ok so i'm 22 and still no girlfriend...i'm a nice guy and my female friends think i'm a wonderful guy who deserves a wonderful girl...how come girls always tell me to stop looking and they will come running at me??? i'm just an average looking guy and a lil shy...girls have never really wanted me so how come if i just stop they will....it makes no sense....oh yeah and i have tried the stop looking thing for about a year...
2007-03-25 17:43:23 · 5 answers · asked by jimbo fury 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, you do have to ask... if you say nothing, i will think you are only interested in a friendship; and that is OK by me!
being yourself will get you someone's attention, but she will wait to see if you will ask
sorry, guys gotta make the first move. or you will be stuck in the friendship boat forever
2007-03-25 17:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok heres some advice. the whole stop looking thingits true to a point kay. if all you are doing is looking you may start looking desperate. what i suggest and this does work is stop thinking about it. know you are a great guy, this is the key. confidence. screw what others think. stop worrying about it. its all in timing. youll understand some day. you could come across a thousand woman in a couple years. it just means that the one you are compatable with hasnt crossed your path yet. the reason why they say stop looking and then shell find you is because youve allowed yourself to slow down and stop looking at every one you meet and get let down. just go on with life and have fun i promise one of these days some how some where you and some girl will lock eyes and wont beable to stop. thats when you know. when its mutual. not just when you want it. be confident with your friends andpresent yourself with an air of mystery and class. and allow your true nature to show. this will help when she does come along. you want her to know you not a fake you. good luck and be patient but dont be sad because your single trust me no relationship is perfect. theres alot of baggage and responsibility so my advice to you is dont ever go into one lightly. be ready to be a shoulder to cry on or to be burdened from time to time. there will be good times, but can you be man enough to understand misunderstandings, mistakes, and differences as well if so then i say good luck. oh yeah by the way, never be a push over, allow her to use you and dont be so willing to always be selfless. she needs to give to. dont be needy or clingy and just be happy and confident
2007-03-26 01:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by solas lethe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have looked and even have tried not looking, that girl is out there somewhere... I believe God sends us the one when we are ready for it, even if we think we already are ready. I can tell, to not just date any breathing thing because when you do find the one it'll make her feel alot more special that she was one of the only or very selected few that you ever dated!
2007-03-26 00:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by js95116 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what they mean is stop looking anxiously like .. you can still look but dont look desperate .. girls like it when you look but they have a keen sense of how you are looking.. women at perceptive like that .. so look but not to much .. and another things is the way you present yourself to the ladies.. most ladies like most of my friends love they kind of guys that have the attitude of ********* and the "i'm all that attitude" although most ladies like some dont.. but i would suggest you try it but dont prop yourself up to high just higher than what you actually believe you are .. because if you think your all that then so will the one your after .. do you get me alrighty well i hope that helps you
2007-03-26 00:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by sammie_385 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU PROBABLY HAVEN`T MET YOUR SOUL MATE YET.
2007-03-26 00:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by leeandaundrea1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋