i am seeing this guy but its not a relationship.(when i met him he told me from the beginning that he doesnt want a relationship)we hook up when we can and dont see each other during the week. Basically all we have is a sexual relationship and this has been going on for almost a year now.at first it was all ok with me but just a few days ago i have started to think otherwise.and i hate to think he has someone else in his life apart from me.The worse part about all this is that he has no idea about how i feel.I love my space and so does he.but i wish we could be together. I am scared to lose what we have right now if i tel him how i feel.what should i do.
2007-03-25 16:20:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow..you must be hurting right now huh. He just thinks of you as friends with benefits..thats means he will never feel the same way about you as you do him. If you don't just wanna be f*ck buddies I suggest you tell him it has to end. Scared to lose what you have now ?..weird cause all you have now is just sex. You'll never be more to him then just a lay...sad but true.
I say you tell him your in love with him. To get your feelings outta the way so when he rejects you ..you'll know you did all you could do. That way you can move on.
2007-03-25 16:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. This is just my opinion, and I have been told what a horrible selfish pig I am by girls in the past, as well as what a wonderful thoughtful gentleman. Sometimes by the same girl, but obviously at different times. Anyway, The guy here has a great relationship. He gets what he wants, SEX (which, again, in my opinion, is what all guys want), but he doesn't have to go through all of the girl stuff. He doesn't have to take you out, which isn't all that bad, he doesn't have to go meet all of your friends and family, but most importantly, he doesn't have to listen or care about your personal life. Girls seem to have a need for help, someone to lean on, etc. not all girls of course. Guys seem to be more comfortable on their on, being nomadic, not tied down, not all guys of course. Nor do these principles apply for all time. I think when a female does get a guy to "commit" (not necessarily a bad thing), she is in the winning position. But, it seems like this guy is winning with you right now. And I think you don't like the way the game is going. so, you can try to get him to "commit" (which he probably won't), you can keep playing this until he comes around (which he probably won't), or you can just quit. Maybe he will realize how wonderful, simple, and cool everything was with you, and come running into the great commitment (which he probably won't). In conclusion, by not nailing him down in the first or second month, you let him dictate this relationship.
2007-03-25 16:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Peter H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, this sounds bad. You are a booty call and this guy is married!
And the worse is that you love him. Try to surround yourself with good and happy family members and lots of friends. Get involved with a special project. Keep busy.......very busy.
And lots of luck.
2007-03-25 16:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by Frecia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOPPPSSS.... I'm going to leak the truth out! Once you start the sexual relationships then that's all you'll get. If a man gives you his dick before his heart then that is all you will ever have. :(
2007-03-25 16:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
firstly wat u had between u two was not right. at de end of de day u r human being and tend to have feelings.u cant have both, love and sex.as a female i wil advice, u should wake up, use ur brain and end watever u 2 are doing..
2007-03-25 16:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of people love myspace . . . .
2007-03-25 16:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by wuteverittakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... You lost him.
2007-03-25 16:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Femme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋