I would never cheat on her, as I love her to death. But it seems I get really wet when my girlfriend kisses other people in front of me. Is this some kind of fetish or is it wrong? My girlfriend thinks its funny and enjoys looking at me as she does it.
2007-03-25 19:06:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Blah forget all that, you obiously like it and it sounds like your relationship is more friendly & playful than deep commitment so why don't you relax and maybe you can learn something about yourself and your sexuality... the important thing is that you make sure your gf understands how you feel about it and you don't both have a different idea about what's going on, it's the sort of thing that could very easily change from being a bit of fun to something awkward and complicated if you dont make sure you both have an understanding of the boundaries
2007-03-26 07:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by EselNoek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on what sort of kiss it is. Romantic, a hello/ goodbye, erotic. It doesn't seem like you have a problem though. You get wet and she enjoys it. If it bothers you then discuss it with her
Personally 2 girls kissing-woohoo!
2007-03-25 19:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by skip22h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will want to put their own labels on it,(voyeurism one called it.).
To be honest it can have several interpretations, and the fact that you have to ask the question hints that it is obviously bothering you.
You have to ask yourself, is she kissing the other just to please your sexual needs and to prepare you for later on, or is she kissing them to satisfy herself?! If the latter then i would worry.
As for is it wrong to feel so. Well each to his own really. Just remember that in the long run what your partner is doing could affect your relationship further on down the road. My advice would be to put a curb on your reactions and get down to a normal one on one relationship. And by normal i mean just the two of you.( For Those who might choose to mis-interpret.)
2007-03-25 19:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by titus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's kissing someone else, she's already cheating on you (whether you're wet or not). That's why she keeps looking for your reaction to it. I would nip it in the bud and if you really need to see other girls kissing, get a porn video or just watch other couples.
2007-03-25 19:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why will you do a thing like that. kiss is emotional and effective in love life. if you don't guard your relationship jealously then you don't love your girl.
Don't go breaking her heart when you realise the effect of what (the denger) you are doing now . If you are not truly in love with her, tell her and let her go, please.
2007-03-25 19:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by winerest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gets me wet reading that and i am a bear
2007-03-25 19:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by BUNGLE!! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let her kiss me and you join in
2007-03-25 19:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a sick form of voyeurism
2007-03-25 19:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by mother of Bridezilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There just is
2007-03-25 19:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it obviously makes you horny.. heeeeloo, 2 girls making out..
2007-03-25 19:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by tortl :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋