Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

This guy and I are friends..but he always asked me when he comes on IM where are you...I hate it! We are both in Asia and he is doing his mandatory military service..anyway I told I was planning to return home to the US. He is a nice guy and we are in a little mess now...long story but would you get mad if someone always asks you that stupid question Where are you? He even told me he could never get angry at me and I think that is stupid too would you believe him?

2007-03-24 01:32:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guest list for my wedding keeps growing and growing, my fiance' and I are footing the bill. Everytime I turn around, 20 more people pop up who think they should be invited, because of one reason or other. I can pack them into the church, but we can't pay for everyone to come to the reception. How do I tell people this is an invitation only wedding and reception, not a word of mouth free for all?

2007-03-24 01:32:09 · 15 answers · asked by decababe 3 in Weddings

to get the h*** off here. I'm meant to be packing to go away
on holiday......

2007-03-24 01:31:53 · 16 answers · asked by jet-set 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-24 01:31:48 · 21 answers · asked by maty 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 01:31:45 · 6 answers · asked by real_chic00 2 in Friends

My bf has suddenly stopped picking up his phone and stopped responding to emails. I am not sure what the deal is. The last time we were together (a week ago tomorrow) everything was fine between us. I even saw him (very) briefly on wed afternoon and all seemed well. I had one of my friends whom my bf doesn't know call him to see if he would pick up (wanted to know if he was avoiding me) and there was no answer. My guy friends are telling me not to call him anymore and one of them even said if I haven't heard from him by tomorrow to consider myself single. What should I do?

2007-03-24 01:30:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Looks or Personality?

2007-03-24 01:28:16 · 18 answers · asked by xxxxx 1 in Singles & Dating

marraige is a man-made rule, you cant deny, its ot bad and good points, but it is still subject to defects. why do we have to entertain such a rule. long back unavailability of contraceptives discouraged adultery and before marraige sex, so why TOday we follow all this. is age old tradition today become useless rituals

2007-03-24 01:27:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

With 2 children, happily married with my husband, everything's near perfection... its me.. I've been so caught up with work and especially my two wonderful precious sons - they're my everything mind you. But, because of our busy lifestyles, my husband and me - we rarely have time for togetherness. Our sex life; I can't remember when was the last time! I'm starting to go hungry.. Every bloke walk past, every abs I can imagine... Its bad right..... I love my family!!! My husband was heartbroken TWICE - and I hate myself for all these. What can I do to stop this hunger onto having an affair again? Why?

2007-03-24 01:27:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my birth date 25.03.1986 time 6.30 pm distrit ; - sangali , taluka shirala , chikhali

2007-03-24 01:25:25 · 7 answers · asked by madhavi s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

her friends have told me she has been posting suicidle messages on her myspace help me log into her myspace i dont know her password but i do know her email.She maybe even prostituting herself I have heard about her talking to very older guys about sex and i just want to know whats going on with my daughter.And dont say talk to her last time i found out she was cutting herself and when i tried to confront her she threatend to kill herself that night.I just want to know about my baby.And dont say it's illegal like my 14yr old is going to sue me!!
PLEASE HELP ME!! IF U DON'T YOU ARE JUST PUSHING HER TORWARD YOUR DEATH!!!LET HER MOTHER IN HER LIFE!!!!

2007-03-24 01:24:29 · 27 answers · asked by Luv Is in the air 1 in Family

2007-03-24 01:23:39 · 4 answers · asked by irena belgrade 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in love with him and he is in love with me very much so--he is much older than I am (22 years) ---I made a very bad mistake--he is married --I've been trying to "make a plan" without hurting him but every time I think about not having him in my life it feels like my stomach is on fire--the last time I tried--he called me several times--he told me from the beginning he is never going to divorce but at the time I did not love him--he also told me that if things ever change he would be with me within a heartbeat--I feel like an idiot and I know I have been taking advantage of but why can't I just forget about him

2007-03-24 01:22:12 · 16 answers · asked by beaq 1 in Marriage & Divorce

"My girlfriend says that if I leave the toilet seat and lid up just one more time.....she's leaving! It just can’t seem to remember to put them down. I don’t know how many times she has sat down in the toilet and got her BUTT wet. Has anyone heard of a way I can make sure I don't keep doing this? I always forget!"

2007-03-24 01:21:56 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She's staying with her parent's who will be here in 3 months for a wedding they have to attend. Also she said she would be home early and even said she put her name on some kind of waiting list for the airline. but now she changed her mind and wants to stay 3 weeks. I called the airline and they for a flight for her to leave early in a matter of minutes. has she has been lying to me about coming back early? what should I do?

2007-03-24 01:20:20 · 6 answers · asked by rick s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-24 01:17:12 · 3 answers · asked by dil 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

evicted and my son said its mainly them but a little you, and i am the one being throuwn out, its unbelivable this housing manager believes their lies. i really hate them i think they are the most awful people, desprise them at the church they said i should love but find this impossible after what they have done. to my family, i am very angry cos my grandkids wil be made homeless and these awful people will get away scot free but what goes around comes around i do believe its just making me depressed sometimes

2007-03-24 01:15:29 · 10 answers · asked by denny 2 in Family

So I know this girl is crazy about me right.

She's my type:
cute, funny, interesting, and very intelligent.

Conversations go on for a good hour sometimes and we actually need to cut them off or we'll be late for our next class.

But for the passed half semester, she's been kind of pissed off, down spirited, what ever you want to label it.

Every girl seems to do this, they like me, I don't ask them out, they change and become angry/crazy/disgruntle.

It actually makes them cuter.

So why do you girls get angry if a guy doesn't ask you out?
Why not ask the guy out instead?

2007-03-24 01:15:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 01:14:27 · 29 answers · asked by In the same boat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

answer only if u see it through philosophical, historical point of view. dont gimme legal reasons

2007-03-24 01:13:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i always feel overshadowed by my best friend.... she is more outgoing and friendly than I am (i am a bit shy) and most guys are attracted to her (she's pretty as well as nice) and girls gravitate to her. she is a great person but i always back into myself whenever we are with other people. how can i be more outgoing and stuff like that and stop looking on put actually participate in convos and such.

2007-03-24 01:12:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I excpect true & Simple answers.

2007-03-24 01:12:38 · 14 answers · asked by Sunit K 2 in Singles & Dating

One of his best friends is the person that I REALLY like. I don't know if I should experiment to see if I like dating my friends or what. Im really confused. Please help =(

2007-03-24 01:11:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why woman attracted to man only emotional although man attracted to woman emotionaly,physically,visually,audioaly?

2007-03-24 01:11:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

m a student.........my name is kushi
from shimoga (d) karnataka (State)

2007-03-24 01:10:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have noticed this past weeks he is gaining more and more weight and at first he seems to look better with those chubby cheeks but now he appears to be fat and the worse thing is he doesnt care at all. I cant stop him from eating a lot of foods and i cant really convince him to go to a gym or do dieting...

what shall i do. i dont want to have a fat boyfriend

here is the latest picture of him i have

http://img262.imageshack.us/my.php?image=hotguypm3.jpg

2007-03-24 01:10:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is me just wandering which guys look for. I know what some will say is personality as yes i look for that in guys... but what is the truth

1) dark or light fetures?
2)innocent or bad?
3)really thin or normal?
4)a newbie to love or an expert?

thanks xxx

2007-03-24 01:09:11 · 11 answers · asked by frankie! 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband is so strict when it comes to my clothes,i cant wear shorts,skirts,tubes,and sexy dresses outside the house.
he dont want me to put make up,and when i do he will always ask " what for"...he never allow me to go out with my friends especially if there are boys in the group(eventhough he knows everybody) he just wanted me to stay home and its so boring.
he wanted me to spend all my time with him...

one time,he said yes when i told him that i have to attend my bestfriend`s bday i thought its really ok,but he calls every once in a while to check me,and told me to go home early...It`s a party and honestly i really had a good time that day that I almost forgot the time.He called again and I went home,we had a big fight that night...I love him so much,but sometimes i feel like i`m getting bored with my life but not with him...

what am I goin to do? why is he acting like that???
anybody can help me? need advice please...
thanks in advance....

2007-03-24 01:08:55 · 24 answers · asked by wildflower 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Who is asking the question. If an 20yo girl is asking about dating a 45yo man they seem to say go for it... If its a 45yo man asking about a 20yo girl everyone says he's a perv. Whats up with that? Check question histories and you'll see i'm right. Isn't age the last acceptable discrimination? If it was a white boy asking about dating a black girl and someone said EWWWWW.... they would be burned at the stake! Right?

2007-03-24 01:08:03 · 6 answers · asked by Jim V 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 01:07:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating