Please, I want some advice on how to act but if you're just gonna come here to tell me to move on, don't even bother :)
2007-03-25 18:57:53 · 8 answers · asked by kate 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it really would be helpful, if you would give a little more information, but in general i think: be mysterious, do not show him that you are miserable without him(they like strong women), give him challenge(i do not mean, tell him i have another men, or try to make him jealous, that is stupid and will make things even worse, kids stuff) mostly i mean do not be available everytime he want you to do something or...., do not call him everyday or text, let him know that you want him back but do not be show him how desperate you are for that. I general you always have to be a mystery to a men and be different every day, to keep him interested. They get bored with ordinary stuff. The more you show you want him, t less he wants you. Proven. I really do not know what else to suggest you because i do not know the situation you are in, or how long you been 2gether. All those things matter. So if you want post some additional comments and it would be easier to give you an advise.
2007-03-25 19:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, most women are flattered by a man's interest if it is shown in an appropriate manner (and if both people are single). But women can easily be scared off if it is too much; most of us have had a stalker or some overly aggressive attention at some point and that makes us wary if too much interest is shown too soon. We can actually be in physical danger if some overly aggressive guy gets the wrong idea, and then get blamed for "leading him on" if we had shown any interest to begin with. So we have to be careful. So here's my advice. Express your interest in a subtle manner such as prolonged eye contact, smiling, etc, and if that gets a positive response you can slowly move up from there, with more overt flirtation, etc. If at any point it does not get a response, back off. This way you're not setting up yourself up for rejection, either. It's much easier to back down when your flirting doesn't get a response than go full out declaring your feelings for her and get shot down. So just take it slow and see if she's interested and reciprocates at each level before you step it up. Best wishes.
2016-03-29 06:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kate, it's a tough one. First, have you talked with him? Tell him how you feel and ask how he feels. If he expresses disinterest, then you have some challenges. Consider competing with him at whatever he is good at doing. Consider challenging him in his own field. Does he like sports...become a sportswoman. Does he like music, become knowledgeable about music. Whatever his likes, learn the subject better than he knows it. Then display your excellence in these fields. And, ask him for advice on how to improve yourself in those fields. Get his assistance on your program for perfection...so he knows what you are doing and where you are. If this doesn't work, then consider moving on.
2007-03-25 19:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something kinky. Seriously, this will work. Of course, if you can't think of anything kinky, post another question, I'm sure there's someone on here who could help you out haha
good luck
2007-03-25 19:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-19 08:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, find out what the guy likes and try to emulate that.
2007-03-25 19:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by Marcus Ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to step up your sex life...
2007-03-25 19:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and show him you are sincere.
2007-03-25 19:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋