Me and my ex boyfriend recently broke up because his ex wife is crazy. She was going psycho in front of their kids because she was so angry about him being with me, even though the marriage ended by her choice. She told him that if he ever got back together with me, "I will have to do something to f*** with her." I just got a call from his phone, but I know she has it right now as he gave it to her because she doesn't have one and has the children. Therefore, she knows I still talk to him on occassion. (We were thinking after her emotions die down a bit she might be okay). My question is, if an ex wife is vindictive, what should I be looking out for? What qualifies as f***ing with me?
2007-03-25 17:10:11 · 12 answers · asked by idontloveyoufup 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Run and hide. Lock all doors, women are crazy when it come to there once loved ones. Maybe shes still in love so watch out. I hope she doesn't cause you any physical harm.
2007-03-25 17:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean anything - it just may mean that the two of them are not finished. You should back off for the sake of the two of them and their children and let them sort through it. Were you involved with him before their marriage ended? If so, that is even more reason to take a step or two back. Let him sort it out and decide what he wants. He may be playing both of you at this point. He obviously still cares about her and the kids enough to make sure they have a cell phone. And you don't know exactly what was said - he could be exaggerating more than a bit. My ex told his girlfriend (who was in the picture before he let me know he didn't want to be married anymore) all sorts of lies. And when he was finished with her he started telling her even more lies - similar to what your 'boyfriend' is telling you. Enough that she decided it was too much trouble to bother with. He had already moved on to someone else before she was out the door.
I wouldn't get up in arms with regards to the wife just yet. Has she ever threatened you to your face? The phone call may just have been her going through the numbers in the phone - she may have hit the call or redial number by mistake or it could have just been curiousity.
Give them some space. Consider looking for a relationship with a man that doesn't have obligations or a family that will need to come before you. He and his wife may even reconcile.
2007-03-26 00:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by greyrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run sweaty You never know what a psycho is going to do. Let your ex deal with it i wouldn't even talk to him if its his number calling you don't answer and keep looking behind you. Next time make sure the guy is single and free save yourself the pain
2007-03-26 00:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMMMM...OUCH!!! Good luck....once a psycho always a psycho! She will make you think everything is just fine and then she will seriously F*** you! This will happen your entire relationship! So either get used to it and NEVER trust her, out get out now. You are going to need 110% support from your boyfriend, and with you two breaking up, it looks like he's not there for you.
2007-03-26 00:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh goodness, leave the Baby Mama Drama alone!!! Woman are crazy when it comes to love and jealousy. F***ing with you can mean anything, I just hope this woman is not physically violent towards you. She could call you and tell you things to hurt you, or just keep trying to bein your face, get you mad I dont know. Too much for me, i couldnt deal with it.
2007-03-26 00:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is any kind of man he would file for custody of the kids as she is a danger and just plain bad influence to act like that in front of the kids. If he chooses that over you, count your blessing to get out now and move on.
2007-03-26 00:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by dana j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's persistently harassing you, notify the authorities. If you feel your life is in danger, notify the authorities. Any uneasy feeling, take out an order of protection and stay away from that guy, he must not be wrapped too tight himself if he was with this lunatic!
2007-03-26 00:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not put anything pass someone that feel like that.
but you need to do what is right for you. you need to leave
this man and this women along. if you get back with him
there will be on peace in the realtionship. so why put your
self thought that.
2007-03-26 00:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider this your chance to leave!! Do you really need this in your life?? Is this how you want to spend the rest of your life? If you really think that this is OK, PLEASE do NOT have kids with this dude! It would not be fair to bring another child into this sickness!
2007-03-26 00:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by Cindy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies..you surprise me. I thought women were victims??? Obviously this ex-wife is a victim of something her husband did, and this woman asking the question is also his victim.
Damn it girls, you're gonna lose your lifetime membership to the feminist movement and the View, if you don't keep up the feminist charade that women are ALWAYS VICTIMS OF MEN!!
2007-03-26 00:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋