Ok so i just found out that 2 of my REALLY good friends r moving away (twin sisters) one of them im like BEST friends with..and the other im rly close to also kinda. btw..we all r 14. I just found out like an hour ago..that they are moving this summer..to a different state..iv been non stop crying since they told me over the phone... how long will i b this sad for? how can i overcome this?
2007-03-25 15:55:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why don't the 3 of you sit down with some old photos and make 3 memory albums - 1 for each of you so that you can look at it when you are feeling sad. The internet and webcams will definitely make it easier.
2007-03-25 16:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i moved away from my best friend in the world. Her name was Julia and we've been friends since we were 5. I was the reason she moved to the place i was living in. Then, when my dad was running out of money and wanted to save some money, we moved to the Philippines. This is even more heartbreaking then another state! you see, it's easier to call them, when your in one state and theyre in the other.
You will be sad for a long time, maybe even 2 or 4 months, thats the way it is for me, but dont worry. Just like everyone says, you will get over it. I am telling you its not easy. NOT EASY. you'll cry yourself to sleep sometimes, and make a tantrum for no reason. You'll do everything in your power to have them back without showing it, and your parent will think, what's going on?
I suggest you get yourself busy. You still go to school, and go to the same school, and i advise you to make new friends. But of course, that's not easy either. get busy! do a lot of work, call them everyday (if you can) and ya. good luck, God bless, and tell them hey for me! : )
2007-03-25 16:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by chaching 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dear, sorry that you friends are moving out but that's how the world goes, you can't be always where you are and don't expect it from people either....
you can still be their best friend via e-mails and phones .. i know that's it won't be the same as they are here
by time you will get used to it and won't be that sad also you will make new friends and the twines will always be your friends.......besides you may see them later in holidays, occasions or even is the summer vacation..it's possible right?
so don't be sad, every thing is just too hard at the beginning but it gets less by time
have a good day
2007-03-25 16:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should still be able to call or e-mail them. Maybe you could visit them from time to time, or they could plan to visit you. Friendships don't have to end because of distance. It just takes a bit more work. Try to make new friends and remember that this is all a part of life. Sometimes people have to say goodbye but it doesn't mean that the love, respect and closeness have to end. Try to stay busy. In a lttle while, you will begin to feel much better.
2007-03-25 16:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be sad, all you need to do is keep contact with them and make arrangements for visitation later on. Get their phone numbers and some pictures to remind you of them. How do they feel are they crying too? You will find other friends for comfort but right away the relationship will not be the same but will grow.
2007-03-25 16:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to feel sad when friendships change. You will probably still stay in touch, but you won't be able to hang out as much. Remember, they will probably miss you too! Once you get over the shock of it, you will adjust and start hanging out more with other people, knowing you've got great friends to visit in another state next holidays.
2007-03-25 16:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Sir V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a promise to each other that no matter what you will stay in contact and just think when you turn 18 you can go see them and if they have family then you will still get to see them
2007-03-25 16:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, find a way to feel like you are with them, like maybe chatting with a webcam. You have to accept the fact that they are moving and you should make the best of that by thinking of posative things. Maybe make some new friends to (forgive me) replace your old ones.
2007-03-25 16:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough break, kid.
Oh, they will always be in your memories. My best friend, who is a guy moved to Cali a couple of years ago. Known him so long, I used to take baths with him when I was little. We still write and call. I love him to death and will always be friends with him. Still miss him, and you will miss your friends, but give it time! And Smile!
2007-03-25 16:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by kazpursmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Church is a good replace for lost love. although, melancholy facilitates you to take excitement in what you do not have. even nevertheless you rather ought to end viewing your undertaking as depressing and start up seeing the useful issues around you. beautify your room with happy paintings. Or take excitement on your mom's indoors adorning and cooking. tell your mom "thank you" and "i such as you". you will experience a lot greater effectual afterwards.
2016-10-19 22:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋