How do you act towards someone who broke your heart and you work with them?
2007-03-25 19:03:35 · 10 answers · asked by MockingBird 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First and foremost it's never a good idea to have a workplace romance because when things don't work out you're forced to see each other and avoiding each other is impossible creating an uneasy situation. The best you can do is contine to communicate with respect and separate your hurt feelings from the work environment. Understand that you hurt now but it won't last forever. Take it one day at a time.
2007-03-25 19:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When someone at the workplace gives you a broken heart, you act like the professional adult that you are, and continue with your work. Or else you quit. Either way, get over it! And whatever you do, zip the lip and resist the urge to badmouth that person. If someone asks you about the affair or that person, and it does not have anything to do with work, then politely, but slowly walk away.
Learn from your mistake, and the next time, date outside of the workplace. Just to be safe and keep on the side of the employed, look around for another job now, while keeping the one that you have. When you find one, though, you don't have to take it. You just want to get a feel of things. Just in case there has been a leak in the grapevine and the tide turns against you.
2007-03-25 19:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by DARMADAKO 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships and work don't mix! I know....u probably heard that enough.
All you can do is move on. Keep your professional attitude at work and only speak to that person regarding work related things. Stay strong. It takes time and it will get easier to deal with this person.
Good luck & take care!
2007-03-25 19:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get another job, our you will never have the kind of peace there that you're accustomed to. And NEVER date within the workplace again. Its just not worth it.
2007-03-25 19:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by volkgal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right now I feel anger and hurt. The woman cheated on me and has somehow convinced everyone at work I am the one at fault.
2007-03-25 19:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Cameron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out who his best male friend is and start having sex with him in the lunch room at work.
2007-03-25 19:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to talk to this person then you talk but if you dont need to talk to him dont and hopefully it will eventually smooth out because you have mad him realize that he broke your heart and maby he will apoligize or treat you better. i hope i have helped you to day! cya xoxoxoxo Cj : )
2007-03-25 19:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by Cj : ) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore them. to keep your job work with him when needed. but enforce the sexual harassment to the max with him or her
2007-03-25 19:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by Homer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your head up, stay professional, fake it until you make it.
2007-03-25 19:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by squealy68 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't look into their eyes.
2007-03-25 19:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋