im having an affair with an older man.
i recently broke up with my ex boyfriend ( father to my baby ) but this ex i broke up with i acually chose over the older man in the first place!
i keep gonig back to the older man and keep braking his heart, but i do it again and again everytime he forgives me, me and the older man were getting along swell then i went to my ex's house to have sex with my ex and the older man found out!
ahhhhh
wot am i doing?
2007-03-25 19:15:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's called having your cake and eating it too. Sit down and think. If they both walked away right now what would you do? I think once you realize what you want in life (having nothing to do with these men) it'll be come clear who is the right choice for you. But only you can make that choice. I can just promise you that if you keep going like this you'll eventually loose them both forever.
2007-03-25 19:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I buy you a drink, can I get some too? Judging from your post, Im sure the answer is yes. Meet me at beauty bar in hollywood in 30. Ill be the really awesome, cool dude with totally cool and awesome style that is surrounded by really awesome and cool women that people often mistake as a superhero.
2007-03-26 03:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by jason s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both men allow you to go back and forth between them, so you do it because you can!! They both need to get some self respect and dump your behind to the curb...... sorry but it will probably be the best thing to ever happen to you, because you are losing dignity and respect for yourself every time you do it. I am sure you are not a bad person, so go find someone that lets you be you and makes you feel good about yourself. You deserve it and so do they!
2007-03-26 02:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by lisa k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You aren't going to like this but here it is ,,,,
You know exactly what you are doing ,,,,
Guys ,,,,, any guy would be better off with terminal cancer than they would be being involved with you ,,,,
I think you ought to be investigated to determine if you are a responsible parent because you are definitely not acting like a responsible adult ,,,, Think about it ,,,,
Like I said you probably won't like this answer but you asked the question so this is my response ,,,, take it or leave it but at least give it some thought ,,,,, Yoda said this ,,,,
2007-03-26 02:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you so confuse with whom you go to bed with? What you are doing is... you are courting disaster. Eventually, you will lost both of them.
2007-03-26 02:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by september 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good question to ask yourself.wake up and figure out what you want before you end up all alone.
2007-03-26 02:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by acr_lover 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋