I do I get a girl who is apathetic about everything to notice me? Shes beautiful and does well in school but is very carefree when it comes to liking someone. I get the feeling that she gets bored easily with people but I still for some reason like her. How do I get her to notice me or maybe even like me. Thanks in advance.
2007-03-25 18:56:36 · 3 answers · asked by snowman6618 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't GET anyone to like you.
If you're going to be in a serious relationship with someone, it's better to know that they themselves took it upon himself to notice you by their own observations and efforts. Then you know the attraction is really there and not something you had to coax.
As far as the apathetic personality is concerned, be careful if you two do hit it off. These types of people DO NOT like to feel caged in any imaginable way. They will absolutely revolt any attempt of another person trying to tie them down. Don't blame them, that is just their nature.
If you feel you can't handle that type of personality on a day-to day basis, then I suggest you take interest in someone who is more like yourself. There's no harm in that.
I've been with an apathetic person for 4 years. I'm a very private person, and generally low-key. It gets tough at times and often I get plagiarized into feeling like a totalitarian for wanting simple and common relationship needs.
Not impossible, but truly tough. Sometimes downright daunting.
2007-03-25 19:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like her tell that thing to her directly.speak ur heart with her frankly & daringly.if she gets bored with people easily then u become the guy about whom she never gets bored.try to change her attitude of getting easily bored if u find that thing as a great problem.u can make her notice u by giving a smile at her & making her feel that u r really caring for her.show special interest towards her.speak with her franky about anything u like to talk with her.all the best...........
2007-03-26 02:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by nallan_sirisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is bored easily she's not the type to make a commitment and prefers things to be challenging and change. The only you can do is turn on the charm but remain aloof so she doesn't tire of you but remains intrigued because you're not falling all over her.
2007-03-26 02:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋