he said,the woman whos stays with him told him to choose between me and her.he said he wont choose .so wat now

Question

i am talking about my bf who has a woman staying with him right now.i got him thru internet we have been communicating for one year and five months already. he had cheated on me before the same as what he is doing today. having the woman with him at his apartment. he said he was after me,he wanted to marry me,he wont marry someone else other than me. he is coming this june. he is into a lot of things, like gambling, chasing women,smoking, he said he is just lonely thats why he is doing these things since im so far away from him.he would only put a stop to these when we are already together. this woman hes having at this apartment right now is about to leave on monday since she got her power back on in her apartment.he said he want me to stay believing in him, he wants me to be more patient.and wait for him to call me. he said he doesnt want to be pressured. help me, what shall i do?

Answer 1

This guy sounds like he has to make excuses for cheating on a woman. He doesn't sound trustworthy. Would you really want to spend the rest of your life with a man who can't make up his mind on what he really wants? And I don't mean to sound harsh but the only reason he wants to marry YOU is because he knows you'll always take him back after he treats you like dirt.

Answer 2

Pahleeeeeeeeeze tell me this is a joke and that you are a woman with far more self esteem than to entertain an on going relationship with a jerk that would treat any woman in that way. Are you not worth better than that?

What should you do? Grow up, dump him and move on. You need to quit playing games with men on line and make yourself into the kind of woman that men want in the real world. Take come classes, get a better job start acting like a woman with some self esteem.

If you want folks to have some esteem for you then you must do things that induce that. When you have become the best you that you can be you will start to attract a much nicer kind of guy meanwhile practice being alone and develop some interest that will make you interesting.

Quit waiting for a knight in shining armor rescue you from this situation. You can do create a much brighter future for yourself.

Answer 3

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honestly that guy is a maniac I don what to say... he is doin every thin in the world except lovin U sorry about my honest but I think the man who cheated on U once he will cheated on u a gain sorry hun but having a women in his a partment is somethin bad very bad
Ur free but I wana to say I bet U he sleep with that women on his apartment

look hun he don deserve U
I suggested to forget him and be ur self again and
good luck