Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

i really really wanted to tryout for cheerleading and im sure i had a really good shot at making the squad. But being a cheerleader at my school doesnt come cheap. You have to pay about $1000 for the whole uniform and cheer camp, its about $200-300 each month until june or something. And because of that, my parents wont let me tryout. I want to cheer more than anything right now but my parents dont think its worth the money. My friend's parents let her tryout so i dont see the problem with my parents. I've been giving my parents the cold shoulder all day today and if my friend makes the squad, i swear im never speaking to them. They know im pissed off at them and then my mom was all yelling at me eearlier saying "you cant always get what you want". I hate her. Im sure any mom would be lucky to have their daughter as a cheerleader, plus, it looks really good for college. What do i do?? Tryouts are tomorrow!!

2007-03-25 16:24:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-25 16:23:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a realy cute guy in my math class who use to talk to me all the time. But after a while they move me from seats and now he does talk to me like he use to but he sees me b4 class and after and during lunch. But the only reason he ses me is b/c he tries to be around were i am but does he like me or just wanna be friends? should i ask him ? some advice will be nice

2007-03-25 16:22:59 · 1 answers · asked by ♥Princess♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

www.myspace.com/lilaznsang?

2007-03-25 16:22:55 · 4 answers · asked by MissyPrissy 1 in Friends

I was at a wedding and the bride is a large size woman and very elegant and beatuiful someone told me that the gown she wore was tasteful. What does that mean? I know it means something good but that was the first time I ever heard this statement made I know it is and "old school " term.

2007-03-25 16:22:41 · 13 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Weddings

Well I 've been talking to this guy for about a couple of months, we haven't even kissed or anything because I've made it clear that I'm not going to rush into anything. He's told me that he's never felt this way for anybody ....Then I saw he has a myspace and I didn't tell him about it for a while. He just talked to his usual friends on it. Then I told him I saw his myspace page, and after that I never mentioned it to him again. Well after he found out that I know his myspace, he's been really close with some girl on it, they keep messaging eachother back and forth. he also put her #1 on his friends. but he never mentions her to me. What should I do? If i mention it will he think i'm crazy? Or is he trying to make me jealous, knowing that I might check his page once in a while..? Guys what do u think??

2007-03-25 16:22:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to be myself at school, but everyone just seems to keep shoving me to one side. I haven't done anything to offend anyone. I moved to american about 4 years ago, when i was ten. I'm now in 8th grade and its always been the same! I'm shy...really shy. And i always feel like being myself isn't good enough. If i make a joke or try to be more out-going, it usually ends if major embaressment. Help! What do i do?!

2007-03-25 16:22:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

recently a pastor bring forward a couple before the whole congregation to confess in front of the church, just because they have broke the laws of marriage,the girl is pregnant . Is this rite? why have to confess in public? even a roman catholic able to confess in the box.

2007-03-25 16:22:04 · 14 answers · asked by hyperkid 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has a suspended license and a warrant for not paying. He doesn't have a car. I took some of my school money and bought me a car. He works midnights. I don't work at all. Before this happened he was driving the car freely. We got into a big argument about him driving the car to work. I say if he gets pulled over for any reason they will ask for his license and see that it is suspended and that he has a warrant and take him to jail. My car will more than likely end up in impound.He says they won't have any reason to pull him over and that I'm being selfish. He says when he had a car he didn't treat me like this. He says he'll just catch the bus from now on. But I've never had a suspended license let alone a warrant out for my arrest. And if he goes to jail me and our daughter will be on the street because I can't afford our place without him. He's my husband though so should I let him drive and not worry or should I make him catch the bus? Why or why not?
Thanks in advance.

2007-03-25 16:21:59 · 13 answers · asked by closure 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so.. I have been dating this guy for awhile now.. I thought things were going great.. and he keeps telling me how much he cares about the relationship.. I have been monitoring a profile that I ran across of his on a personals/sex site...mostly because we did meet on yahoo personals.. and I did a search on his screen name. and all the other posts came up.. anyways.. I talked to him before about it.. said that he put them up so that he would reach more people.. considering most people only use one site.. but now that we were together.. not an issue.. He travels to georgia for a bit for work/a business that he is starting down there.. I found out tonight that he changed his post.. says.. "if he is online.. he is looking to chat or play" and lists his sex preferences.. I have to do something.. I am driving my self nuts because I love him so much.. should I go see him this weekend/leave then bring it up.. If I say something.. we might never see eachother again.. thanks to all that reply!

2007-03-25 16:21:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all my friends have boyfriends except for me

2007-03-25 16:21:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am seeing this guy but its not a relationship.(when i met him he told me from the beginning that he doesnt want a relationship)we hook up when we can and dont see each other during the week. Basically all we have is a sexual relationship and this has been going on for almost a year now.at first it was all ok with me but just a few days ago i have started to think otherwise.and i hate to think he has someone else in his life apart from me.The worse part about all this is that he has no idea about how i feel.I love my space and so does he.but i wish we could be together. I am scared to lose what we have right now if i tel him how i feel.what should i do.

2007-03-25 16:20:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is a really expensive silver with a ruby and i lost it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-25 16:20:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok so I have been seeing this guy for a few months..and he seems to be great...I am very comfortable with him and I dont want to see anyone else..I am not sure if I love him or not simply cause its too soon...HOWEVER....he tells me all the time that he doesnt want a commitment...which means to me that I am fair game for anyone else that comes along..I am not seeing anyone else..nor do I want to...but...even though he treats me like I am his girlfriend...and makes comments about other guys...what is his deal?? I mean...how hard can it be??..I dont get it...HELP!!

2007-03-25 16:19:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dear participants,

I am in a very difivult situation. I started to date this girl around 5 months ago. I wanted to break up with her after the second month. She did not recieve aproval from my family, neither my closest friends. i am only 20 and i feel that she thinks about marriage although she does not admits so. She allways talk to me about the future and we fight practically about everything every day. She even gets angry when i meet with my oldest friends. Furthermore, she starts crazy arguements because i can meet her only three or two days a week. The first time i broke up, she came and talked to my parents! the second time, she came to my office without telling me. each time i want to break up she cryes histerycaly and i accept to restart the relationship. I love her as well, however things are not working out, and it is the best for both of us to split. we fight every day, she cries every day... How can i do this in the way i would not hurt her? forgive my spelling...

2007-03-25 16:19:11 · 8 answers · asked by vincenzog01 2 in Singles & Dating

As I prepare to leave my home state for a little while, has anyone been pregnant & their spouses cheated on them? Did they get a divorce? How do you prepare spiritually, mentally, & emotionally to be a single parent? I know that God has worked many miracles, but for some strange reason I am eagerly trying to figure out exactly what it is that God wants me to learn as I divorce my husband? I do not hate God nor am I truly angry with God. What I don't understand is why God would let me open my heart up to a man who's heart perhaps was with someone else & let him get away for a while with being okay with hurting his wife? My husband even went as far as saying that he would rather not see his child and get a divorce from me after only 8 months of marriage. Now I wasn't an angel-high-strung, head strong, & now emotional with the pregnancy. But my husband knew I loved him and wanted nothing but to be loved after I said I do. Is moving out of state a bad thing?

2007-03-25 16:18:54 · 9 answers · asked by PEACHFACE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How many times a day does your partner say, "I love you"? Do you think it's important? I do.

2007-03-25 16:18:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i just finsh find out i have been see is gay is name is ken win been see etour for about a month now what shood i do

2007-03-25 16:18:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my name is Kelsea...and i DONT want Kels or Kel-C....Or anything lame and it doesnt have to be anything to do with my name...juss sumtin ppl can call me im tired of kelsea...




OH and no:
babygurl
lala
fefe
bubble gum
reeses
basically any food names...
yeah NOTHING LAME!!!! please and thanks... if this helps my friend she LOVES cherries so people nicknamed her Sherie...its cute right!?

2007-03-25 16:18:19 · 7 answers · asked by reesespeices 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and me dated then broke up (complicated family order to) and now are dating again while we were broken up he dated someone else and while they were dating we still talked all the time and she encouraged him to because he had told her he loved me. They both saw their relationship as nothing important and when i talked to her she told me how she never cared for him. Yet i can't just be happy again because i know that they were together in the way i think people in love should only be. any advice?

2007-03-25 16:18:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I definitely know that I'm in love with my boyfriend and that he's the person that I want to be with, but is it normal to have relationship problems? In which the person can truly get on your nerves? Has anyone ever felt like they love the person they are with, but they just need space from them..and not even break up? Just not so much talking and all that stuff(we talk every day...all day).

2007-03-25 16:17:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime I get into a relationship it goes bad sometimes really fast. I dunno if its me or what? I am truly faithful to the girl I am dating. I open doors for her . I always try to make her feel comfortable and wanted and if it is serious loved. I always so treat her with respect. I listen when they talk, Because I want to be there for her. I show manners to her parents when I meet them. I always treat a girl really well. But one girl told me when she broke up with me that I was to nice. I don't get it or maybe I am just dumb. I am trying to get back into the dating game. Nothing serious just wanna get back into the Dating Game. Please help. I need some advice.

2007-03-25 16:17:10 · 20 answers · asked by paco_46 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 16:17:03 · 7 answers · asked by rizwanholo1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok this guy @ my skool like me i also like him he turns me on and he asks pesonal questions like did you ever get layed and i told him no did you and he said no he also said i want ot do it with someone special like you i told him i know now me too but its like he told me that he likes me but if my friend said do you like her he said no. myquestion is if i hook up with him would that mean that my couldnt know ? or if i hook up wit him and told my friends wouls he break up with me? is this relationship worth it ? i need 2 know what 2 do help me?

2007-03-25 16:16:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two close friends who tend to make me feel bad. On a few occasions I have bought a shirt or something and they say that they were planning on buying it and can't believe I bought it, even though I had no idea, I felt so bad I returned tons of clothes they wanted. They ditch me all the time on plans we made days before and I wait around for them not to show up when I could be spending time elsewhere, but of course I act like it's fine. They also make me feel bad because I have good money, even though I always treat if we go somewhere and buy them nice gifts, and I never flaunt anything. We are young adults, but they act so childish and it hurts. I believe in being nice to others, but it always comes back to haunt me. What would you do if you were in my shoes? Thanks. :)

2007-03-25 16:16:55 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Friends

2007-03-25 16:16:23 · 4 answers · asked by blueshamrock84 1 in Friends

My crush is very afraid of my Dad and i dunno why...My crush is 22 and is supposed to be a man but is very afraid of my Dad...On saturday nite my dad asked me if i wanted to go out to have some drinks with him and his girlfriend i said sure...I asked if its ok to bring Jesse and he said yeah sure so i did and everything was going ok. The bar that we went to my dad has lots of friends there and when my dad and his women went home i stay there with jesse. I kept trying to kiss him but he was scared that someone would tell my dad...After i got some beers in him to get him relaxed he felt a little better...We started making out and i gave him a big hicky on his neck and he freaked out ...Saying that my dad will find out and now he is all paranoid ...When someone asked if i was his girl he said no thats my sister because he thought they would tell my dad if he said that i was his girl...what is up with him?

2007-03-25 16:16:17 · 3 answers · asked by I_luv_my_kids<3 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for cheap but unique favors for my wedding. I am already going to have bubbles and mintbooks. Seems like soap or bath salts are too feminine, as I will have guys also at my wedding...any ideas appreciated!

2007-03-25 16:16:07 · 11 answers · asked by jtimberlake240 2 in Weddings

I am in the process of getting a divorce. My soon to be exhusband is helping very little. I fortunatley work from home and my child does not have to be in daycare. I am torn between moving back to my hometown which is very small and hillbillyesc but has alot of family support and staying where I currently live where I have alot of friends and I love the area. My father is a very good man and I know he would be great role model for my son but he lives in my hometown. I could also keep the job that I have now if I move. I am torn because moving back to this small town would mean I am surrounded by family drama and an overbearing mother but I would have the family support and a great role model for my son. Help

2007-03-25 16:15:48 · 16 answers · asked by matasha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my boyfriend were disscussing crying he is a pretty cold person and says he dosent cry he works with the elderly and they pass away somtimes and its like he dosent even care and he has tyaken care of them for awhile or in his family when somthing tragic happens its like he dosent care i know he dose he can express verbally but cant cry is this normal is it like real men dont cry cause he said he wouldnt even do it byhimself cause he would feel weird about it its like taboo dose anyone know someone like this why is this

2007-03-25 16:15:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating