Is it bad to get married and divorced more than once?

Question

Sometimes I wonder how my life would be if I got married and divorcd a few times.

Answer 1

it would be a mess, my wife's mom has been married three times and she is all alone now, living by herself, withdrawn, unhappy, she is getting better day by day but it is taking a long, long time, the more you get the divorced the higher the chances are for another divorce in your next marriage, I have a friend that has been married three times and he is still heart broken over all of them, that is a burden no one should have to carry

Answer 2

heartbreak is heartbreak regardless if the commitment went as far as investing a few years or many. is it bad? some might say divorce was the best thing for them....and that same person at the time of marriage said, this is the best day of my life. some people never get married and still lead a crappy life or a good life. your question is an intelligent one..your details are unthoughtful, sarcastic almost. marriage isnt really a business deal or corporate dealing though it seems that way given the legal rammifications following some divorces. maybe you are older and made that comment. never too late to try marriage. at least youre thinking about it. peace

Answer 3

Besides all of the emotional reasons for avoiding this, practically speaking, you should consider all of the effects that this has on your personal property and any children that are involved.

Typically, if you can avoid the messy divorce and there are no kids, it's just a matter of dividing the assets you have gained during the marriage, and taking the assets each of you brought with you.

However, if your divorce is not amicable, one of you could be left in the cold, and be expected to continue to support your spouse and kids, even after the divorce is completed.

Answer 4

Yes definitely. Why get married in the first place if you don't have the making of a good husband or wife as a matter of speaking. You need to understand the complications of marriage and be aware to take up the challenge as a couple as you are living as one and not two individuals. So that is why many marriage are broken due to the fact that they have not known their partners well enough to go through the marriage and it is a serious decision to make.

Answer 5

Not a good idea! You can always just stay in a relationship with out getting married if you are not ABSOLUTELY sure that the person is your soul mate. Marriage is not a game, it is a life long commitment, and divorce should only ever be considered in very extenuating circumstances AFTER counseling.

Answer 6

Divorce is about the worst thing you can go thru. It may teach you a few hard lessons but I'm not 100% sure it was worth it. So it may sound romantic to have few different sex partners or few different weddings but a few divorces, not many people would make it thru that and still come out sane on the other side.

Answer 7

Why should it make a difference? Are you asking if it's bad to make a mistake? If life were perfect we'd have first marriages that lasted a lifetime, instead of almost 70% of them failing. And there'd be a few other changes as well. Nobody sets out to make a record of marriages and divorces...those things seem to happen. Probably a testimony to optimism rather than experience.

Answer 8

Its something you survive not actually enjoy going through.

Not something you plan or dream for. When you have children it makes it harder but you have to remain on speaking terms for the kids sake and luckily all the grown ups were well behaved in my experience

My advice don't marry too young and choose carefully

Answer 9

yes its bad of course....basically it just means that the people were just stupid... and they dont know what true love is or why marriage is not for everyone to begin with....

Answer 10

If it's no good now, then it would still be no good except you drag people down with you.