so.. I have been dating this guy for awhile now.. I thought things were going great.. and he keeps telling me how much he cares about the relationship.. I have been monitoring a profile that I ran across of his on a personals/sex site...mostly because we did meet on yahoo personals.. and I did a search on his screen name. and all the other posts came up.. anyways.. I talked to him before about it.. said that he put them up so that he would reach more people.. considering most people only use one site.. but now that we were together.. not an issue.. He travels to georgia for a bit for work/a business that he is starting down there.. I found out tonight that he changed his post.. says.. "if he is online.. he is looking to chat or play" and lists his sex preferences.. I have to do something.. I am driving my self nuts because I love him so much.. should I go see him this weekend/leave then bring it up.. If I say something.. we might never see eachother again.. thanks to all that reply!
2007-03-25 16:21:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in a previous post I stated that he comes from a rich background.. so doesn't have to really worry about not having something.. heck his family is starting the business for him.. It was great to travel to their house at the beach/be with him.. always pays for everything.. and is really sweet.. I can't give up on my body/well being to be with him.. expecially if he is going to be with other men..
2007-03-25 16:21:22 · update #1
I am going to be devastated if we break up.. will it be worse if I go see him/then tell him.. I just need any advice that anyone has.. thanks all! (why are men like this? I will not date for a loooong time after this)
2007-03-25 16:21:39 · update #2
ow yea... the post is no longer in our city, but in georgia.. like he lives there now..
2007-03-25 16:21:53 · update #3
I think maybe you should just return this fish back to the sea. Never mind the fact that you have long distance issues at the moment, clearly you have some trust issues that need working on and he has relationship issues if he has not taken down his postings.
How long is a while? To me a while would be six month/a year. You sound like only a couple of weeks and you like the perks that you get out of being around him.
2007-03-25 16:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Guys don't stay on Yahoo personals if they are in a relationship.
2. You need to run as fast as you can away from this guy.
3. He's lying to you.
4.Get another one.
5 Don't put up with this.
2007-03-25 23:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by californiacathe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he isn't as into your relationship as you are. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. So he's looking for a bigger playground with more kids. Time to cut your losses and get away while you still have your dignity, pride and a clean bill of health.Always use protection!
2007-03-25 23:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start stalking him. Peep into his windows and listen to all of his conversations and just end up anywhere he tends to go. That is the best way to get a Guy if you are gay.
2007-03-25 23:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is having sex with several others
2007-03-25 23:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Stormy Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋