I like this guy... but he's going to West Point in three months. Im not sure if he likes me yet. He can be flirty one day and a complete jackassy the next. I really cant tell, but my gut tells me he probably has feelings for me. I know it might seem completely pointless fact but he;s white, blonde blue eyed (all american), smart sarcastic and im a southasian indian (5'5, slim and toned (103 lbs), smart, big brown eyes, kinda crazy, long dark hair) and i think our personalities mesh well. Is it worth it? Considering he;s leaving in three months, and me not knowing if he likes me or not? Should i go with my gut?
2007-03-26 16:43:37 · 3 answers · asked by badchic55c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Signs that he totally adores you~
1.) You can call him anywhere and anytime and he'll always be there to listen, even if it is the most silly thing you want to talk about at like three in the morning.
2.) He helps your parents do lots of odd jobs 'round the house that are considered pretty hard...but you don't see him complain. He might be doing that just for a reason to be near you!!
3.) He doesn't seem to like any guys you hang out with or mention...and has he ever said, "You deserve better?" in some form or way...well get this message--- he's telling you that he's the one YOU deserve!!
4.) That boy is not afraid to tell you every thing, even when its really deep down inside of him, like when he cries or whatever. He's showing you that he can be sensitive and emotional and totally REAL...totally someone to fall in love with...
5.) He tries to get good with your friends. Hey, then pretty soon your friends like him and tell YOU to go out with him...nice plan huh? lol
He answers correct to these? He's probably your guy!! Reach out to him and make the move if he's shy. Just say, "So..have ya ever thought of being more than friends?"
[[btw~when he acts jackassy, maybe its because he's kind of aggrevated that he doesn't know how you feel...? IDK just a GUESS! =] ]]
I gotta warn ya, there are signs that he doesn't!!
1.) He still acts locker-room boyish around you...likeee...he's not afraid to burp around you and treat you just like his guy friends.
2.) He doesn't care about your feelings, as in he can just say that new outfit you bought was hideous
3.) He's always talking about your "hot" friend..it's kind of like number 3 on the signs that he DOES like you backfired...sorry sweetie, but he likes your friend, not you =[
Hope this totally helps you!! ♥
Good luck!
The FAB source~!
CosmoGirl! Issue February 2007
2007-03-26 16:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by j.adore♥pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him sheesh! Go out on a date or two, three months is a long time. Then write him every day.
2007-03-26 16:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by madbaldscotsman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is best not to be with such a moody guy.
2007-03-26 16:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by cheeeeer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋