Dear participants,
I am in a very difivult situation. I started to date this girl around 5 months ago. I wanted to break up with her after the second month. She did not recieve aproval from my family, neither my closest friends. i am only 20 and i feel that she thinks about marriage although she does not admits so. She allways talk to me about the future and we fight practically about everything every day. She even gets angry when i meet with my oldest friends. Furthermore, she starts crazy arguements because i can meet her only three or two days a week. The first time i broke up, she came and talked to my parents! the second time, she came to my office without telling me. each time i want to break up she cryes histerycaly and i accept to restart the relationship. I love her as well, however things are not working out, and it is the best for both of us to split. we fight every day, she cries every day... How can i do this in the way i would not hurt her? forgive my spelling...
2007-03-25 16:19:11 · 8 answers · asked by vincenzog01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pray to the Lord and ask Him to change her heart...
2007-03-25 16:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by PaZ KarL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a possessive ex as quickly as who threatened to break/decrease/kill himself if i did no longer get decrease back with him. human beings flow via some severe thoughts throughout a ruin-up, fairly the clingy-varieties. i might purely take a seat her down and interior the main comfortable way tell her that in spite of the indisputable fact which you guard her, that's purely no longer understanding. and then upload which you think of it may well be extra ideal to decrease communication (a minimum of for a good whilst). Then be waiting to truly block numbers/digital mail addresses, in spite of and stick including your life. of direction, she will attempt to malicious application her some time past it, yet once you're enterprise with regard to the ruin-up...at last it is going to sign up. additionally, beware the subsequent time around. you may many times spot the 'loopy' ones early on. good success, cowboy.
2016-10-20 11:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by mathison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I feel for you this is scary. She is mental. Why anyone would want to stay around where they are not wanted I dont know. Maybe tell her to stay away or you will get a restraining order against her. Maybe this will open her eyes. Sorry but she sounds psycho.
2007-03-25 16:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to break up with her without hurting her so forget it.
What you need to decide is:
Do you really want to break up or do you like to play games because it is entertaining to be the centre of her prima donna antics.
Or you do love her and will be prepared to wait until she either matures or comes to her senses.
If you decide to break up with her then you will need to be straight and say: I am breaking up with you .. and not
some platitudes like it's not you it's me.
If and when you made your decision then you stick to it and act like a man and not like a spoiled little boy.
2007-03-25 16:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Imogen Sue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do not think there is a good way. You can try telling her you need some time to yourself to reflect on Life and want her to do the same. But you also want to remain Friends with her.
2007-03-25 16:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her.. the longer you stay with her the more it will hurt her in the end. she will just have to get over you and it will take time, but there is no point in leading her on. next time you break up with her make sure you don't take her back and that she knows you are being serious.
2007-03-25 16:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her and then run! U may be killed ♥
2007-03-25 16:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥•♥Melody♥•♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are sure your not married.....sounds like it.
2007-03-25 16:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by James k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋