This relates to my previous question about true friends?

Question

Okay basically in my previous question I told you about a girl who was just calling me when she neeed something or dragged me into her drama, I also told you about a boy she hooked me up with two years ago and then after told me he was a low life. Well that boy and I don't date anymore after on again off again, so she thought the whole ruining of our friendship was because of a guy however, that's not true she disrespects me and my friends. She talks about my friends behind there backs so I know she talks about me. We've been friends since she was in second grade and I was in third and now we're high school freshman and things haven't changed I'm tired of putting up with her crap and dragging me into her drama and then when she doesn't know what to do when she asks for your advice she starts pooring into tears and that's exactly what she did two years ago when I told her we couldn't be friends anymore and I know if I break it to her again she'll just cry & I don't like it when they cry

Answer 1

The crying is an act. She knows it buggs you and that if she crys, you'll come back. A real friend doesn't do things like that; she's a player. Try this, next time she comes to you with her drama, play dumb. Don't give advice, play like you really don't care, ignore her. See what that does. If that doesn't do anything, then just hell her again that you are no longer friends with her, and let her cry. If you ignore her, sonner of later, she will back off and move on. She'll find someone else to take your place. Yea, she'll probably start rumors about you with this, but that's part of high school; ignore it.

Answer 2

even though it may be hard 2 see the tears, you have 2b strong and stand up for yourself no matter what. you deserve better than being treated as a door mat! there comes a time when the door mat could absorb no more moisture, & this relates to you...you shouldn't have 2 put up with it anymore! if the tears begin to flow...WALK AWAY! you'll come out much stronger in the end & will find ppl who would appreciate you more in the long run! take this advice from a former door mat!