I like this girl. Im in 9th grade. Slow or fast?

Question

She is in a few of my classes and is in the band with me. I try to talk to her almost everyday and I might get the guts to compliment her as she did to me. Should I straight up ask her out or try and arrange a date. The bad thing is I cannot drive and I feel embarresed by my parents. Any help?

She is in a few of my classes and is in the band with me. I try to talk to her almost everyday and I might get the guts to compliment her as she did to me. Should I straight up ask her out or try and arrange a date. The bad thing is I cannot drive and I feel embarresed by my parents. Any help?
P.S. I think about her constantly.

If she looks good a certain day what should I say? You look good?

I am greatly appriciated with all your help. Thank you so much!

Answer 1

If she look good and i think she must look good to you everyday try telling her: "hey, you look nice today" it is simple and it works. Try to fool around with her and try to do some light jokes. If you see she is responding to you and she likes hanging time with you then ask her out and dont be embarrased by your parents, but if its such a big problem to you then try to ask her out somewhere near her place and try to get there by foot or asking for a ride to a friend.

Answer 2

Embarrassed by your parents.. ?
If she is in 9th grade , does she drive? .. if not why worry..
depending where you live there are buses, two feet... you can walk to parks and beaches.. Your parents maybe could drop you off or her parents to a movie, skating rink etc...
as far as the slow or fast part... that depends. at your age if it's physical your asking about, forget the slow , the answer as a parent would be ... NOT At all..
if to start a friend ship .. ASK.. she seems like a caring girl and recognizes you by making compliments. Get in line at the cafeteria with her one day, pay for her lunch once. Ask her to sit with you.. no big deal , but great way to start a friendship and show you care.. Be a caring friend, before dating..
I hope you and your parents can get closer so you can feel comfortable to ask their advise. they do have your best interests at heart.. Even the parents who embarrass us.. I realized much too late in life..
Good luck to you....

Answer 3

go for it little man. if you don't get her, somebody else will.

ever thought of taking public transportation, or walking? walking with a girl is very nice. you get plenty of time to get to know her.

just remember: you have nothing to lose. if you succeed, then great. if not, then no worry, it means she's just not good enough.

oh and also: it never hurts to make an extra compliment. If she looks beautiful, and you really mean it, then just say "you look beautiful". If you are sincere, there is no way she'll take offense. Just remember though, the most important thing is to be sincere when you say something.

Answer 4

Don't worry about your parents. They'll be happy to see you got a new girlfriend. Definitely act fast, and get her before someone else does. What do you really have to lose?

The next time you see her, give her a few backhanded compliments, joke around with her, and then tell her how you feel. She'll admire your straightforwardness and confidence.

Don't look back and just go for it.

Answer 5

9th grade take it very slow. If your parents ok the dating at this age try group dating. Couple dates. Public places. Magic Mountains, movies, beach, park picnic. Do not get serious just be best of friends until college.

Answer 6

If you're feeling a little unsure that she likes you, you can ask her out on a date for sure. But if you want to go down that "date" road and don't want to be embarrassed by your nerdy parents, ask her to MEET you at the movies of wherever you decide to go on a date. That way you dont have to worry about her meeting your parents.

Answer 7

If the parents are a problem, try going on a group date with older friends, siblings, etc. Then, it's people your age driving and stuff

Answer 8

first off, take it slow at first, then set a pace you are both comfortable with. this should be easy to find without really having to have what could be a potentially embarrassing conversation. and remember, just because you are a guy doesn't mean you have to go her pace if it is too fast for you, but you do need to go her pace if it seems too slow for you...i know that sounds corny, but it's true.
second, ask her to meet you at the movies or the mall or a school dance, or just to hang out after school or band practice or something that won't require much of your parents involvement. before asking her out make sure you really like her and it isn't just a physical attraction.
and, third, i think my mom has any parents beat in the embarrassing department. my mom did the classics, pulling out my baby pictures and what not, but sometimes she went crazy and would pull out a cassette tape of my sister singing way off key while i was playing my flute. we were like, 12 or something, and she would pull it out just to see us embarrassed. if it gets to where she wants to meet them, don't ask them to not embarrass you, cuz a lot of the times the parents go above and beyond just to embarrass you when you ask them not to. instead, just try to laugh them off when they pull out the pictures of you wearing your "my first potty" on your head.
(just an example)

point is, parents are embarrassing, it's just their role in your life right now. find a way to deal with it, or find ways around it.

Answer 9

probable. yet i could assume much extra if the highschool you would be going to is larger than the middle college you're at. I recommend, on condition that there will be extra pupils frequently. yet some would mature over the summer season, and in step with danger there will be a smaller ratio of the immature ones :)

Answer 10

The only thing you can do is talk to her. You won't know what she's like if you don't talk to her. I doubt that she'll criticize you for getting rides with your parents. After all, you're only in the ninth grade man. Talk to her at school and see what she likes to do and stuff like that. Once you know enough about her, you'll know what to do. I have faith in you man. Good luck!