Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

Why do all you women force these men into marriage? I hear it all the time, you women tell these fellas no sex unless they agree to marriage.

2007-03-25 16:03:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am concerned about my husband and I's sex life. We have been married for 9 years and all through the years we have had problems with sex. Most of the time I can't feel anything like it is half soft and half hard other times it rocks my world. About 3 months ago for two months we had good sex now nothing. We only had sex for one month and I hurt my husband's feelings by saying it wasn't good. I couldn't feel anything again. About a month later a week ago we tried again and he only lasted for 5 min and that was it. He says he finds me attractive but I have been so upset about it. I throw bad things at him like it isn't good or you aren't good in bed he said this has effected him but he doesn't know how it bothers me and we didn't do it this evening either. He said he didn't have a sex drive. He hasn't been wearing his wedding ring he said he lost it outside. It was way to big for him. I just want things to work out for us. Is it me? Recently he went on blood pressure pills.

2007-03-25 16:03:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

On fri nite my crush and i went out to a bar had a few drinks then we walked on the beach and layed in the sand and held eachother it was great ...His kisses are so sweet it knocks me off my feet and i am neva gonna forget that nite but the next day my crush said he doesnt really reaember all that happend because he was a little drunk and now i feel like crap ...what do i do ?

2007-03-25 16:02:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am I wrong for feeling this way?
My boyfriend smoked pot when I met him. I also smoked awhile ago when I met him(about 3 years ago). I only smoked for about 3 months and then quit completely. It has been 3 years of me and my bf being together and I can't stand him smoking anymore. When I smoked I use to do it for fun. He says he smokes so he is calm and can just chill. He does smoke like 3 times a day. but only alittle at a time just to calm him down. I just feel like he should not have to smoke when I hang out with him. I try to make him feel comfortable and just feel like I don't make him feel good enough and he needs a drug. When I went over his house last night, after a hour of me being there he asked me to drive him to get some weed. I was only staying for 3 hours. We fought about it, He said he just wanted to be relaxed while I was there....wtf, he was not smoking when he was alone.. I came there to make him feel better. we only chill like twice a week.

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9 minutes ago
We ended up breaking up. Am I wrong for flipping out over him smoking? I just can't take the smell..him acting high and stupid...What if we had kids and they saw him smoking.. I don't know..

2007-03-25 16:01:48 · 7 answers · asked by CrazyChic86 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 16:01:47 · 15 answers · asked by dwforce 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 16:01:09 · 5 answers · asked by beast 1 in Friends

I am 11 years old and everyone at my school has a boyfriend and i really want one and i already like one his name is steven he is really cute and i dont know how to get him to notice me or how to inpress him, and i admit i am a bit fat. what do i do? please help me.

2007-03-25 16:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and I tell her about all the cool guys I've been hanging out with (she's in a relationship).....anyway, I told her that I've been going on two dates a week and she tells me "Don't flatter yourself"

Is this rude, or is this something a friend would say? Is she really a friend?

I laughed it off but now I'm thinking WTF

2007-03-25 16:00:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the north, I don't think people have a problem with it (or do they). But in the south, I hear it a lot. Like "it is unnatural or weird". I don't see anything wrong with it, do you?

2007-03-25 16:00:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father thinks that the only jobs I should do around the house is house chores and leave my little brother all the "man" work. I am just as capable as my brother is, but the problem is that he thinks I'm weak and dumb when it comes to appliations just because I'm a girl. What should I do?

2007-03-25 16:00:30 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

Will You Notice Me

Here’s a story a girl
Livin in a lonely world
Hidden notes, a secrete crush
A little boy who talks to much,
Im standin’ in the crowd
When you smile I check you out
But you dont even know my name
To busy playing games
And I I I I I I I want you to know,
If you lose your way
I wont let you go
If I cut my hair, If I change my clothes,
Will you notice me,
If I bite lip, if I say hello
Will you notice me
Whats it gonna take for you to see , to get to notice meeeeeee
Im not like the rest
I don’t care you’re the best
You see it’s all the same to me
Be just what you want to be
Its all the same to me
Oooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Don’t get me wrong, you better make your move,
Before the moments gone
Tell meeeeeeeeeeee
If I cut my hair, if I change my clothes,
Will you notice me
If I bite my lip, if I say hello
will you notice me
I'll Get You To Notice Me

tell the truth do you like it??????

2007-03-25 16:00:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just want to know.

2007-03-25 15:59:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just broke up with me this weekend. We'd only been going out for 2 1/2 months, but I felt very strongly about this relationship. I'm so sad! Give me some suggestions!

2007-03-25 15:59:17 · 4 answers · asked by lolypop120 2 in Singles & Dating

She is 11. Her sister is 14. Her sister hasn’t talked to her for 6 mnths because her parents don’t allow her date, go to the movies or friends house, & are very strict. Her sister told her to tell their parents to give her the freedom & not worry about her because when she was 11, she wasn’t allowed to do many things the 11 yr old can now because the second child always has more freedom than the first. She refuse to tell her parents to give her the freedom. Her elder sister feel it is unfair because she has freedom because of her elder sister & her elder sister can’t get freedom because of her. Her elder sister say she use her for freedom & is selfish & will not talk her until she do what her elder sister says. The parents know her elder sister hasn’t talked to her, but don’t know why. They questioned them but both kids refuse to tell parents the problem. Why are kids this way? Don't they want their parents to help them? If her sister don't tell, why don't she tell?

2007-03-25 15:58:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was doin my thing with this girl with my finger or i should say fist and now i cant find my watch? Whos daring enough to go get it and HOW WOULD YOU DO IT?

2007-03-25 15:58:00 · 4 answers · asked by Andrew B 3 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine invited me to come to his hometown Brazil and stay in his guest room and give me a tour of Rio de Janeiro. I was thinking that I should give him a small thank you gift when he picks me up at the airport. Something simple, not too personal or corny like a card =P Any ideas?

2007-03-25 15:57:02 · 5 answers · asked by latinalovekorea 2 in Singles & Dating

On fri nite my crush and i went out to have a drink at my fave bar and there was this one guy who was hott :) stareing and smiling at me ... I wanted to see what my crush would do if i told him so i did and after i did my crush turned around and looked at him and got up walked over there and said hey what u lookin at ? and the guy said oh man im sorry i didnt mean to bother her and then my crush told him i was his sister ...after i found out he told him i was his sister i asked him what the hell ? he told me the only reason he said that to him cause he wanted that guy to stop stareing? does my crush like me or what?

2007-03-25 15:56:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is 11. Her sister is 14. Her sister hasn’t talked to her for 6 mnths because her parents don’t allow her date, go to the movies or friends house, & are very strict. Her sister told her to tell their parents to give her the freedom & not worry about her because when she was 11, she wasn’t allowed to do many things the 11 yr old can now because the second child always has more freedom than the first. She refuse to tell her parents to give her the freedom. Her elder sister feel it is unfair because she has freedom because of her elder sister & her elder sister can’t get freedom because of her. Her elder sister say she use her for freedom & is selfish & will not talk her until she do what her elder sister says. The parents know her elder sister hasn’t talked to her, but don’t know why. They questioned them but both kids refuse to tell parents the problem. Why are kids this way? Don't they want their parents to help them? If the 14 yr old don't tell, why not the 11 yr old tell?

2007-03-25 15:56:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do i do, We are currently in high school and i have this rep that isnt true and im trying to convince him that his friends will get over it once they get to know me better. as a real person not as the damn rumours that high school carries its like bugs. Anyways do you think it will work?

2007-03-25 15:56:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the meaning when someone says u r 'gay'. Tell me a clear meaning.
Is George Michael a 'gay'?

2007-03-25 15:56:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Having grown up a hard life I have to grow up fast.. Now that things are settle I don't have to worry so much so i have become immature. Well during this immature state I met this wonderful guy who is 28 and very mature and for some reason i seem to be making one mistake after the next and can't go back to my mature stated.. It's like i lost the ability to be mature... I really do like this guy and the only thing that is crippling my relationship with him is my immaturity? So how can i become more mature again? How can i stop being this immature littly winey perosn that i don't like?

2007-03-25 15:56:02 · 4 answers · asked by Redlance 1 in Singles & Dating

We get a long ok but I just feel that by staying together because its comfortable and for the kids that we are both missing out on the opportunity to possibly find someone we really love and that could love us the same way. I am really struggling with this, someone help.

2007-03-25 15:55:48 · 5 answers · asked by scout1567 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My graduating class went on a trip this past week. My best friend started messing around with this guy who's known as a player. He also has a girlfriend. My friend is aware of all of this, and that he messes around with other girls. She's a good kid, but I'm afraid that she'll get the rep. of being a whore. Although some are already saying that. She is truly obsessed with this guy, and he leads her on until he gets what he wants. Then he'll drop the poor girl like a hot potato. I've already tried telling her, and even showing her whats going to happen. She just won't listen. What on earth am I supposed to do now?

2007-03-25 15:55:44 · 3 answers · asked by rekcinnibs 2 in Friends

Ok so i just found out that 2 of my REALLY good friends r moving away (twin sisters) one of them im like BEST friends with..and the other im rly close to also kinda. btw..we all r 14. I just found out like an hour ago..that they are moving this summer..to a different state..iv been non stop crying since they told me over the phone... how long will i b this sad for? how can i overcome this?

2007-03-25 15:55:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and I had the perfect mother-in-law...I'd never met her. I know he was married before and he had two children w/her. There again, I never met them either. And before anyone says anything wrong, he never hid from them, he just couldn't find them. I don't know the lady's last name, but could someone help me find a way to locate his children to let them know that he passed away 3 years ago yesterday ??? Can someone help me with this?

2007-03-25 15:54:59 · 6 answers · asked by Bobbi 5 in Family

all of her friends are crack heads and drug dealers, but she dosen't look like shes high when she comes home. Only thing is she gets very upset when I question her or try to control her outtings. she calls after being out for two days saying "I am so bad" then when she wakes up she calls me names and tell me shes hates me. Sunday thru Wednesday she is normal. My god whats going on here?

2007-03-25 15:54:45 · 18 answers · asked by realgood150 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing a gril for about six months and am absolutey in love with her, and from what I can tell she is with me too. The problem is right now we live 300 miles apart. We completely trust one another and are happy when we talk and see each other. But recently she told me that we should cool down for a while because she has a lot going on in her life right now and doesn't really have time for someone. I asked her why we can't just stay together and let me help her and be supportive of her through this hard time, and she just said she wants to deal with it on her own. Now she still wants to be friends and still tells me she loves me when we talk and that when this gets better we can try again. But neither of us know how long this "cool down" period is going to last. Should I wait for her? We are very happy together and I see a bright future for us after this. Or am I just setting myself up to get hurt again?

2007-03-25 15:54:42 · 10 answers · asked by Richard 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 15:54:32 · 37 answers · asked by paraprincess73 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 15:54:31 · 4 answers · asked by sharonda t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-25 15:54:22 · 7 answers · asked by Philip P 3 in Singles & Dating