Are guys mostly interested in sex?

Question

its like i happen to meet guys who just like me for my looks. i want someone who likes everything about me. It's like they treat me like a cake they see in a bakery. It's like they want a piece of me, but not all of me.

just tired of the same scenery. "oh you're fine and sexy, come to bed with me."

and I dont even go to clubs or party. Im a church girl.

Answer 1

I would love you and hold you and kiss you. If your interested, please send pic!!!!!!

Answer 2

Well church girl ,,,, I don't know whether you will like it or not but bear with me a little because it might turn out to be a long response ,,,,

You didn't mention your age but you sound young to me ,,,, At least young enough to post this kind of question ,,,, Even if you are older like late teens or early 20's the following still could apply to some degree or another ,,,, You and other girls your age are going to learn one way or another that guys your age including church boys let their glands do their thinking for them ,,,, They have no idea or concept of what the words commitment or obligation mean what so ever ,,,, The girl ,,,, especially a virgin ,,,,, has something he wants and they are prepared and willing to do say or promise what ever it takes to convince and cajole the girl into doing what he wants ,,,, For them it's I do until he doesn't want to anymore and that usually comes after they've gotten what they were after ,,,, Once he's scored then eventually he's going to lose interest and start looking else where for more excitement and you will be left high and dry and used abused violated and hurt ,,,, This happens all the time believe me especially with high school girls ,,,, This is a fact of life and the nature of the male animal ,,,, DON'T LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU ,,,, It's not just the young ones though that are like this ,,,, allot of males of all ages have this problem ,,,, Up to their 30's and 40's and even some beyond that ,,,, There are even some like that their whole lives ,,,, Don't get me wrong though ,,,, Not all males are like this ,,,, Only about maybe 98.1/2% maybe a little more or maybe a little less ,,,, A good indicator of what you have in a guy is when he starts getting a little too familiar with his hands or his speech or both ,,,,

You'd be smart while you are still young to get as wide a range of acquaintances as you can ,,,, Don't get into a rush ,,,, you have your whole life ahead of you so there's plenty of time ,,,, Shop around ,,,, Find out who and what's out there before you get serious about anyone ,,,, This would enable you to make a wiser decision as to just who you would want to settle down with when you are ready for a more involved relationship later on ,,,, Who knows ,,,, Tying yourself down to just one person too early might cause you to miss meeting that Mr Right guy ,,,,

It would also be a good idea if you establish a list of rules for yourself ,,,, A list of rules of do's and don't's ,,,, Of what you will do and what you won't do ,,,, Of what you will allow and what you won't allow ,,,, Set a high standard for any would be suitor ,,,, If you are still of high school age then you could have your mother or father or both sit down with you and help with suggestions ,,,, I don't know of any parent that would knowingly send their child astray ,,,, Once you have this list then stick to it ,,,, Not only now but for the rest of your life ,,,, Even if you are older ,,,, Once people know that you have these rules and standards you will gain their respect ,,,, Even the respect of those that would try to compromise you if they could ,,,, Stick to your guns on this ,,,, Don't let any guy do anything that would violate your rules or standards no matter what he says or does ,,,, If you are a church goer then it's most likely you are going to fine the right guy in that same church but even then there's NO guarantee so keep your wits about you ,,,, Regardless of your age what you do is up to you though as no one can make decisions for you or live your life for you ,,,, But at least give what I've suggested some thought ,,,,

You have submitted a good post ,,,, It covers a very serious topic regardless of how light other people have treated it ,,,, Some of them are the animals I mentioned ,,,, You get a star for it from me ,,,, Good luck in your life and keep your head about you and don't be fooled by anyone ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,

Answer 3

You are probably not that hot. Don't you know guys say that to every girl? Anyway, if you want a guy who likes you for more than your looks, you MUST offer something very far beyond that.

How are you presenting yourself when you leave the house? I doubt you would really like to give that up. If you have a nice body, wear a frumpy sweatshirt and put your hair up and wear glasses. You'll go back so fast it will make your head spin. You're not fooling anyone with this question.

I am not sure I've seen anyone as dumb as kattsmeow- she just pulled those "statistics" out of her asss, give us your source, KM. And men don't stop thinking about sex when they hit 40 or even 60.

Answer 4

You need to change where you are meeting guys, that's all...You need to pick a different kind of set of guys that want more than just a physical relationship. So try thinking where else you could hang so that you are meeting a different breed of men. For instance maybe you could do some charity volunteer work or maybe get involved at your church or maybe you could get involved in a certain sports where they have organized games. Or join a club of some sort that fits with an interest of yours. There are countless ways for you to meet a new kind of guy...one that is more into all of you and not just your physical being.....Good Luck!

Answer 5

not all guys are interested in sex. many guys wanna have a test preview of what a girl is like . it's like buying a car they want a test run before they make a finally purchase that is guy lingo i heard some guy buddy's talking about. i guess some men are so shallow they think they can go so low as to just lead a girl on to get her into bed. on the other hand i have morals and values if a guy isn't worthy to offer more then a good time then he isn't some one that would qualify for a long term relationship with or let alone marriage. you have to be smart and have respect for yourself always remember if it seems to good to be true most likely it is

Answer 6

LOL, they going for the wrapper, want the sweet but don't wanna know the ingredients??

Well I don't think you'd have to down size ur appearance just cause the men u meet are so shallow, so try &meet men at ur church, at the gatherings or church groups.

Or anyplace where u think the men would be forced to acknowlede ur mind...a library is also good.

Answer 7

Yes guys are interested in sex. And if you are an attractive girl, that just reinforces that interest. However, in all fairness there are guys that, while interested in it, can look past it and form a relationship. He may still hope for sex, but if you lay down the ground rules in advance he should respect that.

If you say "no sex until we've dated for a year" or something like that, the real dogs will just leave and look for easier conquests.

Answer 8

A couple of dozen surveys later they all say that men think of sex about every 10 minutes. It is the 3rd strongest drive in the male of the species, right after breathing and eating. Not surprizing that you are looked at like a piece of cake, or meat. There ain't much you can do about it.

Answer 9

It depends. There are a lot of guys that go for the challenge of getting you in bed, or use you as a girlfriend so that they look better & get laid regularly. Many macho guys are like this. Many athletes are like this.

More sensitive guys are out there, and they even come in macho and athletic forms, or in geeky-sensitive-nice-guy-gentlrman form, like me. So it's difficult to generalize about all guys, except most want to get in your pants.

Answer 10

Oh, sex is nice, but I'm more interested in the total package not just the outer wrapping. Not all of us guys are that shallow. There are more like me out there!

Answer 11

Want to see a difference? Dress up in something classy, natural looking make-up, go to a theater or artsy place, look at the guys there, a majority of them, are looking for a genuinely nice girl.