I think my wife is on crack but I simply can't tell?

Question

all of her friends are crack heads and drug dealers, but she dosen't look like shes high when she comes home. Only thing is she gets very upset when I question her or try to control her outtings. she calls after being out for two days saying "I am so bad" then when she wakes up she calls me names and tell me shes hates me. Sunday thru Wednesday she is normal. My god whats going on here?

Answer 1

I went back and read some of your questions, I am sorry you are having so many problems, and sorry about the question you had to delete...
here is what I found for you... good luck

An early sign of difficulty can be an abrupt breakdown in family communications or change in a person's behavior. Although many symptoms are the same as emotional disturbances or a troubled adolescence, drug abuse should be suspected if these danger signals are severe:

Definite changes in personality or behavior.

Loss of concentration.

Weight loss

Loss of household valuables or unexplained vanishing cash.

Association with people known to use drugs

Marked agitation

Animosity toward family members and friends.

Altered sleep patterns.

Loss of interest in appearance.

Extreme paranoia (suspicious of everyone).

Restlessness

Anxiety


5 Warning Signs

Crack users describe the various stages when they come down off the drug as:
1. Worrying about where they can get more.
2. Deep depression.
3. Loss of energy and appetite.
4. Difficulty sleeping.
5. Changing love/hate feelings about themselves.

Answer 2

Without being in your shoes I would say she is doing something. Staying gone for two days isn't normal behavior. Crack is a very quick high, and if she has gone hours without doing it then you may not be able to tell. If she is hanging around that type of crowd then the chances are high that she is. People can have fairly normal lives and still be addicted to drugs and alcohol. The pattern of her behavior seems to be just during the weekends, however it will get worse. Crack is very addictive and cheap, but you can loose everything searching for that high. I see alot for people that are on crack, and until they get real bad you may not know. They can only hide it for so long. Her change in personality and habit is a good start. Is money missing? Is she clean when she come home after two days? Has she lost any weight? These are small signs. I hope this helps. Good luck

Answer 3

birds of a feather flock together first of all why are all her friends crack heads and drug dealers? you need to leave if she isn't on drugs now she will be because drug dealers don't have friends they just "hang out " with people they want to sell to. shes on the devils territory as long as she hangs out with this characters she is outnumbered and as a human she won't bring them up they will bring her down. Tell her you love her to change her friends or your gone after all as her husband she should put you above any other friendship or person. if she can't do that it doesn't matter if she actually using or not shes picking drug addict friend over you and you need someone that will value and treat you better and herself better! Godbless you!

Answer 4

Sounds like you may have a problem on your hands. If she is staying out for two days at a time and getting defensive, something is up. I hope and pray she isn't. Keep your eyes open. Do a search on signs of crack use, I did the same thing on meth because of a family member....Try it, it couldn't hurt and would answer your questions more clearly. Bless your heart if she is.

Answer 5

wow! So sorry, that must be hard to deal with. Unfortunately it sounds as if she might be. Especially if she hangs out with those type of people. My suggestion would be to go to a drugstore and by an over-the-counter drug test. If she refuses to take it then she more than likely is doing drugs. However, if she wants to prove that she isn't then she will simply take the test.Good luck.

Answer 6

I would say she is - you need to research the signs of people who are on it
look it up on the internet - for the signs and watch her when she comes home
if she cant be honest with you - why do you accept it
she is using you she comes home for a rest from it - then goes back for another crack at it
dont tolerate that cr@p man

Answer 7

It sounds like it to me. Check her fingers crack pipes burn your fingers the skin on the fingers she holds the pipe with will be raw and the skin will get dirty. Crack is a binge type of drug once you start you keep going trying to catch that ghost of a high.

Answer 8

she M a Y be a weekend warrior?
You May be very controling?
Birds of a feather do Flock together!! ??
You can buy drug testing kits at the pharmacy for$15.00us,
Now how you will ask-convince Her to Pee in a cup will be another question..
Best of Luck /Peace of mind to you
Many Have worked Thru drug problems/addictions and doing better~But that would take commitment x2

Answer 9

Duh. What do you need a brick to fall on your head??

Tell her you're fed up with this behavior and do it with a straight face. Don't get angry, don't laugh, just do it. Tell her you want to go with her for a drug test and if it's positive, tell her she has 30 days to get off it or you're gone. If it's negative, tell her she needs to shape up or you're gone. In any event, you win.

Sometimes, women need a man who'll give them the kick in the pants they need (and sometimes want). Without it we can go too far - just like men can. Man up or be prepared to be walked on.

Answer 10

crack or crank. im 45, i used to do everything, though i never banged any drugs. if she is gone for two days she prolly doing crank, is she flighty? cant focus on aything? teeth getting snagly, not hungry?