I've been dating this guy for more than 5 months now. We never spoke about the future yet. I'm quite anxious to know though. Is it too early or is it okay for me to ask? How? HELP ME PLEASE........
2007-03-25 16:40:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not too early.. just ask him. the best thing to do is be straight forward about it
2007-03-25 16:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think five months is a bit to soon for you to be asking where the relationship is going. I understand that you are anxious about the relationship, but what is best for you to do is to take it one day at a time.
Get to know him well, not just what he likes or don't like, get to know how he thinks, what his personality is and how he likes to be treated. Once you know him enough, show him that you are interested to take the relationship to another level. Show him that you are the one, not just some other person that wants him to be around. Being in a relationship takes more than sex, you both have to care and understand how each other thinks, feels and work. Give him some space for himself, since most guys thinks about a relationship on their own time and their own way.
You can ask him the question, but I think that it is a bit to soon.
2007-03-25 16:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 16:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think its been long enough. I was living with my spouse when he came into some money, so I sat him down and said that he may want to use it to buy a ring for me, i also told him that he didnt have to propse anytime soon but if he never had plans on it to let me know now so I could get the heck out.
2007-03-25 16:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you have sex with a man or enter into a committed relationship with a man you need to ask him "What are your intentions towards me?"
I asked my boyfriend this question about three months of dating (before we had sex) and he said that he wanted to marry me...I did not expect that response but it was very clear how he felt about me after that comment. And, I think I will have a proposal and a ring sometime this year.
You have to communicate and don't be afraid to ask the question. I mean you are not asking him to tell you if he wants to marry you or anything, but you need to know where his heart is...you have a right to know where his heart is if he continues to be in a relationship with you.
2007-03-25 17:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Challenge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not too soon. You deserve to know. You have invested 5 months of your life and why waste anymore time if he is not wanting to take it to the next level?
2007-03-25 16:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by Starrlyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the time is right, you should go ahead and ask. Whats the worst that can happen? Life is about taking chances, so think about what you really want.
2007-03-25 16:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by jumba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time. If he's paying attention to you and responsive and shows he cares about you, then it's heading somewhere. If he acts only somewhat interested or you don't feel good when you're with him/about the relationship then it's not.
2007-03-25 16:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by AnonymousGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage!!!!???? Way to soon! Allow a couple yrs or he will think your too eager and needy. You really should know a person inside and out before you marry. L
2007-03-25 16:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by LUCY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a bit over due....
feel free to ask.
but if he hasn;t mentioned it yet, don't have your heart sent on an answer. it might not be the one you hoped for.
2007-03-25 16:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by freshbliss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋