how do i prevent fights with my parents???

Answer 1

write down your issues and the things you disagree with the most. Then sit down and try to talk about those things and make sure you listen and try to understand their point of view.

Answer 2

The fact that you fight with your parents is the indicator that you have stopped learning and are no longer giving them your undivided attention to learn what they are responsible for teaching you so you can mature and grow into a responsible adult. If you feel the need to fight it is possible that you are ready for the stream of life and have a maturity that will allow you to handle any problem that life will throw at you. Sit down with your parents and tell them so. Have them give you a test of your rediness for proof. Assure them that upon completion of the test there will be no more fights and understanding that their house contains the rules they live by that you will immediately obtain gainful employment, and relocate your belongings to your new residence and implement your own set of rules to live by. If they agree I wish you luck on this final as it is a toughee, but hey, once you get started it should be no problem. If, however, you do not pass the test and must remain with them until they are authorized to kick you out, be mature enough to live under their rules and respect them enough to observe what they believe to be their best attempt at managing their home. Respect says that you do not have to believe like them or even pattern your life after them, but it is their home and they have worked hard to make it a nice place. They have earned the right not to fight with you over their rules. When the shoe is reversed I promise you they will not fight with you over the rules at your house. You have not earned the right until you pass the test of life to negotiate the rules of anyone's home and when living in their home accepted practice is too follow the rules of the home you are in. Even today, when I go to a home of another person, I am respectful of all the rules of that home, after all, if I do not like the rules or how they are applied I may leave and go home or somewhere else.

Answer 3

first of all if you're an adult you might want to think about moving out if you don't want to see them fight but if you're not an adult yet or if you are you can't prevent the fights with your parents it's part of the relationship. second parents don't like to be told what to do but if you have good communication with your parents you could just tel them how you feel about them fighting

Answer 4

I sorry I do not know your situation, so I can not advice you. I can ask are you trying to prevent fighting with your parents or from them fighting with each other?

Answer 5

try to see where they are coming from. if they are telling you things that are there to help you in the future...maybe you better listen to them.. after you are 18 and graduate from high school you will have to work a long time before you retire.

forget all the fun things you are focused on now and try to live a life that will prepare you for the time when you will moving out of your parents home for good
don't depend on another person to be your saviour this usually does not work and you end up supporting yourself and maybe a small family. The average family in America is a single mom raising her children...alone...poverty is not nice

Answer 6

i see some...interesting..anwsers but heres mine:
To prevent fights with your parent try not to talk back just do what they say and oh gohh i know how hard that is, ha
If you get heated with your parents tell them your going to go walk around the neighborhood and be back shortly and when
things cool down come back.
Say Sorry and you apriecate everything they do and honestly have no idea why you do the things you do, [just to make them be alittle bit more happy]
ponit is just try to avoid them when there in a bad mood or ready to attack, haha
good luck,lovee

Answer 7

If you are living under their roof and too young to move out, I would suggest listenting to them and do what they say, most of the time its for the best even if you dont think it is. Dont start a fight with them, dont talk back, just listen to what they have to say, after all they were your age at one time and im sure they know right from wrong and just trying to keep you out of trouble and doing right. You wernt really clear on your age or what kind of fights you have..

Answer 8

How about giving in to one of their demands. You know like when they say I want you not to do X or Y thing, why not trying not to do X or Y thing. I tell my son that he has the simplest job but manages to do get it wrong. Why? because he tries everything but. I say something like just put it on top of that red table. He'll put it everywhere but the red table. Then he comes up with all sorts of reasons why it might be better to put it anywhere else but on the table I specified. I mean it is a simple job. Take the object in your hand and put it on the red table. How hard can taht be?

Answer 9

If your a teenager you need to listen to them, and that will prevent fights. If not you need to give more information on your question.

Answer 10

you didnt give any details.But you could do things around the house to help out,do the laundry,dishes ,vaccum and dust without being asked.You didnt say how old you were but if your a teenager this shouldnt be a problem.And if they have a cerfew and rules in their house remember they pay the bills and your just there waiting to turn 18 so respect them.