by Kayla G 2 in Family

2007-03-26 16:47:25 · 15 answers · asked by fruitsalady2003 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If he looks me in the eyes while talking,smiles at me,sometimes for no reason, torments- pokes me with a tack,shines a flashlight in my eyes and the other day as he walked by me he tapped me on the head with his pop bottle. And then turned and smiled at me.
And this is also something random that happened,I decided to go visit some friends,we had some drinks and then decided to go get something to eat. So i walk in and i saw this guy that i've known from school,who is friends with my crush, he said hello, i then heard someone else say HI ,turned around and it was MY CRUSH. It was so random because we were going to go somewhere else. It was almost a week later before I saw him and i had decided i wanted to see if he would make a move to come and talk to me.Because i had always gone to him. He came over and smiled and said "So how was your chinese food?" I said that i didn't get it. Seemed he wanted an excuse to talk to me. Any thoughts? Should I ask him out?

2007-03-26 16:46:49 · 3 answers · asked by chickflick 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf is moving to south africa to live soon and the only contact that I will be able to have with her is through phone which will be expensive (I live in the UK). I would go there to live with her but it's too soon in the relationship for that sort of commitment, so we've been planning me making a few visits before me maybe living there in the future. I do love her, and I'm willing for our relationship to have only phone contact for ahwile. As anyone gone through something similar? Can a long distance relationship through phone calls last? We've been through a lot together and are pretty strong, we ain't one of these couples who brake-up easily, but this is a new test for us, probably our biggest one...so just wanna know who here is going through this sort of relationship at the moment and how is it going?

2007-03-26 16:46:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I had a gf I would be willing to let her pick out 75% of my clothes since I have no style. Isnt the goal to look good for your woman?

2007-03-26 16:46:01 · 8 answers · asked by Bark at the Moon 6 in Singles & Dating

If Guy had been with girl A for a couple years and engaged, why would he suddenly be so enamored with girl B (both good in bed)

2007-03-26 16:45:51 · 18 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance are planning to get married this summer and we are trying to get ideas for our wedding song. We would like something different, not something you hear often at weddings. Any suggestions?

2007-03-26 16:45:26 · 14 answers · asked by drebelievingams 2 in Weddings

My mom doesn't approve of me going out with anyone b/c she says i need to focus on myself and having fun in my teenage years, she said that when i'm 16 and have 3 good reasons then maybe she'll consider me dating. Well i'm going out with someone and i'm hiding it from my mom but my girl is tired of lying to my parents so will anyone please help me before she decides to break up for good? I'd really appreciate it.

2007-03-26 16:44:37 · 20 answers · asked by Sam the Man 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright, so my neighbor is this ex-military guy, and he never takes his Jack-o-lanterns down after Halloween. It's the beginning of spring, and I finally decide to do something about it. I snuck over to his house and tried to throw away the mushed-up pumpkins when he comes out and shoots me in the leg. My girlfriend says I deserved it for trespassing. Should I break up with her?

2007-03-26 16:44:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK

As I said, i dont want to lose my virginity, but my boyfriend gave me a headache!!

He told me that we can have sex without losing it ( sex in the butt)

Is it really won't affect me?
I dont know but im kind of scared specially when my doctor told me that i might be pregnant because sprim swim and could penetrate...

So, is it ok to take some kind of medicine to avoid that? and again by taking these tablets will i be affected??

2007-03-26 16:43:47 · 38 answers · asked by Sara 1 in Singles & Dating

i KNO ITS ALOT BUT HELP
i dont kno what to do everythin is just gettin pushed on me
when i was in 6th grade i almost commited suicide cuz no 1 was really my friend i was like a loner..i was the fat gurl & my parents dident understand & where always arguin & blamin shyt on me & tell me stuff & not takin it bak like my mom mostly.

then in JR. High everythin startin gettin really good & had friends that i could trust & where always there for me & lost ALOT of wieght..& my parents where still mean & arguin..but i just dealed wit it

well last summer my parents told me some thins bout my life that i didnt kno & really hurt me & effected me

my frnds started to believe what other people told them & likes stuff that i was sayin bout them but it wasent true..kno i dont kno who to trust or who REALLY is my true friends..my parents argue alot mor!! & say stuff that hurts mor mostly my mom (its like almost emotion abuse but they never hit me).im gettin alil bigger, JUST ALIL BUT I HATE

2007-03-26 16:43:46 · 13 answers · asked by .:CHULA:. 2 in Family

I like this guy... but he's going to West Point in three months. Im not sure if he likes me yet. He can be flirty one day and a complete jackassy the next. I really cant tell, but my gut tells me he probably has feelings for me. I know it might seem completely pointless fact but he;s white, blonde blue eyed (all american), smart sarcastic and im a southasian indian (5'5, slim and toned (103 lbs), smart, big brown eyes, kinda crazy, long dark hair) and i think our personalities mesh well. Is it worth it? Considering he;s leaving in three months, and me not knowing if he likes me or not? Should i go with my gut?

2007-03-26 16:43:37 · 3 answers · asked by badchic55c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 16:43:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend we will call John. He has a brother we will call Billy. John is in his mid-20s & Billy is 18. John lives by himself and Billy lives at home with his parents & 5 of his younger brothers & sisters in the suburbs. Billy made some friends & started getting into some trouble selling "substances". The substances were being purchased on a regular basis from a seller, but have since then stopped. Not only did Billy go to the seller, but so did some of his acquaintances. One of Billy's acquaintances still visits the seller for purchases. Billy's acquaintance knows where Billy and his parents live. The last purchase made by Billy about 3 months ago was for $400, only $100 of which was put down as down payment, so $300 is still owed. The following month after the purchase, not only did the seller contact Billy asking for the money, but so did the seller's seller. However, there has been no word for the last two months. If Billy told John about this, should John tell his family?

2007-03-26 16:43:23 · 8 answers · asked by HoofHearted 3 in Family

girls with big bootys or girls with big chests?

2007-03-26 16:43:23 · 2 answers · asked by L.Rae 3 in Singles & Dating

so please help no country or really old stuff

2007-03-26 16:43:11 · 3 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

Okay basically in my previous question I told you about a girl who was just calling me when she neeed something or dragged me into her drama, I also told you about a boy she hooked me up with two years ago and then after told me he was a low life. Well that boy and I don't date anymore after on again off again, so she thought the whole ruining of our friendship was because of a guy however, that's not true she disrespects me and my friends. She talks about my friends behind there backs so I know she talks about me. We've been friends since she was in second grade and I was in third and now we're high school freshman and things haven't changed I'm tired of putting up with her crap and dragging me into her drama and then when she doesn't know what to do when she asks for your advice she starts pooring into tears and that's exactly what she did two years ago when I told her we couldn't be friends anymore and I know if I break it to her again she'll just cry & I don't like it when they cry

2007-03-26 16:42:30 · 2 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2 in Singles & Dating