Everytime I get into a relationship it goes bad sometimes really fast. I dunno if its me or what? I am truly faithful to the girl I am dating. I open doors for her . I always try to make her feel comfortable and wanted and if it is serious loved. I always so treat her with respect. I listen when they talk, Because I want to be there for her. I show manners to her parents when I meet them. I always treat a girl really well. But one girl told me when she broke up with me that I was to nice. I don't get it or maybe I am just dumb. I am trying to get back into the dating game. Nothing serious just wanna get back into the Dating Game. Please help. I need some advice.
2007-03-25 16:17:10 · 20 answers · asked by paco_46 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should just be yourself. If they don't appreciate it then you don't need them in your life.
2007-03-25 16:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls you are dating must not be too smart. No offense. I think you sound really nice and its a really sexy quality to me. Maybe you just haven't found that smart girl yet. Like I said before just have fun. Maybe you come on too strong I don't know but just if you think you do just slow down a little and have fun. If the girl is right for you then it will hit you before you even know it. Don't be a player but just "date" around. (Not sleep around) Make a goal to have at least two different dates a week. Even if you don't think you wont have anything in common with someone just go to have someone to hang out with. You never know what will happen which is why you have so much fun just having fun.!
2007-03-25 19:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by QTforlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl loves a gentle men! Belive me, they are really hard to find, BUT they also don't want a guy who's just gonna sit back and not take charge. We don't wanna feel like the man in the relationship and sometimes when guys are so nice and do everything you want it comes off kinda needy. So maybe if you just don't always worry about coming off as such a gentle men and maybe take charge in the relationship it might show the girl you're more intrested. I know it sounds wierd but if we can't figure out you guys we gotta make it complicated for you to figure out us! LoL,J.k! But I really think you sound like a good guy and there is definatly a girl out there for you just be patient. I hope I helped and good luck in the dating world!
2007-03-25 16:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Questionmark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do a little investigating on an interested girl what shes like inside and out,many like the bad boy side.but their are those who really do wish only for these types of attributes.meet somone a few times in a none territtoral area not on a date it should give you a generaql idea of their views and so on and then you can decied if you really what to take the time to get know that other person anymore than that,not all people are real but live a very false life.you have to shift through them.i know these are things id look for.it sounds llike your a good catch you just have to find the right gal who will appreciate you for all of you
2007-03-25 16:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That girl who is now your ex will be kicking herself in the butt. Guys like you are very hard to find. There are few to none of you around anymore. Girls tend to date the bad *** type guys at first leaving guys like you on the side lines. Within time girls will flock towards you for the fact of the features you have. Don't change who you are or what you do for anyone. Spice stuff up when your with a girl. Make sure your having fun while being caring. Give it some time... hope all works out for you.
2007-03-25 16:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by Aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the women you are dating are a little young. A mature woman would never say that a man is "too nice". When a woman says a man is too nice she usually has low self esteem and what she really means is "I don't deserve to be treated well" Keep looking and stay positive but most important continue to be you.
2007-03-25 16:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by Starrlyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just have not found the right person, or type of person. Try meeting women somewhere different and just be the honest, caring person like you said you are. Sometimes looking too hard will cause you to miss what's really out there.
2007-03-25 16:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sheris_Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women like a guys who are not so nice. Don't buy stuff for them makes her think you are a teachers pet. Women are use to guys buying them stuff all the time so don't do it. Pretend you don't care about her. Makes them want to work harder for your attention. When your girlfriend told you that your too nice you should have said that's okay I can have any girl I want don't think your the only fine girl here, after you tell her that she will be the one chasing you instead and calling you like crazy. Just be playful flirt and lean back instead of leaning in act like you don't care and you'll get alot of women.
2007-03-25 17:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a checklist together...what you really want in a woman and stick to it...i think you just need to hold out and wait for the right one to come along...i believe opposites attract and DIVORCE...so look for more similarities...the more choosy you become the more you realize what qualities you want in a person..be true to yourself...only you will know when that special person comes into your life. You cant be apart because it hurts so bad and the future is clear ...you will know and it will be the best feeling EVER!!!
2007-03-25 16:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by hkitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, from what you say and from what the girl that broke up with you said, you just keep on picking the crappiest girls out there. you seem to be genuinely a good person, then wait for a girl who likes that and that you like as well to gte in a relationship with. it seems that the ones with the problem is the type of girl you get with. unless you are leaving out things you do, it seems to be the girls you get with.
2007-03-25 16:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be like you. take control. 4 time out of 5, you decide where to bring her to dinner, you choose the movie. you tell her the time you can meet or not. do not be afraid. treat her nicely, respectfully but not by loosing control. believe me it will work better. however be allways a gentleman and polite. DO NOT GO TO EXTREMES, just some of the time, push her to do what you want to do. take care.
2007-03-25 16:22:55 · answer #11 · answered by vincenzog01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋