me and my girlfriend are in highschool, she is a senior i am a junior. She is going off to college while ill still be stuck in highshcool. What are some tips/advice for keeping the relationship strong. We have been going out for just over 1 year now, and i would love to keep things the way they are. please help!
2007-03-25 16:37:43 · 10 answers · asked by hmm..intresting.. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you seen Son-in-Law? Most people change alot when they leave home. There are exciting new things to do and new friends you make. It is extremely difficult to be true to someone still sitting at home.And not fair to either of you to expect the other to sit home during the most exciting times of their lives. the best thing to do is agree to date others and stay friends keep in touch by calls and e-mails but give each other freedom without guilt. If it is true love for you two, you will know it and will still have time in the future to think about getting into a one on one relationship.
2007-03-25 16:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing, that is a tuff subject. Long distance relationships are hard, even harder when there is new temptation involved. I dont doubt that you two love eachother and it would be great to keep everything as is but that is very unlikely. There is going to be distance between you and new trust issues. If you really think you have a chance at a future I would drag it out until she leaves and then let her go. Allow her to go through the college experience and you to finish school and figure out your options, then if all works pick up where you left off. Usually situations like this end up in insecurity and fear because you are no longer as close as you once were. Then there is the possibility of a bad break up. I would end it and try to b great friends, and always there for one another and if its meant to be, it will find a way.
2007-03-25 23:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by july 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey buddy.. The best thing I can tell you is break up with her.. Cause in the end, its not going to work...
For some reason when a person gets there first taste of independence and new people and enviornment.. they tend to go off on the deep end..
Though its possible to stay with her and be strong about it.. But its highly unlikely...You really should think about breaking up with her before she goes.
2007-03-25 23:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by -Dr. D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, my fiancee and I went through this 5 years ago. We visitied each other a lot and talked all the time. We would send each other little mementos to lt the other know we were thinking of them. Bottom line, if you both want it to wor it can work. But you have to be truly committed and there will be pressure in college to have random hookups. Discuss it before she leaves and make sure its what you both want or else break it off because youll get hurt one way or other. Commitment is key!!
2007-03-25 23:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visit her as much as you can, call her, e-mail her, just stay in touch, but if it is not right for both of you and you drift apart then that is ok because there will be someone else. Do everything that you can as normal as possible and keep in touch as best as you can. Good luck and God Bless!
2007-03-25 23:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by sunshineangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in contact!!!! Romance her!!! Really let her know you are a great catch, and if it doesnt work out just know it wasnt meant to be. Also let her know you are feeling a bit insecure about her leaving.
2007-03-25 23:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always visit her sometimes in a holiday but meanwhile you can keep calling her. Just know her schedule so that you will not disturb her in any situation.
2007-03-25 23:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Hahaha... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well on the weekends you guys can hang out call her and make sure you talk to her whenever possible!!
2007-03-25 23:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by tora-lora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well buddy I hate to tell you this but she is older she will get into guys at collage like it or not you maybe 14or15 she's 17no18 find someone your own age you'll be happier
2007-03-26 00:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi you theirs no prob with that just do wat you alwys do even wen she goes to college just continue it and xpanding your emotions!i know wat your afraid of college boys!hey you have to trust her if you love her!if she really loves you that much she wont cheat just trust thats your foundation!and this one will go between the two of you if she trust you,you should trust her!rte so you hve to tlk this one together and tell her how you feel with this coming situation and hopefully she will be touch and love you more coz she will fell that you do love her so much that you care for your relation that much to ok
2007-03-25 23:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by vash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋