Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

My best friend blew me off last night to go to another friends house insted of going to the movies with me as we had planned and I was left staning outside the movies. And this is not the 1st time shes done this to me. I dont know what to do now? should I forgive her or not? But shes my best friend and I dont know if I want to lose her. My other friends told me to make plans with her again and blow her off this time so she knows what it feels like but wouldnt that just not make me any bettert then her? I'd just stoop down to her level. so I dont know what to do! please help me.

2007-03-24 02:13:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My soon to be ex wife took off w/ my kids 2 california. I live here in Florida and I have been trying to get some money together for a lawyer but she is calling my relative saying that if i don't leave my fiancee she will go to court and have my rights taken away. what makes it worse is that I don't know where she lives. I have a phone number and also found out she has an active warrant for her arrest here in florida. Please if anyone knows of anything I can do i would appreciate it. I haven't seen my kids in over 6months, i'm afraid of losing them.

2007-03-24 02:11:43 · 15 answers · asked by Miguel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with this guy for 4 years off and on. He is reculant to be in a relationship with me because he can't trust me.Thinks I'll cheat on him because in the past I did go through a phase of being quite easy (but we were never in a relationship besides being FWB so i've never technically cheated on him). But I'm tired of that game and haven't been like that way in years.
But he lies to me all the time, about how much he loves me and wants to start a relationship, but he never comes through. We'll make plans to do things and then all of a sudden his phone will be "messed up" and he'll claim he never got my call, or the messages I've left. Or he'll be working Overtime,it's always a lame excuse. I never buy into them, and on occasion will leave irriatated messages on his cell, but I'm not the drama queen type of gal so I hold back from being a complete spaz. He wants to have a 3-some w/ another guy, he apparently likes them but doesn't want to do it alone, I think he's a mo...

2007-03-24 02:11:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 02:10:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are women more emotional than men? Or do women just express their emotions more than men do?

2007-03-24 02:10:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-bf broke up with me more than a mth ago. Its not a great relationship and I was hurt a lot of times by him but I don't really have feelings for him anymore and I'm actually kind of thankful to my ex for ending the relationship. Its highly unlikely that I will fall for him again simply because I know that I can't trust him and can't depend on him for emotional support. Just like what my ex said "Things will never be the same again"

I don't hate my ex now and I'm just wondering how long should I wait before I contact him again. Just to be friends with him. In my opinion, its always better to have more friends.

2007-03-24 02:08:49 · 7 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Singles & Dating

Your boyfriend or girlfriends friend starts to hang out with you knowing you are crazy about the person you are dating. But it seems as if the friend is into you or its a big set up to where its a test to see if you would cheat. What would you do if the friend would want it kept between you 2 and no one eles? Hidden affair or a set up?

2007-03-24 02:08:38 · 8 answers · asked by Lost 1 in Singles & Dating

If so, how long will you listen before you've had enough?

2007-03-24 02:08:27 · 9 answers · asked by GoodQuestion 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of four years just broke up with me saying he's changed, grown out of me, feels like he needs to find something more and wants to take the time to find it...he even said he wished he could put me on pause...I even got that crap line that he wants to be friends....It's been about 2 weeks and I miss him like crazy and I'm still in love with him. He says there's nothing I can do to get him back and that I just have accept that...I'm trying to so badly but it's just so hard. I go to sleep and wake up still thinking he's beside me or at night I still think he will be coming through the door when he should be coming home from work....I feel so heart broken. I hate this crap that it's just going to take time!!!! I just don't know where to go from here..Help!

2007-03-24 02:06:31 · 10 answers · asked by wilsonfromthefrew 1 in Singles & Dating

i am working since i am married .now i am not psychologically fit to work , will it affect my family life . that is depending financially on my husband.

2007-03-24 02:05:42 · 11 answers · asked by apparaju j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Your all welcome to reply or help me out here, lol. Im going through a major life descison and its bothering me, ive lost sleep and my mind wont quite down. I am 24, currently living with my boyfriend "jake" of one year in a small pull trailor. I live in a small town, in the north, and have been here ALL my life. I currently guit my job because it drove me into depression, and I got rid of my brand new dodge truck, also had to file for bankruptcy because the lease payments on that truck were 800 a month, i made a bad mistake there. Anyways, i really want to move away. Somewheres down my the ocean or water of some sort. I just feel the need to spread my wings and fly..its not that i want to run from this town or anything, all my family is here and i do like it alright, but i also hate it and would like to experience more of life. The only problem is, i love ryan deeply and he loves me, he would be so heartbroken if i left, and he wouldnt come with me, i know this for a fact. So i have to make the decision of a lifetime here..i have so many questions and nobody seems to have any answers. Deep down my heart and soul are screaming at me to leave..but than again, theres a little voice telling me to stay, become a housewife, and try to be happy. I dont want to lose ryan but thats what would happen if i left, he wouldnt "wait" for me by any means. I am just very , very lost....and i envy people who can mae these choices on there own..its hard..but hopefully ill figure something out..ugh

2007-03-24 02:04:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told her my last relationship was 1 yr ago wen really it was like 3 or 4, if i shud tell her, how do i do it?

2007-03-24 02:03:36 · 21 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Singles & Dating

i called a quit and he was suddenly so close to people around me and gave help to them he use to tell people that i called a brake up and it is because i have found myself a new guy.i felt very guilty and decided to talk to him we later solved our differences and we are back again but his reaction is making know that he got another girl in his life.i would like to go and find another guy but i am afraid i would meet a devil instead,and i do not want to leave without having anyone in mind because i might be forced to go back.i love him but can not marry someone who will make me sad.i sometimes think he seeing me more often that is why but even that marriage is forever.i am confused....... i need help.

2007-03-24 02:03:31 · 2 answers · asked by debie 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been dating my bf for a few months now. and i always like to impress him..like cook him dinner.. take him out.. make him things..stuff like that.. but ive seen to run out of ideas..

Any suggestions?..

2007-03-24 02:01:23 · 13 answers · asked by Iracela 3 in Singles & Dating

We've said hi before. We got out of class early friday and went to our next class. She sat down outsiide the building and started to read more of her book for class. I wrote a letter to her and took it to her and gave it to her. It said that I thought that she was beautiful and I called her history girl because she's in my history class and i don't know her name. Then I said "I don't hate history class but it is not my favorite subject. With you in class it makes the class more fun." I then quoted a line from one of James Taylor's songs. "Shower the people you love with love. Show them the way that you feel. Things are going to be much better if you only will."
Then I wrote this: "Enjoy studying for the history test this weekend." (Joke). See you Monday in history class.
As I walked away I saw her read the letter. I don't know what was going on inside her head.
Do you think she will like the letter?
I don't want to freak her out or make her uncomfortable? What to say on monday?

2007-03-24 02:01:16 · 12 answers · asked by k45 3 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when you ask a guy whether he likes a girl after being told that she likes him, he says 'i really don't know?'

he compliments her and always says hey to her with a big smile and a how are you

could it mean that he really doesn't know or he does like her but just doesn't want to admit it?

he already knows that she likes him

2007-03-24 02:01:13 · 8 answers · asked by the sweet escape <3 1 in Singles & Dating

I visited an out-of-town bridesmaid and met her boyfriend. The guy is a real creep, he seems devious, malicious, demeaning, aggressive, etc. He made my fiance and I so uncomfortable that we left after only being there for an hour! Bottom line is this guy is not allowed at our wedding, my fiance said so, and I agreed last night. I WILL NOT have my guests (especially the guests who would share a table) made to feel that uncomfortable for anyone...not even a very close friend who I did ask to be a bridesmaid!

So my question is...do I tell my friend that he is not allowed now? or do I wait until closer to the wedding (no need to stir a pot now if she isnt even going to be with him by the wedding)?

Side notes:
1. They have only been together for about 6months, but live together and "love" each other.
2. My wedding is in June 2008
3. I would tell her before she paid a dime for anything (I think we will buy bridesmaid dresses in Jan (there is a 30% off sale at a local store)

2007-03-24 02:00:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've read rants, only for the 25 and up crowd or the legally married, but alas, I still answer. What do you think? Obviously, I can't answer questions I don't have insight into, like many of the divorce or child related questions, but some of them eh, I think I'm quite good at.

Does marriage here on Yahoo! Answers include the traditional sense of simple cohabitation with real commitment or no? We're definitely NOT dating or on some sort of silly fling. We are going to do the party and ritualistic event, but it's really just symbolic. To us, commitment is entirely personal and something that we need to work towards and those who attend our wedding? Well, it's mostly just our older relatives that have religious ties to the whole thing and find some sort of altristic happiness from it, but we grew up in the 'screw what you think' generation and I just don't get it!

2007-03-24 01:59:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

before we got married wow..roses and expensive jewelry...now we are married i get toilet brushes and pots...

i do keep the house clean....what the f...?

is it normal with men in a marriage, i need also men to answer..or its happening to me alone?

2007-03-24 01:58:41 · 22 answers · asked by girly 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Swallows ? Me and a group of my friends were talking about it and it kind of broke out into an arguement(Pretty funny actually). I'm wondering what you all think.

2007-03-24 01:58:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this chick were good friends last year. And this year i joked around a lot with her because it made her smile . Now she is annoyed with my jokes and is kind of mad at me. and now i finally realized that i like her a lot. What should i do. I am Indian so my parents are anti-dating and all about acedemics. how can i express my fellings and get her to like me atleast as a friend.

2007-03-24 01:57:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm in love with a guy..he knows it but pretends he does not.
we used to atleast say HI before...but from past few months after he came back from his trip he seems to ignore me! he doesnt even say hi...he walked past me so many times...
i dont know what changed!
before his trip he showed a lot of interest in me...i dont know what happened...whenever i tell him hi he replies but rudely as if he is obligated..!
its 6months now n i'm breaking down!

2007-03-24 01:56:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok this is what is goin' on. ONe of use to be best friends is trying to tell other people that they shouldn't be my friend. She is telling everybody that I'm a no good little lying witch. They listen to her all the time. But she is the one who had to have sex on the bus. So what would you do? I want my friends back.

2007-03-24 01:56:47 · 14 answers · asked by Briann M 2 in Friends

2007-03-24 01:54:35 · 8 answers · asked by amit s 1 in Singles & Dating

Do I exist?

If so, why haven't you found me yet?

2007-03-24 01:54:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 01:53:59 · 24 answers · asked by Ginny Jin 7 in Singles & Dating

This guy I like and his friend were talking in another class [my own friend overheard] and my name came up somehow. His friend playfully hit him on his shoulder and he smiled after hearing my name. Keep in mind that he was listing people that he thought were silly or funny, and my name came up, even though I haven't talked to him for about 2-3 months.

A. Why did MY NAME come up so soon when we haven't even talked?
B. Why did he smile after saying my name after his friend hit him on the arm playfully?

2007-03-24 01:53:18 · 8 answers · asked by Neesha 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello,

I have been dating a guy for the past few months and I asked him where our relationship stands because I like him. He told me that he likes me too but he is not interested in a committed relationship at the time because of time constraints and past relationship. He would like to be friends. I said OK but I will be dating other people because I want to be in a long term relationship. He said that he is fine with me dating other people. Well, I started to think about it and I really do not want to be with a guy who do not want to be in a committed relationship and do not mind me dating other people. Do you guys agree? Also, do you think that I should send an email on how I feel or should I just leave it open?

2007-03-24 01:52:52 · 8 answers · asked by shakira2000 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 01:51:36 · 7 answers · asked by sion boy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 01:51:20 · 7 answers · asked by Arun k 1 in Singles & Dating