whose a virgin or not ?

Question

to those that lost their virginity did yu regret it? did yu like it? cuz ii mean..it hurts..did yu like it even thought der was pain??? would yu like 2 b a virgin again?

i would like 2 noe [cuz im a virgin] b/c just thinking bout da pain aint a reely nice 1st time..you understand? =D.but wen the boys stick it in and yu feel pain..do yu feel pain da whole entire time yu have test on dat day yu lost it?

Answer 1

I must respond to this comment: "Which guy seriously wants a girl whose been used?"

Anybody who sees sex as "being used" has a pretty twisted view of it, and obviously isn't very good at picking good partners and forming healthy relationships.

I shed my virginity with another virgin, which was kind of cute and also kind of dorky because niether of us knew what we were doing, tho it came out OK because we were pretty patient, worked up to it over time. No regrets.

Since then I've had no special interest or respect for them. Once when a college girlfriend told me she would not be having sex with me if she had not previously 'lost her virginity by mistake' I was so profoundly insulted that we ended up breaking it off. The idea that the shape of our relationship hinged on some 'mistake' she'd made with someone else made my skin crawl.

Some people massively overstress and overvalue virgnity as a holdover from a time when it was considered to have monetary value, and that can really twist peoples priorities. When I hear about people into their 20s or older still virgin I tend to think they're a little wierd (likely religious fanatics I wouldn't respect or get along with).

Answer 2

Nope never regret anything in my life, just mistake that i took and learn. Yes i like it and yes it hurt at first then i got use to it and no i don't want to be a virgin cuz it wouldn't last since the feeling is great.

Answer 3

I lost my virgintiy at age 19 with my boyfriend of two years who is now my husband. I never regretted it because theres no shame in waiting for the right person. Yes, there was pain but when you're ready, you're ready.

Answer 4

I am still a virgin!!! And I am not afriad to admit it. I am totally fine with it and even if some random person walked up to me on the street and asked me that I would tell them. Why do you care about others virginities anyway??

Answer 5

No regrets. I'm glad I held out for my first love in college (my high school boys were skeevy), who was patient and kind with me ( I was 18). Losing my virginity wasn't painful because we went slow. It was a nice time.

Answer 6

I'm 47 now, lost it @ 19,with birthcontrol. I liked it when I first had it but never learned 2 climax till years later

Answer 7

Wow..... Well considering I lost my virginity at a really young age.... 13 to be exact, yes i do regret it, and no I would not want to be a virgin again....Why do you ask anyways?

Answer 8

I'm a virgin, waiting for marriage :-) :-) :-) If someone wants me, all of me, then they can have all of me, but they can't just have the body...my view on it...good luck!

Answer 9

Those are all very personal questions and totally inappropriate for this site. If you're looking for sex education you should talk to your parents or a school adviser. This is not the proper forum.

Answer 10

I think guys have much more respect for girls who are virgins. Which guy seriously wants a girl whose been used? I think most girls lose their virginity at a young age out of curiosity, which is pretty stupid..