2007-03-25 16:23:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok well she still has notes and bears her exs gave her n i kinda feel like she shouldnt have them...should i stress bout it
2007-03-25 16:31:05 · update #1
I still have stuff from my girlfriend from 30+ years ago.
They are reminders of happy memories.
2007-03-25 16:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Robert F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really it depends on the stuff. The things I've kept are worth some money. I also have sentimental objects like photos, letters and artwork. This may be a problem for some guys but the way I see it, he was a part of my life for 8 years and he's still really good friends with my brother in a way we were like siblings so I have no intentions of getting rid of these things. I did put the sentimental things away.
Is this stuff that she's keeping junk? If it is she has some issues but if it's not garbage you shouldn't worry about it.
Why did she tell you where this stuff came from in the first place? If it's nice stuff maybe she was hinting that she wants you to buy her something.
2007-03-25 23:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by Giselle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does she tell you it's her ex's? There are a few things she can't control. My ex bought me a bball charm like 5 years ago and i still have it. My bfs never ask where I got it from, but I am not throwing it away. It's my favorite and it has nothing to do with him. It's all about the sport. If she has pictures and sentimental stuff then it's a problem, but clothes and shoes...well you can't expect her to throw away stuff like that!
2007-03-25 23:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its a bad thing at all. I have things my ex girlfriend/fiance gave me. Regardless of wether I ever marry any one else or what ever she will always hold a special place in my mind and heart. It dosent mean I still have feelings for her or anything.
2007-03-25 23:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by jcfuqua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually it nthg unless if d exs n ur gf include their feelings togther n d relationship still like couple of love, thn it must avoided. but it all depends on ur gf feeling n her perception on her exs. if she accept her exs s normal friend n there is nthg special feeling inside, it normal s a friend. u also can try introduce ur self to her exs. by that way u will know more the status of being friends. always remember, don't over control ur gf. she might hate u soon. jz b like best friend ever to her..gd luck..
2007-03-25 23:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by polaris . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it's no big deal. Anyway those things are history, as well as her ex. You are the present and maybe her future so why bother to think about the past? Just make her and yourself happy everytime you two are together.
2007-03-25 23:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by dale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on how she feels about these items. I mean if she get emotional about said items when you say something about them, it could very be that she is holding on to that past relationship for some reason. Hopefully, you talk with her and work something out so that she can that you are one for her and that she needs to let go of the past so she can start with a clean slate.
2007-03-25 23:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by rocketpop19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If she is keeping the things, because she likes them and not because of who gave it to her ther is nothing at all wrong with that. She doesn't need to be pointing out everything that they got her though.
2007-03-25 23:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by Socially Awkward Penguin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I am sitting on my boyfriends lap right now. Anyways, I am just typing in front of him telling him to get rid of those 3 pictures of him and his old girlfriend. But he considers them memories, so I have to put up with it. I am laughing right now.... HAHAHAHAHHA spence.
2007-03-25 23:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by Lilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife said it isn't bad, and I trust her instincts she is usually correct in such matters!
2007-03-25 23:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋