Then he gives you bs reasons such as: I do not think you are the right one for me, and I am not the right one for you, I think I will have to break up with you, and I will really miss you, and I already am." After a year that he's been saying he LOVES me so much that he's never been happier when he met me, that he doesn't even think if he'll be without me or be with someone else because he really cares for me. He also wants to be friends..but when he say in my face that "I really am ready to move on ASAP and that is what I want to do" when he just said he really cares for me. What does it mean? And he had an extra reason too, that he gets attracted to some girls most of the time from the time we started going out so that's why he said he should break up with me because he doesn't want to hurt me, when he just did by breaking up with me.
2007-03-25 19:00:10 · 12 answers · asked by khi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha wow. so same thing has happened to me. and luckily i found out why he did this to me cuz he wanted me back...eventually. so he might really care about u, or he might just wanna move on. but either way, he is making up crap excuses bc he doesnt wanna hurt ur feelings by saying that he doesnt like u anymore. and i know it really doesnt make any sense how u can suddenly stop liking anyone, but if u've ever had to break up with someone, u'd understand. u try to find any other reason besides, "i dont like u anymore" because no one likes to hurt someone like that. so whether or not u've broken up with someone, try to look at it from his perspective. he's said all this stuff to u that he may or may not have meant, but point is, something changed, and he has to tell u cuz he doesnt wanna lead u on and hurt u even more. so he wants to end it now. guys just try to butter things up bc they dont wanna hurt u, but what they dont realize is that it hurts no matter how they do it, so its best to just have the truth. unfortunately many guys dont know that. so he's trying to be nice about it, i bet. unless he's just a jerk and wants to move on really badly. so just accept it, and try ur hardest to move on without him, even tho its MUCH easier said than done
2007-03-25 19:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might of found someone else. He is not into you anymore. Got bored and left. Guys have a hard time committing. He probably cares about you but does not love you enough to stay with you and make it work. His loss. Move on and keep your head up.
2007-03-25 19:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by PDoG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as possible guys doesnt want to be blame when breaking up with someone. They will give you all this crap to make it easy for you. Honesty for them is the last option in breaking up withsome because they dont want to hurt you even more.
2007-03-25 19:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by icene_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's sick of you, and he doesn't want to deal with these rants your are posting on yahoo. I don't mean to upset you, by saying it like that, but that's why. He obviously doesn't want to hurt you, and doesn't want to hear you give excuses like "I can change" or blah blah blah, he's not into you anymore, and he doesn't want you to cause a scene. Move on
2007-03-25 19:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
can be the prettiest girl on earth and he might still be hard headed and leave u
prob for another girl
he's confused
probably young
maybe a bit depressed
2007-03-25 19:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just plain ol' fell out of love with you. It happens, it sucks, but it's better off that he broke up with you, instead of stringing you along.
2007-03-25 19:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi149 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably met someone else and rather than cheat on you he decided to break it off. if that's the case i personally would rather be dumped than cheated on.
2007-03-25 19:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by latreceh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on. do not (even though it is hard) talk to him. he broke up with you. that's the ****** way of sayin "i want to F other gits.
2007-03-25 19:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by frecklegirl145 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy ,, He has found someone else!
2007-03-25 19:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to see other people.
2007-03-25 19:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋