Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

I have a friend who is like a sister to me and I'm worried and I'm running out of answers for her. There's this guy that she's really into that she works with...come to find out its her boss...they have been intimate once before. Well they joke/flirt around when no one is around. He tells her if she wants to hang out drop him an email or other. They'll set plans up but he always seems to have an excuse like his mom was over, he has stuff to do..basically a lame excuse everytime. Here this poor gal is getting all dressed up and hoping that it might be a good night.....problem is...I feel that he's "dangling her," they make plans he breaks them and he's been doing this for months to her. My advice to her is...he's a joke, she needs to move on but she keeps insisting that ooooooooh he's busy or something else....I feel that she's really heading for trouble...for one its her "boss" two its clear he's not interested and he's playing mind games. How do I steer her clear and get her away?

2007-03-25 17:36:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my gf have been together for 2 years. We basically lived together. She just turned 30 and i'm 24. She's got 2 kids which i loved to death. She just started this new job and started acting different towards me then just up and decides to break up with me over nothing really. Then come to find out she's been seeing this guy she works with. She tells me to find someone better cause i deserve it and that she has finally found someone better. There are so many girls i could go out with right now but i don't really want to cause i can't get her out of my mind. I think about her everyday. I was gonna marry her soon hopefully. For 2 years i lived my life for her and those kids now all of a sudden i feel so lonely and empty inside. I didn't think it would hurt this bad but it does. I just don't see how after so many memories we had together she could up and leave me for another guy. She said she couldn't help it she was sorry but she really wanted to see where things went with him.

2007-03-25 17:35:16 · 8 answers · asked by Jeremy B 1 in Singles & Dating

in or near Santa Clarita CA that are celibate? Ages 19-24??

my myspace....

www.myspace.com/tennislover77777


Im sick of being in relationships that fall apart because I say no to sex

2007-03-25 17:35:08 · 6 answers · asked by "Chanel-o" 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 17:34:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

umm... i hav this friend and i've known her since like 3rd grade so we're pretty close
the thing is tho, she used to be really nice and a tomboy (chase boys, roll in mud u get the picture) it's just that, she became really really girly (and i don't have a problem with that) its just that she's like one of those shallow wannabes that try to fit in with the latest fasions and do anything for the "populars". once, when one of my friends asked me why i was even friends with this girl, i thought about it and realized that most of it was just becuz we'd been friends for so long. i mean, there are still some points about her that haven't changed, but u hav to look really really deep down. do???

2007-03-25 17:34:35 · 1 answers · asked by azneyes333 2 in Friends

I'm a 25 year old young woman, and I just came to the conclusion that I have commitment phobic. I push ppl away when I feel the relationship is getting to comfortable. I won't allow myself to have feelings for anyone, or give them time to catch them for me. I just pushed the guy I really liked away because for the first time I started having feelings, and it freaked me out. Every since I broke up with my ex I won't commit, what do I do?

2007-03-25 17:34:18 · 10 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 17:33:03 · 2 answers · asked by buzurkcats 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The women who is pregnant with my child left me for some very selfish reasons. I hurt bad, how can I make it stop???

2007-03-25 17:33:01 · 12 answers · asked by chris s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2 years together and i cant stop thinking about him or how to get back together....i know we will never see eye to eye though and just want to get on with my life. Is it wrong to start dating immedietly? how long should you wait?

2007-03-25 17:32:48 · 22 answers · asked by chcknbizkit 2 in Singles & Dating

pink, purple and blue are my colours butterlies and frangipanis are my theme? where else can i look for table decorations?

2007-03-25 17:31:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i was listenin to a song and all of a sudden i started crying. i was totally not sad during that moment and i have no idea why i started crying. everything is going well in my life right now with my friends and my boyfriend, but i still started crying. is this normal? or is there something that is bothering me deep inside?

this happened to another friend of mine and she also didnt kno why she was crying and now it happened to me so i was curious. if u read my previous questions i was having a little rough patch with my boyfriend, but i fixed that and its great, but i still started crying. im just so confused bout this now

2007-03-25 17:31:07 · 23 answers · asked by ellie 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3yrs and i have been on a rocky patch for the past 8 months. We constantly argue and tonight he told me that he cant enjoy the time we spend together because im always starting something. I wont say i dont start things but i dont do them on purpose and sometimes im just trying to tell him how i feel and he thinks that im starting something. I love him and weve been through so much and i dont want to lose him. I cant see myself without him. Weve planned our lives out together even went ring shopping in february. But it just seems like lately he cant stand me. He says he wants me in his life but he cant deal with me and how he puts it my "psycho drama." I dont think he understands me and at times i feel like hes not there for me when i need him the most. I will admit i do have some abandonment issues and i can be insecure (which im told i have no reason to be) but im trying so hard to make him happy and i want him happy now but i just cant seem to do what he wants.

2007-03-25 17:31:04 · 11 answers · asked by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

I left my husband because he left out bed 8 months ago and sleeps on the sofa. I think he is cheating on me but have no proof. Since I moved out he does not answer my calls and he never calls me on his own. I have poured my heart out to him been so broken and crying that I could not hardly even walk and he will not ask me back into his life he acts so cold towards me. I am so confused over this situation

2007-03-25 17:30:35 · 10 answers · asked by Justme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 17:30:23 · 12 answers · asked by rockstar!! 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I (both 16, though I'm not sure that's relevant) have been going out for just over a month. She seems bothered by my relationship with a close female friend of mine, who I recently introduced her to. Is there something I can do to make my girlfriend feel more comfortable about my relationship with my friend?

2007-03-25 17:29:59 · 11 answers · asked by whataburn123 2 in Singles & Dating

Pretty straight forward question, just curious as to your replies.

2007-03-25 17:29:52 · 9 answers · asked by FZ220 2 in Singles & Dating

My stepdaughter is 8 years old, and I am having a difficult time accepting her just the way she is. How can I change? Why is it so easy to discipline her, or give her basic instructions that I "feel" she needs all the time. How can I love her just because...just for the sake of loving her. How can I really become her dad? Since her real one decided a long time ago not to give her the time of day. She's a beautiful little young woman....and all she wants is my love...simple and pure.

2007-03-25 17:29:39 · 6 answers · asked by tindale332 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend has just announced his engagement to the girl he has been seeing for the last two years. Do I tell him that I have been having a clandestine relationship with her for the last year? She does want to marry him, but finds him less than satisfactory in the bedroom department. The girl and I are obviously fond of each other, but the relationship is a sexual one only. We do not see each other alone other than when we meet for sex.

2007-03-25 17:29:37 · 31 answers · asked by Bob Danvers-Walker 4 in Weddings

do guys like when u bite their bottom lip while kissing them? i just wondering?

2007-03-25 17:28:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for nearly 3 years and have always loved my wife very much, however there was never any intimacy. Though I have tried to spice things up with candle light and what ever a woman would expect from a man, but she still showed no interest. I asked what she would like and I was was surprised to hear she prefers the feelings of a well endowed man. She told me when I first met her that her previous partners were large men but it seemed she was satisfied when we first met. She said her previous partner was 9.5" and I now feel she may not get her satisfaction from me as I am just over 7.5". From a womans experience is the feelings from a well endowed man so much better?

2007-03-25 17:28:32 · 16 answers · asked by Andrew J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 17:27:31 · 25 answers · asked by Max 1 in Singles & Dating

You know that ur friend is telling u a lie with all the others on very small things .u consider himself\herself as ur best friend .
What will u do? tell himself\herself that if he\she would tell a lie
then u can't be his\her friend or pretend that u don't know that he\she is telling u a lie and carry on with ur thoughts inside u

2007-03-25 17:26:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anmol 2 in Friends

My father molested my sister four years ago. She just told me last night.
We've always been tight. She's my best friend, and I am ready to kill him.

These last few months have been screwed up for us. She's been acting like she's in love with me! It's been freaking me out! She even told me point blank that she wants to be with me. That I'm the only guy for her. How did this happen?! I don't understand it!

II am so confused and so scared right now. Our mom is nowhere to be found. She ran out on us years ago. I don't know what to do. What I want to do is get her help and get us both out of this house, but I don't know how! I don't know where to begin! Please help!

2007-03-25 17:26:36 · 16 answers · asked by Matthew J 1 in Family

i am talking about my bf who has a woman staying with him right now.i got him thru internet we have been communicating for one year and five months already. he had cheated on me before the same as what he is doing today. having the woman with him at his apartment. he said he was after me,he wanted to marry me,he wont marry someone else other than me. he is coming this june. he is into a lot of things, like gambling, chasing women,smoking, he said he is just lonely thats why he is doing these things since im so far away from him.he would only put a stop to these when we are already together. this woman hes having at this apartment right now is about to leave on monday since she got her power back on in her apartment.he said he want me to stay believing in him, he wants me to be more patient.and wait for him to call me. he said he doesnt want to be pressured. help me, what shall i do?

2007-03-25 17:25:57 · 3 answers · asked by isa 1 in Singles & Dating

We are currently living in the suburbs in a 4 bedroom house.. I share a house with my sister-in-law and her 4 kids and I have 3 kids of my own, Yes there are 7 children in the house, but we love it, they are wonderful kids..My dilemma is that our lease is up in about 5 months..I no longer want to live in the suburbs because the areas are getting rough..My eldest daughter is going to start high school soon and I dont want her to be corrupted... I would love to move back to the country, but there are not many opportunities in a rural area.. I'm at a loss as to what we should do..We have a had a family meeting, half want to and half dont.. It's a big decision to make.. Help!!!

2007-03-25 17:25:28 · 3 answers · asked by Nishka 3 in Family

They were fighting a half an hour ago. They live above me and I heard all a loud bang an screaming from her. I dont know if he picked her up and threw her. My husband told me not to call and that she should be the one to call. My husband doesnt want to get involved because we just moved in our apt a year now and doesnt want any trouble with anybody.

2007-03-25 17:24:56 · 22 answers · asked by vgns360 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What if you asked a girl to go to a concert with you without really knowing her...She says no..But she kinda makes it obvious that she likes u (after two months). would you ask her out again or would you wait for her to make the move? (Oh, & i'm the girl :)

2007-03-25 17:24:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 17:24:36 · 8 answers · asked by MicHeLLe 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex-boyfriend found out i was dating someone so he left me right away..we were separated for a year..he already has a new girlfriend..i tried to get him back but he said nasty things to me..so i stopped..now,,he wants to have me back..he says he didn't mean every word he said before and that he realized i was the one for him..but i'm in a dilemma..im starting to like this new guy..but there's still a part of me that tells me to accept my ex-bf again in my life..im really afraid of getting hurt again..ive cried for months and months..ive never gottn over him..but when i started to,,he came back..he also has a lot of vices..which i really hate..for our 2yrs of relationship,,all we did was quarrel over his vices..but still i loved him for that..im just afraid og getting hurt..i dont know if hes still worth a 2nd chance..

2007-03-25 17:24:29 · 5 answers · asked by heart 1 in Singles & Dating

She is in a few of my classes and is in the band with me. I try to talk to her almost everyday and I might get the guts to compliment her as she did to me. Should I straight up ask her out or try and arrange a date. The bad thing is I cannot drive and I feel embarresed by my parents. Any help?

2007-03-25 17:22:37 · 21 answers · asked by Dan 2 in Singles & Dating