2007-03-25 16:35:27 · 37 answers · asked by icene_06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its time to bail when the feelings for you are gone. If the relationship isnt heading where you want it to go then bail. Or if you can t look at him and see him with you for the next 5 years. Make sure you are both benifiting from your relationship, if he is a drain on you its time to go.
2007-03-25 16:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Icne, I don't know how old you are, and all the answers here are good, but from my experience, here are some things that, I myself got out of a relationship for:
You feel you have matured/grown up, and he still isn't there yet.
He ignores you, your phone calls/messages, and is just simply not attentive to you as you would like him to be, and nothing seems to be able to change it.
You find yourself wondering IF he is really the ONE.
You wonder if he'll ever really commit to you.
He calls u at times, too late, breaks dates, or times to see you.
He doesn't spend enough time with you.
He really doesn't share your hopes and dreams for a future.
All the above should, I sure hope, make anyone wonder if they are in the right relationship.
Breaking up sometimes stinks, even when you want it, but before anyone makes that move, please do some real soul searching, and rememember that, no matter what, you deserve to have a relationship based on BOTH of you, not some one sided thing. We are all better than that.
Best of luck and love to you, I've been there, a few times, and I know, I really know it's hard to decide if you should leave.
But you know what, when I did leave, it's wasn't easy, but in the end, I truly believe with my heart I did the right thing, and came out of it a stronger, better woman, with a much better sense of who I was and what I really wanted, and needed.
No one can satisfy you better than you, don't let your feelings get in the way of making a break. And don't let fear stop you.
Take care. Think hard. And think about YOU. Because, it is YOU who will be looking at yourself in the mirror each day, no one else. Be true to yourself. Above all, be happy with YOU.
That's the key.
2007-03-25 17:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends on only one factor, YOU. What do you think? Do you think he's worth the trouble? Does he treat you with respect? Is he good to you? Is he abusive (either verbally, physically, and/or sexually)?Do you think he loves you? Do you think you love him? Does he make you happy? Do you guys have enough in common? Are you his top priority? These are some of the questions you should ask yourself. Anyone can tell you whether to leave a guy or not, but it's up to you to decide whether he's the perfect guy or not. You need to think long and hard about this. You do need to know, however, that he can't choose for you. You have an opinion too. Just decide whether he's a person you can spend the rest of your life with or he will be the person that will crush your dreams and make you miserable or simply hold you back. Now I'm not saying anything about your boyfriend since I have no clue who he is, but just know that, if he is abusive, that you can never deserve it. If that's the case, then get out while you still can. However, if it's nothing like that (which I hope to God it's not), then simply decide if he's the guy of your dreams. I'll pray for you and I hope you make the right decision.
2007-03-25 16:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by bond_fan_001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You start looking for signs to get out of a relationship.
2007-03-25 16:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you ask this question you have probably seen some signs so follow that urging to get out. There are always Red flags but most of the time people ignore them.
2007-03-25 16:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by Starrlyte 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When everything's not doing okay, when things arent the same the way it used to be, and when you feel that you are not loved and needed anymore, thats the time to let go, give up or get out of the relationship.
2007-03-25 17:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by dale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none is ever completely happy all the time and as you grow older you change. It is nice to be with someone who can deal with all those changes and wait for your mood to change. Women are always talking and a sensitive man can pick up on those vibes you give out. Never give up unless you are completely sure doubt can be even more unsettling
2007-03-25 16:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by realgood150 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say it to yourself. For every failed relationship I have ever had, I can remember a point in which I said it should end right now. I always regrettede not ending it at that point once it was over.
2007-03-25 16:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by Peter H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably when you start posting the question here... you already know, that is why you are asking for help... get out while you can! Good luck to you.
2007-03-25 16:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you have done all that you could do to make the relationship work.
2007-03-25 16:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by Amy F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋