My partner and me have had problems for a while, we have argued for a solid 2 mths, i've tried to go to marriage counselling, but he agrees then wont go just before bec things aren't at a 'level' where he accepts to go, even when I beg him, when i say i cant go on like this. after him being really cruel when i came back, telling me i was dead to him, telling me to open my own bank account & telling me i ended it with an ultimatum. I went to mums house. I have been there a week & yesterday got an sms telling me he is separating our finances, that he hates me, that I ended etc etc. the problem is that I just want to go to counselling, but he will only if its by his terms. I love him & dont want to loose this, and I beleive he does too, he's said its not what he wants. What do I do people? Im so miserable that he cant see we need help, that we cant do it by ourselves. Is he playing here to see if I come back. It sucks to have to hold out, knowing its the only way but wanting us 2 b
2007-03-25
18:46:14
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