I have noticed this past weeks he is gaining more and more weight and at first he seems to look better with those chubby cheeks but now he appears to be fat and the worse thing is he doesnt care at all. I cant stop him from eating a lot of foods and i cant really convince him to go to a gym or do dieting...
what shall i do. i dont want to have a fat boyfriend
here is the latest picture of him i have
http://img262.imageshack.us/my.php?image=hotguypm3.jpg
2007-03-24 01:10:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey he looks ok but if ur gettin a bit worried then why dont u suggest that u start goin out sumwher, lyk if uv got a local ski slope wher u can ski together or summat? dont make it sound lyk exercise tho jst say uv always wanted to try it. or if u can get m8s together laser questins lyk £10 for 2 20 min games.
an anyway if u still luv him then thats whats important. size doesnt matter- much
2007-03-24 01:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the dude isn't fat, trust me, I weight more than him, he's not fat. And the body is in the control of those who control it, meaning that if he wants to be fat and unhealthy, that's his porogative, but usually a weight gain and major overeating is a sign on depression due to either guilt or anxiety. trust me I deal with the same stuff, so you just gota find out what it is that's causing him to be the way he is and try to help fix that issue, if he's not willing there is nothing you can do cause you can't force someone to change, so if you are not happy with that you should end it and move on.
2007-03-24 01:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by revman_237 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it's not your body, you have no right to say what he has to do.
However, if it's out of concern for health reasons that different.
Be supportive in what HE wants as well. If at this point he doesn't care and it's not something serious, let him be.
Your 'question' sounds like you are more worried about how you look with him than how he looks on his own, and that's just being self-centered and childish. Hopefully this is not the case and you are actually concerned about him.
2007-03-24 01:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like all you care about is what he looks like. I hate to say this to you and I am not being mean, but why do you have a boyfriend if all you want is "eye candy"? Or is this about your ego and what your friends will think? If all you need for you is someone who is hot, date as many good looking guys as you find, and let your boyfriend find someone that cares about him, inside and out.
2007-03-24 01:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by stormzsecret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't look fat to me.
Maybe he's eating a lot because he's stressed or depressed. Perhaps you should talk to him about that before putting him down because of a few extra pounds.
2007-03-24 01:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he looks kinda normal, you defiantly do not want a really skinny guy, and he seems pretty normal to me. just relax! if he gets really heavy, get a dog and go for walks around the park together.
2007-03-24 01:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by AnnaDaAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He looks OK to me. It's hard to tell with that picture because of the angle of his head.
2007-03-24 02:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not fat at all. You should love him for him even if he's putting on weight.
2007-03-24 01:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him about his eating habit.
2007-03-24 01:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋