UNEXPERIENCEd...?

Question

i dont want this to sound to fruity
but i like this guy and he wanted to ask me out but hes to shy to do so,
so i gave his friend my myspace to give to my love,
the thing is that im so unexperienced... hes my first love
what if he does asks me out and i say yes, what do i do next
i mean how do i do the move to kiss him or what should we talk about,
i know you guys must be thinking "crap another love story" but i need advice,
im 14, hes 14 too... any advice

Answer 1

I would say the best advice is to go with teh flow. If you worry to much than you may mess up more. If you both like each other than it should turn out great. No need to worry.

Answer 2

hmmm...
Don't be fooled first in regards to what love and lust is. Love is something that develops over a long period and not a few weeks. Bare that in mind with the decisions you make on how fast you act on things.
As a 14 year old girl you have to consider future events, how will you feel about decisions you make now in 10 years. My advise to you is don't be scared by your inexperience, but also do not be in a rush to gain experience.
Go out a few times with the boy before you kiss him, learn if he's genuine or just wants to play tonsil hockey. Treat the situation with some skepticism, make sure that you take things very slow I'm sure that he too is unexperienced and it will be a fun learning experience for you if you're not in too much of a hurry!
Good luck!

Answer 3

Yes. My answer... At 14, you can have feelings,but very likely it doesn't approach love. Not real love in the sense of relationships. Typically at 14 it is best described as deep infatuation. There is a huge difference, and it is easy to confuse the two. Adults confuse it all the time, so don't take what I typed here as a slam. It isn't. Just let yourself have fun, but be aware that real love, committed real love isn't likely to come until you are much older, and wiser than you are now at 14. Give yourself time, be a kid, but be a wise kid and don't rush into a relationship based on how you feel, use your mind too, its there for a reason, and if you listen to it, you will keep your focus on doing well in school, preparing yourself for all the challenges life brings, (there are plenty) try not to get caught up too deeply in relationship stuff, they are likely temporary at this age, but your education will last you a lifetime. Please be careful. You are wished the best.

Answer 4

Baby girl, your so young,you should be worring about the books, but maybe you should ask him out. If he is shy he may never ask you out. when and if you guys do go out talk about your favorite movies and food. Just be yourself. Dont worry about the first kiss he could be akward so dont expect to much just let it happen.

Answer 5

Just play it by ear. You can only fix inexperience by.....well, experience. Whatever anyone on here tells you to do, just do what comes to you. Relax. Don't let yourself believe that this will be your last chance either. Be casual, but not to the point to where you seem indifferent. Most importantly, be yourself. Cliche, to be sure, but it works best.

Answer 6

just go with the flow. if you like him, you're sure he won't freak out, he seems comfotable, and you're alone, just abrubtly kiss him! i gurantee you he'll be too surprised, then lustful, to argue! sit at a beach, take a walk in a park, that sorta thing.