My wife and I have been together for 3 years and I have no idea what to get her. One of my friends said that woman love porn, so I went to the local adult store and bought 3 porn movies for 3 years of marriage. What would you think? Also, is 3 videos enough?
2007-03-25 17:49:16 · 9 answers · asked by macabrejesus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Unless you know for a fact that your wife likes porn, I don't think this is a good idea. Now, if the budget has been a little tight and your wife has been sighing over a porn she wishes she owned but doesn't, then it would be a lovely gift idea to purchase it for her. I certainly know I would love to come home to some good porn I've had on my wishlist.
But if the situation doesn't fit that, don't do it. Anniversaries are supposed to be a celebration of love and your relationship, and most women are going to want more than sex, even if sex is a part of that. If you're going to buy porn, you better make SURE that it's the kind of porn that is going to turn her on and she'll like (i.e. something she's expressed interest in before, or that is marketed specifically at women- not your average, everyday porn), and it needs to be the last gift in a series of many others that have nothing to do with sex. Moreover, when you present it to her, make it clear that it's all about her pleasure- that you want to please her, and you could care less about getting off yourself, because it's her night. That will soften the unromantic blow of getting porn for your anniversary.
As for the other presents, the main ones, well, think hard. Is there anything that you know she wants? Something she's mentioned wistfully once or twice before? It doesn't have to be an actual object- if she's said she just wishes she could have some relaxation time, or a clean house for once, those are all things that you can accomplish. If you're really at a loss, remember these cardinal rules:
Jewelry is always nice- if it's beautiful and expensive, you can't go wrong. Particularly if if has some symbolic meaning for you, or has an inscription.
Taking her to a nice restaurant is overrated. What woman doesn't like coming home to see her man in an apron, whipping up a delicious meal? It's a serious turn-on.
Don't underestimate her appreciation of something that commemorates you, like a beautiful photo or slideshow of the two of you, that you've obviously put a little bit of time into. It's really sweet.
Everyone loves to be pampered- bubble baths, giving her a pedicure and foot rub (or an all-over massage!), and cleaning up the house are all wonderful treats.
Hope that helps, good luck, and happy anniversary.
2007-03-26 07:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Am a lady........ A very gud idea
But only that thing will not do....
1) You get 3 things for her 1 in the midnight 12 o'clock --i think a candle light cake...
You wake her by alarm.. she will find that candles and cake romantic ...
2) Next in the Morning when she goes out / you
You gift her flowers it will make her feel fresh if drives car you drop a greeting card in her car this will make her feel great.
3) Get her to any restaurant & Have lunch together...
4) In the evening when you / her come from job Go outside with your kid if you have or you two go to any park....
5_ from all these acts she will really wait for the night.
At night you show those three p Videop and see am sure you will add me to your messenger list....
2007-03-25 18:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by riya r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of person is she? extrovent ? always trying out new things...? either way let me tell u how i would feel. 1st - dirty, i dont want to be some porn slut.
2nd- insecure about if u think im good in bed or nor (otheriwse y would u hjave get me porn if not to teach me how its done)
3rd - angry... how can our lovemaking be anything like soemthing on a movie made for little boys to pass time with?
4th- also angry,,,does this meanm y husband is frequent pron watcher? am i not good enough for him?
listn there are so many sexy things u can get her.. massage oil, aromtherpy stuff, candles, rose petals, bubble bath oil/foam. lingerie some thing sexy yet classy just like the women she is...
dont go trashy... she is your wife not your mistress..
2007-03-25 18:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Nadz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally ridulous. I would think my husband would respect me and think of something classy and romantic. The gift is not for you, its for her. What does she like? Only a guy would think a woman would want porn movies for a special occasion, Be real .
2007-03-25 18:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by oceanqueen1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definite no most women would flip out getting porn for their anniversary try roses jewelry a nice dinner things like that my fiancee got me a tennis bracelet,bouquet of roses and took me out for a romantic dinner which i loved if he had gotten me porn i'd threw it at him and made him sleep on the couch but that is just me
2007-03-25 18:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by maranzano doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend lied to you. Ditch the porn, get flowers and an appointment at an all day spa for two.
2007-03-25 17:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are sure she likes porn ....I wouldnt do it....
I wouldnt like it ...nothing against porn ....just that its your anniversary ..it should be about you and her ...not you and her and some other NAKED people.
Good luck.
2007-03-25 18:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by mrsaprilberg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your an idiot! divorce is just around the corner pal! you better get that trash out of your home before she sees it.
2007-03-26 03:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
erm.. your fren's wrong.. most ladies likes romantic dinner or maybe silvery stuff..
2007-03-25 18:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by MicHeLLe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋