Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

I know so many couples who are SO in love with each other, and then they are divorced shortly after getting married. How do you fall out of love with someone so fast? How can it feel so right and then end up being wrong? Even when they've been together for years before they get married, it still seems to happen. I know a couple who seemed more in love than anyone I've ever known, and they ended up divorced less than a month after they were married. I'm engaged now and it makes me afraid to get married when I think about all of this. What changes so much after marriage to cause this to happen, and better yet, how can I make sure it doesn't happen to us??

2007-03-25 18:18:09 · 18 answers · asked by Grace1228 3 in Marriage & Divorce

With all of the child abusers and neglectors, doesn't it seem like the non-biological parents should get rights? Why is there not being more done to give us custody of our children and grandchildren? Nobody can give our kids more love than we can give them. Nobody. How long will it be before I have rights to my non-biological grandson?

2007-03-25 18:16:44 · 3 answers · asked by grannywinkie 6 in Family

My best friend is slightly overweight, and she thinks that no guys will like her because of this. She is really pretty, and isnt a pig or anything, she has hereditary insulin resistance and has a hard time keeping her weight down.

She is always worried that guys would think less of her and not want to date her because of this, even though she has a great personality. What should I tell her? Is she right, no guy could ever like her because of her weight? Or am I right, guys dont really care about that?

2007-03-25 18:15:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

someone was talking about it in another question. i have to ask lol

2007-03-25 18:14:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you just get fed up with a family member? You must not cause a stir up in the family, but you are to the point where you want to scream at your sibling, what do you do? How do you handle the situation without causing problems with all of your other siblings?

2007-03-25 18:12:53 · 1 answers · asked by grannywinkie 6 in Family

I tell her shes horribly beautiful and she doesnt seem to know what to feel....

What should she feel?.......

2007-03-25 18:12:48 · 4 answers · asked by EdwinRool'd 3 in Singles & Dating

They like crack heads/losers/criminals/guys who beat them and treat them like crap. They put more energy into communicating with these people than the ones who treat them like a person. Then they sabotage relationships with good guys.

Are they mental? What is the fastest way to tell which women these are without wasting too much time getting to know them.???

2007-03-25 18:11:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, sure, you got hurt a few times, but why aren't women treating men as individuals, rather than lumping them all together and thinking its funny to castrate them? How do you expect to ever get along with men if all they hear from you is how 'bad' they are? Its not funny. Its a childish way of 'getting even'.

2007-03-25 18:11:57 · 6 answers · asked by fruitsalady2003 2 in Singles & Dating

For some reason I have been feeling like I am very ugly or something and I hate going anywhere because I feel like everyone else thinks it to.. So am I ugly? Please be honest.

http://i47.photobucket.com/albums/f189/lebron23james216/bestpic.jpg

2007-03-25 18:11:43 · 12 answers · asked by Jamar 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl has been teaching how to fly airplanes I just want to some how show her how much I appreciate all the extra effort and support she’s giving me. Is there anyway she could miss interpret this gift (A Cross ink Pen) As a come on ? She’s 25 and single I’m 49 an single.

2007-03-25 18:11:21 · 9 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

Aside from stip clubs and strippers and getting drunk, those are givens.

2007-03-25 18:09:58 · 12 answers · asked by Marius , II 3 in Weddings

What are the main things you look for in a guy?

age, looks, personality, body, height, face, status, etc.....

2007-03-25 18:09:54 · 10 answers · asked by chazy30 1 in Singles & Dating

A couple of things are going on. One is a concern about a loved one who may have cancer and the other is about a person who I want to scream at because she is so mean to me. Is there any way I can just scream at somebody through the computer, a reputable person who will not spam or give me a virus. AAAAAAAAACCCCCCCChhhhhhhhoooooooooo

2007-03-25 18:09:52 · 2 answers · asked by grannywinkie 6 in Family

2007-03-25 18:09:07 · 1 answers · asked by Aya 1 in Weddings

You feel that he/she loves another person, although you're not so sure. Will you forget him/her? How?

2007-03-25 18:08:51 · 6 answers · asked by Liu-xin 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 1 yr. and he has two kids and at first everything was fine until now. lately we haven't gone out on dates because he says he's broke and that he needs to budget his money. and besides paying bills , child support and the rent he also supports his adult bummy brother and his nephew and this is very frustrating for me because I care about the guy, he makes me laugh, I could talk to him about anything, he's really smart and he's a hardworker. he doesn't do drugs, smoke, or get drunk and he's a loving dad so it's hard for me to just kick him to the curb just because he can't afford to take me out and i know that money isn't everything but when I look at the big pic. and if I ever want to move in with him I think that we're always going to have money problems.and that we're hardly going to go out on dates so I would like some advice on what to do or if there's anybody that could relate to me and how do they handle it

2007-03-25 18:08:39 · 18 answers · asked by bettygirl 1 in Family

it was some wedding show; does anyone know what network that was,or the name of the show?

2007-03-25 18:07:54 · 2 answers · asked by Aya 1 in Weddings

2007-03-25 18:07:50 · 16 answers · asked by malabar 1 in Family

2007-03-25 18:07:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

....it is a reflection on how well she chooses her partners?

2007-03-25 18:06:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 18:06:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

. ive like this girl for a year. how do ino if she likes me 2? wen we were walking in the halls she always seemed to look into my eyes, and she waved a couple of times wen i saw her driving home while i was walking and i saw her at the park once and she smiled and waved. last year i was a bit young, but now kids r starting to go out. she always laughed at the jokes i told. wut do u think?

also: she hasnt waveed in a while but i dont know if that means she dusnt like me or she thinks that ship has sailed or wut. also: ive like gurls befor but i never liked neone as much as now.

2007-03-25 18:06:02 · 6 answers · asked by dazed and confused 3 in Singles & Dating

my bf keeps saying that he loves me and everyone says its because he wants something but he isnt that type i knew him for a long time im on the phone with him now and he is talkn about sex but! he never did b4!! i really do like him but....what should i do!!??

2007-03-25 18:05:24 · 8 answers · asked by rockstar!! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 18:05:16 · 23 answers · asked by sirocco blue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

O.K here's how it goes. my 18 yr old sister snuck out of parents house ran away with a boy, got preg, boy doesn't want her no more and now she is 5 mo pregnant and no where to go. My mom and step dad are older and I don't think they can handle a baby and I don't know what else to do but let her move in with me. Not for forever just until she has the baby and can find means to support it. I can see where my husband is comming from, we have our own child and our own bills. He thinks she got herself into this mess she can get herself out of it, but that is my sister if she didn't have me what else could she do? should I go against my husband and move her in anyway? I can't turn her down. Does anybody have any other options?

2007-03-25 18:04:01 · 8 answers · asked by jla 2 in Family

2007-03-25 18:03:37 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever been that attracted to someone that much or been in the mood that strongly?

2007-03-25 18:03:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 18:03:02 · 6 answers · asked by bla 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the worst pickup line that you have EVER heard?lol

2007-03-25 18:02:59 · 11 answers · asked by tlfdfirefighter 2 in Singles & Dating

That damn *****'s gonna turn me in for this trivia.My dad backs me up cuZ he been smoking since my age.He shouts at the ***** to **** off. Now you can tell me what i am going to face after i get caught.

2007-03-25 18:01:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships