supposaly he works. this monday i found text massage in his cell writing to some girl saying " when i talk to you you so sweet, and he became so cold and rude to me. I told that I found this kind of text , he is yes i was flirting for my friend but i don`t believe. and now is 11:00 pm Sunday he said he has to work which i don`t believe because he works for travel company and thay don`t work on week ends. help me please I dont know what to do? all my feelings have mixed., gelousy,hate.
2007-03-25 19:16:18 · 15 answers · asked by A Scared Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are this wound up about it, why is he still your boyfriend? MOVE ON. Don't look for sympathy, you go get some!
2007-03-25 19:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by Curious_Yank_back_in_South_Korea 7 · 23⤊ 1⤋
He cheated on you and you know it. Just break up with HIM! NOW! Tell him that you are sorry but you have recently realized that you two are drifting apart and you think it would be best if you call it quits. He's not going to break up with you, and this will just drag on and on (I've seen it go on for YEARS!!!) Do you really want to let some man use you for years? And then when the relationship finally ends you are such a mess that get into another one exactly the same and your whole life turns into a mess? ALL because of THIS man! NO YOU DON'T! You deserve better! And no matter how scary it may feel to be alone, it will feel alot better than wasting the best years of your life chasing after some loser!!!
2007-03-26 02:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by cuteness 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only thing you can do is do what's best for you ,,,, You don't have a relationship with this guy ,,,, A relationship should be fun and exciting ,,,,, not what you have with him ,,,, If he felt about you the way he should he'd be bending over backwards trying to prove it to you ,,,, It's past time to move on ,,,, You can't be any good for anyone until you are good for yourself first ,,,, Concentrate and focus on yourself from now on ,,,, Put these things like jealously and hate behind you ,,,, You are the only one those feelings hurt ,,,,, Not the other people ,,,, There are allot of fish in the pond so to speak ,,,, Time to go fishing and find some one that's fun and exciting to be with ,,,, They are out there ,,,, and some of them even come trouble and problem free ,,,, Get yourself out of the rut you are in right now and turn the page in your life at start a new chapter ,,,, You'll be glad you did ,,,, Because it's for sure you don't need the crap you are getting now ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2007-03-26 02:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
obviously he is lying.Why wouldnt his friend flirt from his own mobile.I personally think u should dump him why stay with a guy that ur not sure about and feel hes not faithful .Trust ur heart it doesnt lie.
About the work bit maybe u can go to the place that he works in an see if it is open on a sunday i doubt it that way you can prove to your self and know that not only is he flirting or dating another girl but also lying to you and that will make u stronger in what ever you decide dumping him or even confronting him.i wish u luck and dont waste ur time with people who dont deserve u you will find afaithful lover there are loads out there.
2007-03-26 02:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should break up with him, the longer you allow him to abuse your trust in this way the more he is going to take advantage of it. Don't accept his behaviour, break up with him now, it will hurt for a while but once you meet someone new and they treat you the way you deserve to be treated you will wonder why you wasted so much time with him. This man isn't thinking about you otherwise he wouldn't be doing this and why is he flirting for "his friend" on "his" phone? You already know that he is doing wrong by you so show him the door and let him be the other girls problem now and you move on to something bigger and better.
2007-03-26 02:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say it's time to move on. You've already caught him you say, and now you think he's still cheating. Should be pretty obvious that he's not committed to you. Just break things off and go your separate ways.
I wish you luck finding a better match.
2007-03-26 02:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummmm this is an easly one. what you have is a headache not a boyfriend. tell this dude to kick rocks and move forward.
you should also spend some time being single and learing to truly love yourself. trust me, if you loved yourself 1/2 as much as you think you love this guy you would not be dealing with his nonsense.
2007-03-26 02:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by latreceh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is seeing someone else more than likely. He probably knows how you are going to act and is putting off telling you. you obviously have her number so call her tomorrow. don't act silly just tell her "this is _____ girlfriend and i read a text he sent to you and i wanted to know what your relationship to my boyfriend is?" if he is seeing someone else then you might need to walk away from this relationship.
2007-03-26 02:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls are always trying to find reasons to break up or fight with their boyfriends--its this thing they like to do thinking the man will back down and do whatever she wants and does him to do--if you think he is cheating--dump him or forgive him----if you havent seen him kissing or getting some sex from another girl-- then get rid of your insecurities--and love the man until you do find him actually doing something wrong-remember--usually--ones who are acting suspicious of their loved ones having an affair--are usually having the affair themselves
2007-03-26 02:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by charles o 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like something aint right. If it were me I'd be doing some snooping around and find out what's going on. And if he is cheating...dump him.
2007-03-26 02:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by black and white beauty 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you have that feeling then he is... get rid of him cuz that thought will NEVER leave your mind. Even if you try to forget it, you dont trust him or you wouldnt be snoooping in his phone.............................. How can you have a relationship with him if you cant trust him?
Move on, he's not worth it, trust me
2007-03-26 02:32:55 · answer #11 · answered by Chunkerbutt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋