Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

2007-03-25 19:20:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's a really good man and takes care of me. He is a little emotionally unstable, but who isn't? We love each other very much.

Don't get me wrong, he's not a drunkard. A few times a month or less. When he drinks a lot, he gets annoying. Sometimes it's small, asking me the same question 10 times. Sometimes it's big: arguing w/ me over nothing and then making me feel bad. He always apologizes the next day.

Here is where the problem is: I have a really hard time with drunk people cuz my father was an alcoholic. It brings up bad memories. Its worse if my fiance makes me feel bad when he's drunk. Every time I explain this to him, he understands but then gets callous about it when he starts to drink. When I tell him that I would prefer that I go do something else like watch a movie so that he can drink, he gets angry & hurt.

How do I tell him and make him understand my feelings on this? I want him to take my feelings into consideration. I also want to give him freedom to drink.

2007-03-25 19:20:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does shanthakumaran sreesanth (cricketer)have any girl friend..i mean lover , fiance??

2007-03-25 19:20:27 · 5 answers · asked by cognizant 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

was just asking thats all

2007-03-25 19:20:04 · 3 answers · asked by traney e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-25 19:19:53 · 12 answers · asked by jbjefferies 3 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I wonder how my life would be if I got married and divorcd a few times.

2007-03-25 19:18:33 · 11 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He is controlling, we tried to work our stuff out. He went to live with his parents (Dec 1 till Feb 28) so we could have time apart. He's been back almost a month but we are back to fighting! He puts me down, embarrasses me in public, we have no sex in 2 yrs (except pity sex in sept b4 he went to live w/ his parents. If he gave me $ I would have felt better!! We picked up right where we left off!! We did talk & agree on a lot of stuff I'm following what we agreed on but he is not. I realized that I'm no longer attracted to him & have told him this but he doesn't believe me. How do I convience him of this? He is still controlling & emotionally abusive. Even his son is afraid of him!! We still are in counseling but not getting ware. The only thing we agree on is that we can't change each other!! He is still trying!! I don't know what to do! I though we would be ok but we are not!! Still can't see my family only his! Won't give me any money He holds all money!!

2007-03-25 19:17:39 · 5 answers · asked by Missy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im 18 still living with my mother thats why i ask that question

2007-03-25 19:16:44 · 26 answers · asked by traney e 1 in Family

supposaly he works. this monday i found text massage in his cell writing to some girl saying " when i talk to you you so sweet, and he became so cold and rude to me. I told that I found this kind of text , he is yes i was flirting for my friend but i don`t believe. and now is 11:00 pm Sunday he said he has to work which i don`t believe because he works for travel company and thay don`t work on week ends. help me please I dont know what to do? all my feelings have mixed., gelousy,hate.

2007-03-25 19:16:18 · 15 answers · asked by A Scared Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I was a boy tomboy for nearly all my life untill seventh grade. And thats when I became a young pretty girl that boys are fighting over and that boys loves. But sometimes I do get called a MAN or a BOY and it hurts really bad, and I don't want to be remembered that girl that is a man.

what should i do?

2007-03-25 19:15:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im having an affair with an older man.
i recently broke up with my ex boyfriend ( father to my baby ) but this ex i broke up with i acually chose over the older man in the first place!
i keep gonig back to the older man and keep braking his heart, but i do it again and again everytime he forgives me, me and the older man were getting along swell then i went to my ex's house to have sex with my ex and the older man found out!
ahhhhh
wot am i doing?

2007-03-25 19:15:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 19:13:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so lets start off by saying im pissed as f@$k. so me and this girl dated for a while then we broke up. but we never really broke up we where like a friend with benifits thing. she said she cared about me and when i said she said i dont. that pissed me the f@%k off like no other. then she goes and gets back with the boyfriend she had before me. he is a little b@#^h that messed her up a lot and hurt her a lot. on top of all this my parents are going through a devorce . this is the hardest my life has ever ben and i feel more hurt than ever. i think i love this girl cuz she made me feel good about myself. but right now im so pissed that i dont know what to do. can anyone help me. im 17 and life sucks right now what should i do about evreything

2007-03-25 19:13:37 · 2 answers · asked by kkkk53564367 2 in Singles & Dating

That means he's not really my friend. He can't act like my friend if the other girl at work is anywhere around!

2007-03-25 19:13:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was wondering if it is true that good looking girls are treated better than ugly ones my friends say yes i don't know they say the only reason guys let me get away with being a complete witch to them is cause of my looks i figure it is cause they are nice so is it true people treat pretty girls better than ugly ones or is it just a myth

2007-03-25 19:13:20 · 18 answers · asked by shyababy05 1 in Singles & Dating

its like i happen to meet guys who just like me for my looks. i want someone who likes everything about me. It's like they treat me like a cake they see in a bakery. It's like they want a piece of me, but not all of me.

2007-03-25 19:12:55 · 33 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 5'7 (grl), and just out of curiosity... Do guys over 5 '10 prefer girls shorter or taller??

2007-03-25 19:12:50 · 6 answers · asked by ¤Amanda¤ 2 in Singles & Dating

Which one's for you?

2007-03-25 19:11:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

An older woman and I had a connection at one time, yet it almost seemed as if we couldn't (or even wouldn't) see if it could become something more, basically. Something always came up, and it's now in the past. What are your thoughts on this? Doesn't there seem to be a social stigma when a younger guy is seen with an older woman? What would an older woman's standpoint be?

2007-03-25 19:10:56 · 3 answers · asked by Bizzle76 1 in Singles & Dating

go back to the questions that are in voting and vote for yourself in hope to get the best answers? lol I do that all the time..seems to work i guess.

2007-03-25 19:10:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiancee and i met over the summer then we hit it off then, after a while he had to go back to korea hes a soldier in the U.S. army, since then we kept in contact recently he told me that hes been cheating on me with multiple girls, . well he took me off his buddy list and such i read his mail his talking to other girls even after he promess to stop. then told me that hes penis got a sore on it and burn i told him thats god getting back at you for hurting me get to a clinic. should i trust him for telling me the truth and marry him if he call me again. or should i just stay friend with him and nothing more. or kick his sorry as s to the curb

2007-03-25 19:10:16 · 3 answers · asked by dont fuck with me 1 in Singles & Dating

to find a dress that suits 4 different bridesmaids.
1) a 41 year old maid of honor (my mother) size 5
2) a 22 year old bridesmaid size 24
3) a 20 year old bridesmaid size 10
4) a 18 year old bridesmaid size 12

I know i could do the mix and match and will probably end up doing that but i was curious if there's a dress that could show off a few curves but still be comfortable and appropriate for each lady?!
like what lengths, necklines, dress shapes?!
thank for any advice/input!
GodBless

2007-03-25 19:09:59 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Weddings

i went out w/ this boi thast year then he didnt like me when i liked him then after bball season he liked me but he just broke up with my friend and i would go out with him but..
1.i have 3 ppl that would tell on me
2.idk if he will break my heart again
3.i dont want to hurt my friend
like i like him and all
but now hes all in a bad mood cuz i turned him down and i dont want to ruin our friendship
what should i do???

2007-03-25 19:09:58 · 1 answers · asked by Chalina 2 in Singles & Dating

how can you tell if a guy is really into you and not just feeding you b.s.? i have had a few bad boyfriends in my life and am automatically suspicious of any guy that likes me and it is hard for me to get close to a guy and i don't know how to stop feeling like this i met this guy he is sweet and caring and seems like he is into me and i have been really mean to him cause of past relationships and i can't get myself to believe anything he tells me cause i put him in the same no good group as my no good exes how can i stop doing this and how can i tell if he is really into me

2007-03-25 19:09:26 · 7 answers · asked by shyababy05 1 in Singles & Dating

Some call it the one that got away, others say the one they pushed away. Whose that one for you? Please go into detail!
Does you husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend know about this person?

2007-03-25 19:09:19 · 18 answers · asked by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Like, would it be easier to carry someone sitting on your shoulders, or have them ride on your back?

2007-03-25 19:07:35 · 5 answers · asked by DungeonMaster 2 in Singles & Dating

talk to people everyone and there mother keeps calling on me for this or that should I just not pick up anymore or should I make a time to pick up or talk to them I'm just not in the mood these days and maybe I'm just to full what do you think? any good ideas what to do

2007-03-25 19:06:49 · 6 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4 in Friends

2007-03-25 19:06:29 · 8 answers · asked by icene_06 2 in Singles & Dating

I would never cheat on her, as I love her to death. But it seems I get really wet when my girlfriend kisses other people in front of me. Is this some kind of fetish or is it wrong? My girlfriend thinks its funny and enjoys looking at me as she does it.

2007-03-25 19:06:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I sent this guy a text at 12 midnight and said, "hello I just was thinking about you cause I couldn't sleep" He told me he was still at work, but what do you think was going through his mind?

2007-03-25 19:06:09 · 6 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating