I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I hadn't been bugging her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be friends again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say what I felt about her, but all my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else.
2007-03-25 17:14:56 · 4 answers · asked by Curios 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I'll just see you around." She talked to everyone in the hall but me. I left her. I'm wondering what should I do for her birthday next week? I'm going to ask her friends what kind of gifts she likes. I think I probably should just tell her happy birthday to show that I remember. Maybe I shouldn't even say that. After that, I'm forgetting all about her because ain't nothin ever gon change.
I'll ask this in the form of a poll. Should I-
#1-Buy her a birthday gift and hand it to her
#2-Just say happy birthday to her (she's turning 17 and I'm 17)
#3-Completely ignore her
If I completely ignored her (which she did to me this year on my birthday and she knew it was my birthday) wouldn't that just be being immature or doing evil for evil? Even though I think that's what I have to do.
If I at least say happy birthday, I'm being the bigger person, showing that I'm still going to treat her right no matter how she treats me (although I'm paying her much less attention)?
2007-03-25 17:17:44 · update #1
Today I thought and I realized that in the last month of us talking, when she got angry at me, I had not done A THING to her. I was changing what she said I was doing wrong.
2007-03-25 17:25:30 · update #2
For her birthday, give her freedom.
That goes for you too. Let go.
2007-03-25 17:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by Pixie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't seem to have gotten the point from this girl and that is that she isn't into you. Don't buy her a present. Say happy birthday if you want or ignore her if you want but if it were me i wouldn't waste my breath talking to someone who obviously wants nothing to do with me at all. For her birthday leave her alone that could be a present in itself.
2007-03-25 17:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can tell you got over her since your not talking about a gift for her.not. but if you want to move on get a gift for a girl who likes you.look yohave trapped a girl into liking you before hell if you lie enough mabe it can happen again but leave the ex alone she dont want you if she did she could have you it shows even acrossed the web man
2007-03-25 17:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by east2west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Happy Birthday"
And leave it at that.
Give her space and give yourself space.
2007-03-25 17:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋