Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

So this will sound cliche but I just can't figure out women. Theres this girl I really like, and she seems to really like me, but instead she prefers to play guys and make out with this guy who never plans on asking her out. Dating or having a relationship with her in any way. Yes I know this for a fact, he told me in a VERY personal conversation and if you knew the guy you'd understand why he in all sence of the word is a man hore. I don't mean to sound highly of myself because I dont think highly of myself I think of myself as being very average. But I have alot more to offer her than a guy who just wants to make out and play around with her. Shes an amazing girl and has so much going for her that she just can't seem to see. She's funny smart beautiful just an all around amazing person. But she still prefers just playing around with some random guy than getting into any sort of relationship. I feel bad for her knowing that I can never be with her and someone who doesnt care about her

2007-03-25 16:43:17 · 1 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont beleave in perfect people but he is
on b4 and after my bday was alabout him cuz of bball
my first/most important play no 1 cares about bcuz of his track
i have 2 do his chores
and SOO mcuh more
and when ever i talk 2 my mom about it she gets mad

2007-03-25 16:43:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A heart is not a play thing,
A heart is not a toy,
But if you want it broken,
Just give it to a boy.

Boys they like to play with things,
To see what makes them run,
But when it comes to kissing,
They do it just for fun.

You will wonder where he is at night,
You will wonder if he's true,
One moment you will be happy,
One moment you will be blue.

If you get a chance to see him,
Your heart begins to dance.
Your life revolves around him,
There's nothing like romance.

And then it starts to happen,
You worry day and night.
You see, my friend, you're losing him.
It never turns out right.

2007-03-25 16:43:02 · 5 answers · asked by vanessa a 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering, cuase i play, want to know if guys find it wierd or cool.

2007-03-25 16:42:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just curious, is it possible to fall in love with a friend who is going through the same situation as you are in a marriage to fall in love? What I am trying to say is, I have been in a marriage for 18 years, spouse is very sick. I can't have a sexual relationship with my husband because of medical problems and we are arguing all the time. We constantly disagree on things, don't like the same stuff, therefore we are totally opposite on beliefs and activities. I have a friend that is in the same situation we been talking for the past two years. Never had a sexual relationship with my friend. Could it turn into a closer/sexual relationship and more? His wife is sick also and no sex. What you all think?

2007-03-25 16:42:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told her that it would take us two years to marry and a month later she told me she met someone and they talked about marriage. She was quite vaugue about him. It made me quarrel with her and break off the relationship. There probably was no other man since she was just trying to get me to commit which I didnt realize back then. She then said "you dont have to get angry now after our quarrel".

One year on about ten days back I tell her that I was wrong and I felt bad about it and would probably feel bad all my life. I also told her that it was the other man that had made me to quarrel and break off with her. She said "I am not angry" and "we can still be friends".

She agreed to my request and allowed me to add her name in my messenger list. I asked her if she was married and she never answeed. Ive never heard a word from her since that last messenger request was approved a week ago. I wonder why ? Is she really married to the other man or still single. This is online relationship.

2007-03-25 16:41:54 · 6 answers · asked by Bachelor boy 2 in Singles & Dating

my fiance called me from afar, at midnight, the night before he was to come home, and he broke up with me, giving me less than 24 hours notice to get out of his house, in winter, with two kids, two weeks before xmas, 1 week before midterms, mind you he knew my aunt would take us in. And his parnets have wrongly labeled me verbally and this was his reason for getting ' confused. he has now told me that I will be put after his friends and family forever and he will be going back home for wekks or months at a time when he is between job contracts. I dont know what to do or if I derserve all this? THe only thing I am honestly guilty of is my temperment and and have taken all steps neccessary to fix me but he has done nothing but take affection away and limits have been put on me. WE now live together but we are not engaged anymore because he is still unsrue of Im a 4ever girl or 4now girl, and I really do love him with all my heart, unconditionally and would nto do anything to hurt him.

2007-03-25 16:41:45 · 5 answers · asked by 4nowgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 16:41:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy for more than 5 months now. We never spoke about the future yet. I'm quite anxious to know though. Is it too early or is it okay for me to ask? How? HELP ME PLEASE........

2007-03-25 16:40:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently, I started talking to my ex. It all seemed to start out very romantically, and he called every day for a week, and I thought we were talking about getting back together, but he didn't call one night when he had said he would, and I texted him wondering what was going on. He called and started yelling at me--I took it all, thinking it was good to get this kind of feeling out in the open, but then, the next thing I knew, he was pulling back and calling at his convenience only. I tried to be nice and say how happy I was at the positive things he was doing, but he seemed pretty upset. He encouraged me to talk about the past, and we got some very important things out in the open, including him asking me why I had to leave NYC, and why didn't I let him move in w/ me when he was ready. Later, he wrote an email in which he talked about wanting to stay in touch but on his terms, and also basically saying that he didn't feel the same way as he used to on the phone. What's his problem?

2007-03-25 16:40:42 · 6 answers · asked by Christina V 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 16:40:09 · 16 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Singles & Dating

Does it matter if they were strangers or acquaintances?

What does this mean?

2007-03-25 16:40:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 16:39:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My bf decided to go on a "break" a few months back. We still hung out every other day and acted like everything was fine. So, we stopped the break a few wks later. But during this time he began talking to a girl online. He began saying "I love you" and "I miss you" to her and giving her petnames. I noticed he had become a little distant from me and I just blamed it on the fact that he was just adjusting to a new job at the night shift. But when i read text messages on his phone to and from this girl..i got mad. He said that she started to have feelings for him. I told him to break it off before he did something he regret. but a few months later I read even more hurtful messages. This time he told me that he needed his space and that he was tired of always fighting with me and getting me upset. He didnt want a realtionship to be that way I'm his one and only gf...is he doing this because he wantsthat new feeling with someone else or is he scared about comitment now? He's 24 and i'm 21

2007-03-25 16:39:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He liked her for a really long time and the thing is this kid told her he likes her but that kid did not know that and she has a bf also this might creat at some akwardness what should he do

2007-03-25 16:38:58 · 9 answers · asked by Dave 2 in Singles & Dating

my guy friend of almost a year asked me if i was seeing other guys other than him. i only get to see him maybe 2 or 3 times a month because of our conflicting schedules. is wrong to see other people when no one made an effort to establish a realationship?

2007-03-25 16:38:39 · 5 answers · asked by ny 2 in Singles & Dating

Your guy loves you as much as you love him? without literally asking?

2007-03-25 16:38:19 · 3 answers · asked by cloud16 4 in Singles & Dating

What if the boyfreind has made it clear only weeks prior that he is not ready for a serious commitment in his life, wanted to remain single and wasnt really ready to commit after 2 years? This was an extremly high risk pregnancy that would have left the mother with possible long term health problems and the baby was at risk for birth defects.

2007-03-25 16:37:44 · 22 answers · asked by chcknbizkit 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend are in highschool, she is a senior i am a junior. She is going off to college while ill still be stuck in highshcool. What are some tips/advice for keeping the relationship strong. We have been going out for just over 1 year now, and i would love to keep things the way they are. please help!

2007-03-25 16:37:43 · 10 answers · asked by hmm..intresting.. 2 in Singles & Dating

I really want to finish college and be well rooted in my work and all before I marry, but I will be around 30 something by then. Do you think that is really late to marry?

2007-03-25 16:37:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing this guy that I really like for 3 months. We haven't talked about whether or not we are a couple and I don't know if I should bring it up. We have a lot in common and spend a lot of time together. We haven't had sex but we do spend the night together every weekend. I don't want to see anyone else and I don't think he does either. I don't know what I should next or if I should just continue with the way things are.

2007-03-25 16:37:24 · 14 answers · asked by sm2453 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I hadn't been bugging her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be friends again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say what I felt about her, but all my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else.

2007-03-25 16:37:19 · 1 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I just got back together after 1 week fighting about some online gay guy she liked and he liked her in returned. I'll refer to him as Bob. They never met in person and they have more in common but she recently found out that he lied to her about his boyfriends death two years ago and I assumed he lied for pity points. She was doing research on a local band and found out that Bob's bf is still alive and isnt gay but dating a girl for 3 years. The dates dont match up and when she approached him, he doesnt have a real excuse and he would twist the argument and say she's just like everyone else he ever met and that she is getting too involved him his personal life. I explained to her that he's playing a game and pinning her down, but that makes me look like the bad guy because i obviously don't like him and it seems like i'm just trash talking him. Anyway, I managed to spend enough time with her and take her out and we decided to get together. She told me that Bob

2007-03-25 16:36:59 · 1 answers · asked by Freeak 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think I could say to her that she would listen to?
She is my niece. I don't see her very often.

2007-03-25 16:36:39 · 9 answers · asked by supertop 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

all they do is pick on me and make fun of me and mock me

2007-03-25 16:36:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the guy i like, but really...dont want to like usually texts me or IM's me once or more a day. i really want to stop talking to him because i know he's not what i need in my life. he's sometimes a bad influence and i dont want that at all because i'll admit, i'm a "good" girl. basically i'm asking how do i get over him?!

2007-03-25 16:36:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 16:35:27 · 37 answers · asked by icene_06 2 in Singles & Dating

What was your experience did you like it did you regret it ....

2007-03-25 16:34:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He says I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him.
He seems to always get so angry & yells if I do the least thing
wrong(according to him).He thinks HIS way is the best,right & only way & he'll let you know it.

2007-03-25 16:34:35 · 5 answers · asked by Valarie C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently, I started talking to my ex. It all seemed to start out very romantically, and he called every day for a week, and I thought we were talking about getting back together, but he didn't call one night when he had said he would, and I texted him wondering what was going on. He called and started yelling at me--I took it all, thinking it was good to get this kind of feeling out in the open, but then, the next thing I knew, he was pulling back and calling at his convenience only. I tried to be nice and say how happy I was at the positive things he was doing, but he seemed pretty upset. He encouraged me to talk about the past, and we got some very important things out in the open, but then he said something about not wanting to feel obligated to call. Later, he wrote an email in which he talked about wanting to stay in touch but on his terms, and also basically saying that he didn't feel the same way as he used to on the phone. What happened? Is this coming from him or me?

2007-03-25 16:34:20 · 11 answers · asked by Christina V 1 in Singles & Dating