I have been married for nearly 3 years and have always loved my wife very much, however there was never any intimacy. Though I have tried to spice things up with candle light and what ever a woman would expect from a man, but she still showed no interest. I asked what she would like and I was was surprised to hear she prefers the feelings of a well endowed man. She told me when I first met her that her previous partners were large men but it seemed she was satisfied when we first met. She said her previous partner was 9.5" and I now feel she may not get her satisfaction from me as I am just over 7.5". From a womans experience is the feelings from a well endowed man so much better?
2007-03-25 17:28:32 · 16 answers · asked by Andrew J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it's how you feel about the person that really makes sex AMAZING!
2007-03-25 17:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see a problem with is this question and I am deeply concern about your intimacy. Are your marriage is going to survive if she prefers thing that you do not have? I am sorry for being so honest with you. From my own experience sex is not a major part of my marriage and I was virgin when I got marry. So a well endowed man does not impact my well being at all. Good luck and I wish you well.
2007-03-26 00:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Did you not take the car for a test-drive before you bought it?! Tell her to work on her kegels! I would NEVER tell my husband that his dick wasn't big enough to please me! Honey, 7.5 inches is plenty enough. She is just using excuses and cutting you down to make herself feel better! I CANNOT believe she even went there! I don't mean to be vulgar, but there are things you can do to make it better. The next time you are having sex you can try doggy style, putting her legs straight up over your shoulders, or sticking your finger in her a** hole. She will like a little freakiness along with the different sensations she gets from these different moves. If she still doesn't like it, you need to move on. I know you have heard the old saying about "motion in the ocean," and it is true. Size isn't everything. Good luck!
2007-03-26 00:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by nelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, well physically, no. The nerve endings stop after a few inches, so physically there is no difference, but psychologically that may be different and personally, I enjoy a larger penis, but many woman would be more than happy with even 5 inches (as this is apparently the average, guess I've been lucky haha). But, if she is so concerned about penis size, why did she marry you and your average sized penis? It's not like she didn't know, right? Clearly, there is something else going on.
Oh, by the way, stop asking the same damn question.
2007-03-26 00:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand your whole question so I'll just give you my thoughts on well endowed men. It ain't the meat is the motion was a song of long ago, believe it or not, and I do agree with that. Think about it. If you don't know what you are doing, would it matter what size your penis is?
2007-03-26 00:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by fruitsalady2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the size of a penis counts but a lot of women like me, CANNOT orgasm without the help of a hand, toy, whatever i feel like.... at some point my hubby was stimulating my clit with a spoon!! imagine that... look seriously, as long as its not a baby penis then i really think that it has nothing to do with it. She might just need a good dose of hormones and a good advice from a doctor....
2007-03-26 00:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by Val® 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur almost too big and the 9.5 man would definatly HURT. i think its messed up that your woman doesnt wanna have sex. i just got out of a 8 year marraige where my husband woudlnt sleep with me and it is abosutlely horrible for your self esteem and everything else in your life. if she is even using size to make u feel bad about yorusefl GET RID OF HER she is an abusive woman. WITHOLDING AFFECTION IS A FORM OF ABUSE!!! AND IT MENTAL/EMOTIONAL ABUSE to make u feel bad about your SIZE. u stay with her u might never fully recover.
2007-03-26 00:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by lady26 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pardon me for being rude, but was she screwing horses before? 7.5 is practically porn star!
Does she know Kegel exercises? Get her to do some, and in the meantime, find positions where you go into her more deeply.
2007-03-26 00:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats size have to do with it ? You can make a woman orgasm with your finger .I think shes pulling your leg and I'm not talking about the middle one . Do you think she has another lover?
2007-03-26 00:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like theres nothing wrong with the organ its just never had to play in a cathedral before
2007-03-26 09:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't care about the size really it's how they work it if she wants something bigger try a penis pump i heard they work
2007-03-26 00:33:38 · answer #11 · answered by givemesum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋