So my best friend and I really care for each other and the feelings are mutual but we decided to just let it happen naturally when it happens - no rushing...so we've decided to stay friends. We're soo close - we talk about EVERYTHING.
Now that we're trying to be "normal" again - i've noticed it's harder for him to talk than me - When i try to be "normal" and talk to him he just sounds sad. I'll mention random guys i used to infatuated with and he'll ask, "why did you like him? do you still like him?"
Why does he do this? He knows i don't have feelings for them so why does it matter? He'll always fish for answers like that...
2007-03-25 17:36:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants to be more than just friends. He doesn't want to wait and see what happens. He wants to make it happen. If the two of you feel the same way for each other, then why wait and see what happens? He sees these other guys that you were infatuated with as a threat to what he wants to have with you. You need to either date this guy or set it in stone that you aren't going to. Right now he's just clinging to the hope that something will happen in the future. So, What's it gonna be?
2007-03-25 17:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Dragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last thing a guy wants to hear about from a girl is other guys. Guys don't want to hear about other guys at all. Guys don't care about guys.
And it's worse with a girl you like. You get to see her pick loser after loser and say how great they are...and the guy just does not get it.
2007-03-25 17:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋