Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

to those that lost their virginity did yu regret it? did yu like it? cuz ii mean..it hurts..did yu like it even thought der was pain??? would yu like 2 b a virgin again?

2007-03-25 17:22:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I leave my Comp on all the time. Does it consume alot of electricity

2007-03-25 17:22:11 · 8 answers · asked by Preston S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 17:20:28 · 26 answers · asked by Alone again 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am about 30 years old dating a wonderful woman (who is the same age). We are very much in love. She challenges me in so many amazing ways and generally makes me a better man. We have been dating for about 2 years. We have discussed having kids several times and each time, my gf has made it clear, she doesn't want them. She has even thought that possibly after meeting me, she would change her mind (the "when you find the right person, you'll want them argument) but that hasn't happened. I am undecided. I have NO desire to have kids for at least 5 years. I never really gave it any thought in the past and just always expected that I would have them, cause thats what society says you should do. Now, I'm really torn and uncertain because I love this woman so much but I'm unsure if deciding to forgo kids is the right choice for me. I feel like I may let people down if I don't have them. At the same time, I don't want to lose the love of my life esp since I am not ready now. Help?

2007-03-25 17:20:21 · 6 answers · asked by crossroads 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If only she were aware,
Her splintered heart would be screaming in pain.
And the guilt coating your insides like glue,is apparently blocking your conscience.You see, you really are a good person.The thought seems to just accidentally slip your mind.
And you forget to tell her that maybe,When you said you wanted to watch the tears race on the window paneOr stare at the endless swirl of color, Which is abstract, but somehow oddly concrete on the barn wall,With her right by your side,
You aren’t sure if you meant anything at all,When you knelt down and asked her that question.
But you could have, of course.
Maybe you don’t want her to hold your hand
When it’s cold and the other is too warm.
You could just as easily press your hand against the window
Where I watch my own tears race.
So they would both be just as cold.
To even out the temperature So I could, in a way, make you comfortable again.I am, as always, just a very close friend

2007-03-25 17:20:07 · 7 answers · asked by gabrielle 1 in Family

I know this girl Jaime and we been best friends for 4 years now and I really like her. She has been flirting with me lately and all of her friends tell us that we would be perfect together. They all tell me that she loves me and one of them know i love her. The thing is I don't want to ruin our friendship. I been really worried about that because my friend was bestfriends with a girl and when they broke up they weren't friends again and hated each other. I can talk to her about anything on my mind. And so can she. And how should I ask her out because I don't want it to feel awkward.


I asked this before but im still not sure.

2007-03-25 17:20:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her Birthday is coming soon, what should i give her and how can I reveal my feelings to her wihout loosing her! Furthermore I cant sleep at night I just keep thinking about her all the time, I cant focus on anything other then her! please help me!

2007-03-25 17:19:52 · 4 answers · asked by cheetah 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay.. So here is the story... Me & this guy (cody) have been best friends for bout 3 yrs. and friends for alot longer. ( were in high school) Well we end up datin for 4 months. Until he broke up with me because his ex lied and said i was all over another guy at a basket ball game and i really wasnt i never even sat next to this guy. I loved cody to much to do that... ( i never told him i loved him though) but anyways... after we broke up i found out he was cheatin on me with his ex. so idk.. but now its been almost 2 months and he still wont talk to me and all i want is to be friends cuz i miss him so much.. cuz he was my bestfriend and iv told him this bud it hasnt done any good cuz he wont wb and still wont talk to me. So why do u think he wont talk to me?? what do i do?? what did i do wrong??? PLZ HELP

2007-03-25 17:19:49 · 7 answers · asked by SouTHerN_GurL 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have made some hasty mistakes in the past, previous to meeting each other. As in, getting intimate too fast in a relationship, and the relationship getting bad soon afterwards.
So, we've talked about it and agreed on no-sex for a while, because we really like each other and we don't want to screw things up between us by getting into it too soon.

We have talked about what precautions we would take (we're both free and clear, jobs, responsible adults), what we like and don't like, etc, but definately that we should wait a while. It's an honestly mutual decision, since he suggested it (though, I think I'm a little less for it than him..).

I know every relationship is different, this ones really different from my past relationships, but what the question I have is, when is too soon/a good time? We've talked about going out of town (camping, the beach, etc) together, just the two of us, could we do those without sex?

2007-03-25 17:19:13 · 9 answers · asked by Annie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 17:19:06 · 5 answers · asked by truecolours 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was jw if anyone uses condoms and if so if they knew when they bought them? I was just wondering cause I think my husband cheated on me and wondered if anyone bought any recently and when the expiration date was on them. :(

2007-03-25 17:19:00 · 14 answers · asked by rachael m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Girls giggle around me for the most mundane things. I was putting on shoes once in a car and they laughed. One girl started giggling everytime I opened my mouth. And it's always worse when they travel in packs. It's actually a bit scary. Why do they do it?

2007-03-25 17:18:41 · 9 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Singles & Dating

when two friends... the guy love the girl and finaly he tell her how he feel a bout her but she say that she don feel the same way does that end the relation between them...
If the guy say to her I don care If u don love me but I wana to be friends if u don... but if U we can more than friends
does that work.. or the relation is over if he want or not
plzzzz answer

2007-03-25 17:18:22 · 3 answers · asked by lololo 1 in Singles & Dating

How often would you be able communicate with someone back in the states if you have no cell, email or mailing adress?
I have been talking to a man for 2.5 years. Ever since he left we talk hardley ever. Spoekn to him 5 times since August 2006...Is it his job holding back, or is it just me? What would you say?

2007-03-25 17:18:17 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Im just wondering why girls seem to go out with jerks. I know so many good guys who aren't shy or unpopular who don't have girlfriends and then so many girls who constantly complain about how badly their boyfriends treat them, but how they will always be together. then they complain to me about how there are no nice guys in the world, i just wondered if anyone knows why

2007-03-25 17:18:17 · 7 answers · asked by matt 3 in Singles & Dating

there are noobs on here who dont know..how sad
as usual
anything goes and evrything shoes
um....sorry

2007-03-25 17:17:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know that i have liked you
i may have loved you too
it should have all been balck and white
that this was not ever going to be right
it makes me real sad
to imagine what we never had
You and me
were just not meant to be
never together
or even forever.

2007-03-25 17:17:24 · 12 answers · asked by Nemo 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a freshman in high school. I work my *** off in high school all week days. During lunch, I freaking go to the library just to study. When I go home, I turn on the computer and do homework. Sometimes I stray off a little and finish the homework at 10-12 o'clock p.m due to being tired or bad circumstances. During weekends, I have to go to tutoring on Saturday and I have homework to do on Sunday. After finishing homework, I just go on the computer for 3-4 hours. My mom is a so gay and with her damn ignorant friends supporting the idea, is gonna have my technician dad dismantle my comp tommorrow. What am I supposed to do?

2007-03-25 17:16:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im in high school and I really like this guy in my physics class. He sits at the lab table straight across from me and I think I catch him staring at me sometimes but Im not completely sure. We're not really friends so this makes it twice as hard. He also turns his body toward me a lot. I only have that class with him and also gym, but he's always talking with his friends so this makes it even more difficult. How do I know if he likes me??

2007-03-25 17:15:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I recently worked up the courage to pop the big question and hoorey we're now enaged.We finally broke the news to the family and friends.They were all happy and smothering us with congratulations.Well I thought they were all happy,my cousin was all happy and smiling giving us her best and she puts on a bright smile around the rest of the family,but i've noticed recently that she's become very distant with my fiancee,they were always very close and instantly clicked,so I don't understand the sudden change.Now she'll hardly stay in the same room as her,she won't talk with her,hardly wants to even look at her,I asked my fiancee if they'd had a fight but that's not the case,it has to be something to do with the engagment as she avoids the subject like the plague,but I can't figure out why exactly.So i'll ask the oracles on Yahoo,why do you think she is acting this way?

2007-03-25 17:15:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I hadn't been bugging her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be friends again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say what I felt about her, but all my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else.

2007-03-25 17:14:56 · 4 answers · asked by Curios 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and i are close and have been cool for three years - just recently found out that we really have deep feelings for each other (he's liked me "forever") but decided that there's too much on our plate right now - when the time is right, it will happen. We decided just to keep being friends and he sounded happy. (btw, he's the "shy guy" type - he's outoing with friends but has no game when it comes to girls) He said, "wow. i'm glad we're friends again, i can talk to you about everything again b/c before i didn't know what to do or say..."

So now, we'll talk but not as much - i guess we're taking baby steps? Everytime we talk, he just seems bummed out...just sad and very "blaaah" - he's still normal and himself but there's just this vibe...that he's sad. and I KNOW he does care for me...and it's not like he doesn't wanna talk to me...i know that for sure..he just seems...sad...

why?

2007-03-25 17:14:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have known each other 10 years and have been romantically involved the last 3. I was saving up for a ring to pop the big question and planned a surprise trip to hawaii in June.

Well I am obviously done with her.
I have a few problems:
We live together and share a lease to a 1 bedroom apartment. (yes 1 bedroom)
the lease is not up until October.
She won't leave and let me have the apartment to myself.
Her family is 1,000 miles away, she came out here to live with me last year.
I even said she could have the place to herself, she does not want to be stuck with the bills that is in BOTH of our names by herself.

I would appreciate advice from anyone.

2007-03-25 17:13:24 · 9 answers · asked by WhiteSox 2 in Singles & Dating

my first kiss felt like a dream come true. it was amazing it felt like firework then my first happen.it was like a was walking on air. it was great kiss me n my boo are still 2gether. he is this amazing guy i meet in 1st grade now we share a life 2gether. with 4 amazing kids.they are wonderful boys that we have. n 3 sister kids they r great kids so what did urs feel like that how mine felt 2 me what abt ur amazing kiss

2007-03-25 17:12:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 17:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend who is currently in college with a ton of bills,is trying to find work as a web cam girl the adult kind and i'm trying to find a way to talk her out of it she's like she needs the money they pay good all she has to do is buy a webcam and find out who is hiring she is a beautiful girl and use to having an older sugar daddy buying her whatever she wants and paying for everything but broke out of it and i think this is just as bad she thinks as long as her inmate boyfriend don't find out she is okay im appaled she would degrade herself like this and dont want her to do it some of our other friends who are strippers to pay for school tell her it is okay and she should do it or come work with them what can i do she is working fulltime now but she says that's not enough

2007-03-25 17:11:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay ...i had ask my parents if it was okay if i went 2 ma friends house n go 2 da pool on the day wen we get out early. at first my fatehr was lyk okay why not if u wanna hang out wit yo friends go ahead...n he made me beleive that it was okay den all of a sudden he wanted to just come out n say no u cnt go becuse wen he asked me who will be ther 2 supervise n i toldhim if my friends mom has to go to work den her sister who is a senior then he starts getting mad talking about how he is not letting me hang out by the pool with my friends if only her sister is going to supervise because then she will invite her friends and i will be surrounded by a bunch of 17 ,18 yr old boys...i dnt thynk datsz fair because her sister wouldn't even do that 1stly because i know her vey well and i know how she is n she is not trying to et in trouble by ny meansz if her parentsz found out that she invited boys to her little sister "pool occasion with her friends" sje would get in trouble. ..

2007-03-25 17:10:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-25 17:10:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex boyfriend recently broke up because his ex wife is crazy. She was going psycho in front of their kids because she was so angry about him being with me, even though the marriage ended by her choice. She told him that if he ever got back together with me, "I will have to do something to f*** with her." I just got a call from his phone, but I know she has it right now as he gave it to her because she doesn't have one and has the children. Therefore, she knows I still talk to him on occassion. (We were thinking after her emotions die down a bit she might be okay). My question is, if an ex wife is vindictive, what should I be looking out for? What qualifies as f***ing with me?

2007-03-25 17:10:11 · 12 answers · asked by idontloveyoufup 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that girls who go for older men do so because they think men who are older are sexier because theyre confident and they know what they want. They also like the man to be strong and be in charge of them (also sexy) Why do older guys go for younger girls?

2007-03-25 17:09:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating