Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

My wife and I have been together for 3 years and I have no idea what to get her. One of my friends said that woman love porn, so I went to the local adult store and bought 3 porn movies for 3 years of marriage. What would you think? Also, is 3 videos enough?

2007-03-25 17:49:16 · 9 answers · asked by macabrejesus 1 in Family

I am 16 yrs. old in college and theres this 18 yr old girl that i think likes me. Is it ok for me to ask her out? Also, my parents dont want me to have a gf, should i listen to them?

2007-03-25 17:48:26 · 3 answers · asked by Some B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 17:47:41 · 17 answers · asked by MockingBird 3 in Singles & Dating

she said it was bothering her and she had to tell me.

2007-03-25 17:47:10 · 30 answers · asked by myattman1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i cheated on my husband ( oral not sex) found out he cheated on me ... things got really weird between us it wasnt the same .. well i made things worse by haveing sex with someone else.. ( i needed some affection) i know i was wrong.. not we're sepperated and he said he dont know if we'll get back together.. hes not saying no and hes not saying yes.. i know i screwed up big time but i really do love him and want to fix this .. we've been together for 5 years and i dont want to throw all that away .. i know i need to try and build back the trust but how??? someone please help me give me some ideas on how to repair a broken trust...

2007-03-25 17:46:53 · 18 answers · asked by fireeyz69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 17:46:50 · 4 answers · asked by david_nitro 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this girl who I like alot and it seems as though I have gotten her to like me through text messaging. But she will never be the one to break the ice first. Our conversations last past midnight. Which is one reason why she can't text for a while cause of the bill situation with her parents. I can't ever seem to get out how I feel about her though. So what should I do?

2007-03-25 17:46:20 · 16 answers · asked by Tony D. 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok.I have a massive crush on a Marine recruitor and I let him know of my interest in him.Since he found out he hasnt been calling me.He is avoiding me.The other male recruitor that works in his office is married but he is very hot hot hot.Well, every time he and I talk he flirts and says little remarks like "maybe you can come to the office or maybe we can go get a coffe".well a coworker of mine is interested in joining the marines but had a ?--So I called and got ahold of the married marine and he has been calling me nonstop.He has been flirting purfusly and said that if i refer people to them that he would meet with them for breakfast/lunch/dinner/coffee and he wants me to come.He even said that if they go to the office he wants me to come along to.He even came into my work the other night and kept staring at me(im a cashier in retail)&since I was so busy he told me to call.When I didnt he called me.why is he flirting with me?would you go out to lunch with him?what would you do?

2007-03-25 17:46:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and I think that he is interested in me. I have been dancing with him twice. One was in a dance workshop and the other time was when I asked him to help me practice for my dance practical test. After he helped me for the test we went to go grab something to drink and sat in the library for like 3 hours just talking, When he said that he had to go work on his speech he was giving I walked with him down the hallway and just hung out some more. We ended up just walking in an entirely different direction than his car and he mentioned it so we turned around. Talking to some of his other friend they say that he hangs around with a lot of girls and she said that he seems to be interested in me as a friend. Than later that day she invited him to his house to hangout and play board game and he said no, but then ask if I was going and then he reconsidered it. He ended up not going but later that night he texted her and asked if I was there. do you think he is interested

2007-03-25 17:46:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's a little more about the situation. The mother is either going to sign custody over to us (a family member) or dss is going to take custody of him. What would that mean for us?What would be our rights as far as our control over visitations and other importants decisions involving the child. And what could she do to try to get him back later on?

2007-03-25 17:45:55 · 5 answers · asked by beccanut 1 in Family

2007-03-25 17:43:51 · 11 answers · asked by finest_man_in_fl 1 in Singles & Dating

I love him the way he is, but since we got married I stop myself for making great things because I do not want to make him feel
threatened with my succes and loose him. What should I do?

2007-03-25 17:43:38 · 1 answers · asked by MARIA 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i'm 22 and still no girlfriend...i'm a nice guy and my female friends think i'm a wonderful guy who deserves a wonderful girl...how come girls always tell me to stop looking and they will come running at me??? i'm just an average looking guy and a lil shy...girls have never really wanted me so how come if i just stop they will....it makes no sense....oh yeah and i have tried the stop looking thing for about a year...

2007-03-25 17:43:23 · 5 answers · asked by jimbo fury 1 in Singles & Dating

I find my self being taken advantage of by people whom i though were my friends.I had one of them steel my cell phone today and he
wouldn't give it back to me unless I degraded my self by giving him some sort of sexual gratification, ,just thinking about it makes me sick to my stomach ,to the point were I have had serious thoughts of stealing some thing from him.I know two wrongs don't make a right but how do I deal with this uncontrolable anger I have being feeling all day today?

2007-03-25 17:42:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had beaten a bunch of guys ( who were gay)


down at the tennis center and they all began to say

that I was butch and I was a di^e and that I was

fat...but I play tennis 4hrs a day...anyway it really


hurt me...but I wanted to know do I look that man-ly?

2007-03-25 17:42:05 · 3 answers · asked by "Chanel-o" 3 in Singles & Dating

i've kinda noticed this trend....people will still hang out with the opposite sex...just not as much


girls will be with their girls

and guys will be with their guys...

2007-03-25 17:41:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Only people that work in the area of law need respond. I have been estranged from my husband for over 20 years now. We have lost track of each other, I don't even know if he is still alive.

I have been told several times that I have to post a legal message in at least two newspapers in the last known area he lived in for a certain length of time. That is EXPENSIVE! I have checked it out.
Also, if I get lucky and find him, I have to pay someone to serve papers on him, which is VERY EXPENSIVE. I don't even know if he already got a divorce, how do I find that out? I live in a different state now.
Anyone have any ideas for me?

2007-03-25 17:41:15 · 8 answers · asked by Pixie 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i am sicilian and my uncle is good to me and i love him but he is so rude and obnoxious and the only person to call him on it is my nonna everyone else pretends not to hear it when he makes his comment about blacks,jews,hispanics,asians,gays and so on it is really embarrassing cause he won't even hide it he will refuse to go in a store if the workers aren't white but at the same time when my brother started seeing a irish girl and brought her to his house he made a rude comment about irish people and told my brother to get that "trash" out his house i'm so close to telling him off but been biting my tongue to reduce conflict in the family and my dad told me to mind my own business he doesn't have to like "those" people. Am i wrong for feeling like this?

2007-03-25 17:40:46 · 18 answers · asked by maranzano doll 1 in Family

Detective Leane's back. Tell a friend.

2007-03-25 17:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by Detective Leane 1 in Singles & Dating

wish to know.....ok

2007-03-25 17:39:38 · 3 answers · asked by William E A 3 in Singles & Dating

Well, ok. there is this girl that i like. In the past my friend, who is alot older than us joked with us about us liking each other and seriously i didnt think she liked me. Well at the coffeehouse this weekend she just comes up and grabs my cell phone out of my hand and puts in her house and cell numbers. So im like WOW. i ask my friend about what he thinks and he says that she is flirting.
I'm 15 and she is 16. Im like a big guy. LIKE BIG. and i would never have a chance getting a gf. but im not like, the uber ugly fat people without any friends that wear tight clothes and pretend that they arent fat.
For some reason just her giving me her phone number makes me feel like uber crazy happy inside.
After i got home that night i sent her my number on myspace and shes like "Thanks for the number"
So, idk is she really does like me or what but i keep doubting it then i start to think 'then why did she give me her number, she must want me to call her, idk what to do.'

2007-03-25 17:39:03 · 8 answers · asked by DQBlizzard 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 17:38:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 17:38:09 · 6 answers · asked by dwforce 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have only been married a few months. We are now getting a divorce this coming Wednesday. Of course I was/am really hurt by it and it's extremely hard on me doubly because I'm pregnant. However, as I began assessing some things, is it possible for a man to say that he loves you, be in love with someone else, make you feel guilty for the problems that you two have endured, change his mind and accept responsibility, and THEN turn around and say that he wants a divorce? Of course narcissism encompasses other areas like being able to put on a good front in front of others, taking over conversations that confront their weaknesses, warranting his arrogance and pride as self love, and etc...but I'm just wondering should I be crying over someone who simply didn't love me after all or elated that he decided to end my misery by requesting a divorce because at 39, he seems to possess narcisistic characteristics?

2007-03-25 17:38:00 · 9 answers · asked by PEACHFACE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 17:37:49 · 16 answers · asked by Svetlana G 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

would you still consider it cheating if you were talking to a person and you have been for about a year and you both really like each other. you have even went out on some dates and you are sexually active with this person. our schedules are just really messed up right now so its agreed that we arent going to go out until they get straight but if they slept with another person would you consider it cheating.

2007-03-25 17:37:12 · 15 answers · asked by sunshine24 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok im in college and theres this girl and she asks to study with me every weekend even if theres nothing to study. Before we parted for spring break... we saw each other and she looked deep into my eyes and i thought it was the moment to do something. However, I didnt do anything so she touched me on the arm. I didnt give her a hug or kiss her.. did i blow it? I think she likes me... should i give her a hug next time. Theres a dance coming up... should i ask her to it? ALso, my parents dont want me to have a gf, should i listen to them if i really like her?

2007-03-25 17:36:28 · 8 answers · asked by Some B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 17:36:23 · 28 answers · asked by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So my best friend and I really care for each other and the feelings are mutual but we decided to just let it happen naturally when it happens - no rushing...so we've decided to stay friends. We're soo close - we talk about EVERYTHING.

Now that we're trying to be "normal" again - i've noticed it's harder for him to talk than me - When i try to be "normal" and talk to him he just sounds sad. I'll mention random guys i used to infatuated with and he'll ask, "why did you like him? do you still like him?"

Why does he do this? He knows i don't have feelings for them so why does it matter? He'll always fish for answers like that...

2007-03-25 17:36:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

BLONDES OR BRUNETTES??

2007-03-25 17:36:07 · 1 answers · asked by Milena 1 in Singles & Dating