Having grown up a hard life I have to grow up fast.. Now that things are settle I don't have to worry so much so i have become immature. Well during this immature state I met this wonderful guy who is 28 and very mature and for some reason i seem to be making one mistake after the next and can't go back to my mature stated.. It's like i lost the ability to be mature... I really do like this guy and the only thing that is crippling my relationship with him is my immaturity? So how can i become more mature again? How can i stop being this immature littly winey perosn that i don't like?
2007-03-25 15:56:02 · 4 answers · asked by Redlance 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? 14? Seriously you might want to think about the little teenage boys chasing after you.
2007-03-25 15:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to know that we react to other people according to our basic personalities, our starting point, you might call it. Some people pull better things out of us than others. It takes a tremendous amount of analysis to figure out this dynamic. Sometimes parts of our personalities just have to come out.
The fact that you were finally settled suggests you are relaxed. The tough times earlier caused you to put up a wall against pain. The wall (you), knows that times are better, so it says, "Hey! I'm not needed here. See ya' ." So this steel structure that has always been there to make you stand up and act right is not there any more. And situations where your maturity was needed, suddenly turn you into jello.
Well, counseling will help you re-gain a healthy maturity. Talk to your boyfriend, appologize for your behavior, and tell him what's going on. Be sure he knows you are going to counseling, and are working toward healing yourself and your relationship. Honesty is the most convincing thing to say to someone. Others around us are usually very supportive, if not, let them know what you need, and that if they ever need help, you will be there for them, too. And people are always going to need support.
2007-03-25 16:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maturity (psychological), a term used in psychology to indicate that a person responds to the circumstances or environment in an appropriate manner; often this implies a response that is reasoned or learned rather than impulsive.
2007-03-25 16:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by sugarspice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite obviously you were never really all that mature otherwise you would not have become this little WHINY (note the spelling) that you are. IF you had been mature you would never have allowed yourself to become what you are.
2007-03-25 16:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋