My graduating class went on a trip this past week. My best friend started messing around with this guy who's known as a player. He also has a girlfriend. My friend is aware of all of this, and that he messes around with other girls. She's a good kid, but I'm afraid that she'll get the rep. of being a whore. Although some are already saying that. She is truly obsessed with this guy, and he leads her on until he gets what he wants. Then he'll drop the poor girl like a hot potato. I've already tried telling her, and even showing her whats going to happen. She just won't listen. What on earth am I supposed to do now?
2007-03-25 15:55:44 · 3 answers · asked by rekcinnibs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her what you think of the situation and explain that the reason you care is not to be judgmental, but only because you know how hard she has worked to be a good person, a good friend and have a really good reputation. Tell her you care about her which is why it hurts to stand by and watch her ruin it on some guy who throws females away like last week's garbage. Tell her that it disappoints you to think that she might not have a better opinion of herself than that. If she doesn't budge, let her know that you cannot risk gaining the reputation of being a whore from hanging out with her if she chooses to go down this road. Let her know that if she chooses not to do it or realizes she has made a mistake, you will always be there for her.
2007-03-25 16:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done your best to talk sense to her. As much as you love her, understand that you cannot save her from a player she wants to be with. If you are graduating from high school or college, you are legal adults, or close, and she will have to take responsibility for her own reputation. You cannot, and should not.
2007-03-25 16:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by callmeplayfair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have talked with her already and she won't listen, I think you should just constantly around her to remind her things even if she thinks you are a ******. And if you know her parents, you should let her parents know but you might risk yourself of losing a friend. But nevertheless, you should ready to help her for whatever which is going to happen to her.
2007-03-25 16:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋