I am 11 years old and everyone at my school has a boyfriend and i really want one and i already like one his name is steven he is really cute and i dont know how to get him to notice me or how to inpress him, and i admit i am a bit fat. what do i do? please help me.
2007-03-25 16:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You and your friends are too young to be dating but even if they are dating it does not mean that you have to date, also. LEt your friends do what ever they want to and you do what you want to but not because it is what everyone else is doing. Don't think of it as dating. If you like this guy then just talk to him and spend time with him. Needing someone to call you girlfriend and letting you call them boyfriend is just a game. In the real world relationships are not about dating and all about being friends who really trust and enjoy each other. Let your friends play there game of calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend but if you want something real then be friends with this guy.
As for the weight problem, you are still very young to worry about weight but young enough that if you start now you can keep from being overwieght the rest of your life. Get into sports, karate, ballet, go walking every evening somewhere well lit and with your parents, stop drinking soda and watch what you eat. Start now so that by the time you are in middle school you will already be used to eating right and exercising right but whatever you do do not worry about being too heavy and dating. WOrry about being healthy while having fun and being friends with the boys you are attracted to. You don't need labels but latter on you can use them once you are comfortable with each other but get used to being friends first and then worry about name calling.
2007-03-25 16:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by Don Quesadia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOOOO, I want a BF, oh joy.... I got a question, why I have I been screwed in life for so loooooong!!! And especially Love? I know it seems pathetic, that I'm picking on an eleven yr old, but I've had enough with this stupid society... It needs some "CHANGES".....
2007-03-25 23:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my.. 11 yrs old and desperate for a boyfriend?
Be friends with the boys first. Just be yourself. Don't rush into relationships. It's not healthy for young people like u.
2007-03-25 23:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by AL75 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah you don't want one.
Boys smell.
Lol. No really though hun if you like him then maybe try to crack a few jokes. Boys like girls that are funny and that they feel like they can talk to. Just play it cool and go with the flow. Don't be too pushy it will scare him away. Good luck!
2007-03-25 23:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Socially Awkward Penguin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pathetic. You are 11 and don't even have a boyfriend!!! I am upset that you have to suffer like you do now.
Try short skirts and tank tops. And hooker boots.
2007-03-25 23:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by Femme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at him and make conversation. Compliment things you like about him. Make him feel he has your full attention.
Don't try to hard or be pushy. If it ment to be it will happen. You are young and plenty of time to worry about boys.
I guarantee they'll show up when the time comes.
2007-03-25 23:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by James M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get to know him find out if he likes you and then ask him out
2007-03-25 23:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by TG 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
quit trying... you are too young
2007-03-25 23:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
give it time sweetheart!
2007-03-25 23:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋